ITS YOUR LIFE

                                IT'S NOT ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON

         YOU CAN TELL IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW WHAT YO'RE BEEN GIVING. IF A CURRENT RELATIONSHIP IS GREAT, IT MEANS YOU ARE GIVING MORE LOVE AND GRATITUDE THAN NEGATIVITY. IF A CURRENT RELATIONSHIP IS DIFFICULT OR CHALLENGING, IT MEANS YOU ARE INADVERTENTLY GIVING MORE NEGATIVITY THAN LOVE.

          SOME PEOPLE THINK A RELATIONSHIP IS EITHER GOOD OR BAD BECAUSE OF THE OTHER PERSON, BUT LIFE DOESN'T HAPPEN THAT WAY. YOU CAN'T SAY TO THE FORCE OF LOVE, I WILL GIVE LOVE ONLY WHEN THE OTHER PERSON GIVES IT TO ME!, YOU CAN'T RECEIVE ANYTHING IN LIFE UNLESS YOU GIVE IT FIRST!  WHATEVER YOU GIVE, YOU RECEIVE, SO IT'S NOT ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON AT ALL, IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU! IT'S ALL ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE GIVING AND WHAT YOU ARE FEELING.

          YOU CAN CHANGE ANY RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW BY LOOKING FOR THE THINGS YOU LOVE, APPRECIATE, AND ARE GRATEFUL FOR IN THAT PERSON. WHEN YOU MAKE A DELIBERATE EFFORT TO LOOK FOR THE THINGS YOU LOVE MORE THAN YOU NOTICE NEGATIVE THOUGH SOMETHING INCREDIBLE HAS HAPPENED TO THE OTHER PERSON. BUT IT'S THE FORCE OF LOVE THAT IS INCREDIBLE, BECAUSE IT DISSOLVES NEGATIVITY, INCLUDING NEGATIVITY IN RELATIONSHIPS, ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS HARNESS THE FORCE OF LOVE BY LOOKING FOR THE THINGS YOU LOVE IN THE PERSON, AND EVERYTHING WILL CHANGE IN THE RELATIONSHIP!