POSITIVE NEWS

                                    BE A SOURCE OF POSITIVE NEWS

                       

             I'M NOT SUGGESTING THAT YOU JUST SIT BACK AND IGNORE ALL OF THE PROBLEMS IN YOUR LIFE. HOWEVE, RATHAN THAN COMPLAINING IT'S FAR BETTER TO FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION AND YOUR ENERGY ON THOSE STEPS YOU CAN TAKE TO SOLVE, OR AT LEAST LESSON, YOUR PROBLEM. FOR INSTANCE, LET'S SAY YOUR FEELING A LITTLE TIRED LATELY. INSTEAD OF TELLING EVERYONE HOW LOUSY YOU FEEL, MAKE AN EFFORT TO EXERCISE MORE REGULARLY OF GET TO BED A LITTLE EARLIER.

                   TO REVIEW: COMPLAINTS WORK AGAINST YOU IN THREE WAYS. FIRST, NO ONE WANTS TO HEAR NEGATIVE NEWS ABOUR YOUR ILLNESS AND YOUR PROBLEMS. SECOND, COMPLAINING REINFORCES YOUR OWN PAIN AND DISCOMFORT, SO WHY KEEP REPLAYING PAINFUL, NEGATIVE MEMORIES? THIRD, COMPLAINING, BY ITSELF, ACCOMPLISHES NOTHING AND DIVERTS YOU FROM THE CONSTRUCTIVE ACTIONS YOU COULD BE TAKING TO IMPROVE YOUR SITUATION.

                 IT'S BEEN SAID THAT 90 PERSENT OF THE PEOPLE DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS.. AND THE OTHER 10 PERSENT ARE GLAD YOU HAVE THEM! SERIOULY THOUGH, ALL OF US CAN CUT DOWN ON OUR COMPLAINING. FROM NOW ON, LET'S DO OURSELVES AND OTHERS A FLOVOR AND MAKE OUR CONVERSTIONS UPLIFTING.

                THE PEOPLE WHO DON'T COMPLAIN VERY MUCH ARE A JOY TO BE AROUND. DECIDE TO JOIN THAT GROUP SO PEOPLE WON'T HAVE A CROSS THE STREET WHEN THEY SEE YOU COMING!