HAPPY LIFE

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                   WE LIVE IN A TIME WHEN THINGS CHANGE AT A PACE MUCH FASTER THAN WE CAN IMAGINE. ALL ALONG,  WE THOUGHT IF WE MANAGE TO HAVE A GOOD HOUSE, A NICE AUTOMOBILE, PLENTY OF MONEY TO ENJOY A COMFORTABLE LIFESTYLE, AN UNDERSTANDING AND LOVING PARTNER, A NICE FAMILY, AND REGULAR VACATIONS, WE ARE DONE, EVERYTHING OVER AND BEYOND WILL BE A BONUS. GUESS WHAT? OUR NEEDS ARE NEVER - ENDING AND RIGHTFULLY SO - IT SHOULD NOT END OR WE WILL HAVE NO GOAL TO PURSUE.

              IN THE PAST, WE WERE HAPPY WITH A FIVE HUNDREDSQUARE-FEET HOUSE FOR A FAMILY OF SEVEN. TODAY, EVEN A ONE THOUSAND - FIVE HUNDRED-SQUARE-FEET HOURSE IS NOT ENOUGH FOR A FAMILY OF FOUR. ONECE, A NICE TELEVISION COUND SURVIVE FOR A DECADE, AND TODAY, EVEN THREE FLAT - SCREEN TELEVISIONS ARE NOT ADEQUATE DESPITE BEING CHANGED EVERY FEW YEARS. SUCH EXAMPLES ARE NUMEROUS. LET'S NOT FORGET THE EVERCHANGING MOBILE PHONE MODELS-OUR LIFE COMES TO A STANDSTILL IF WE WITHOUT ONE FOR MORE THAN AN HOUR.

            SURE, IT IS A LAW OF NATURE - TODAY IS BETTER THAN YESTERDAY, AND TOMARROW WILL BE BETTER THAN TODY. WE ARE LIVING A BETTER LIFE THAN THE PREVIOUS GENERATION, AND THE NEXT GENERATION WILL LIVE AN EVE BETTER ONE. WE ARE LIVING IN THE INFORMATION AGE, AND THE YOUNGER GENERATION IS BECOMING SMARTER BY THE DAY. YOU MAY ASK WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING - IT IS THE WAY TO MOVE FORWARD.

                           TODAY IS BETTER THAN YESTERDAY, AND TOMARROW WILL 

                            BE BETTER THAN TODAY.

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                 THE QUESTION IS HOW MUCH IS ENOUGH-IN OTHER WORDS, ARE YOU CONTENT WHILE STRIVING TO GET MORE ? ARE YOU SMELLING THE ROSES ON YOUR PATH WHILE CHASING YOU DREAM OF A BETTER TOMARROW? OR, ARE YOU CONSTANTLY TRAPPED UNDER FEELINGS OF INFERIORITY, ANXIETY, RESTLESSNESS, INSECURITY, AND INADEQUACY? IN SIMPLE TERMS, ARE YOU LOSING YOUR HAPPINESS?

             BE TRUE OF YOURSELF - STRIVE TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS, SET HIGHER GOALS, GO AFTER THEM PASSIONATELY, AND DO NOT TAKE "NO" FOR AN ANSWER. DO ALL OF THESE AND MORE! AFTER ALL, WE ARE DESIGNED TO GROW. DON'T CONFUSE COMPLACENCY WITH BEING CONTENT. YOU CAN CONTINUE TO FEEL CONTENT WHILE STILL WORKING TOWARDS YOUR GOALS. WHEN YOU BECOME COMPLACENT HOWEVER, YOU END UP STAGNATING IN THE SAME PLACE WITH NO GROWTH AT ALL.

            

                      DON'T CONFUSE COMPLACENCY WITH BEING CONTENT

                    IF YOU SO NOT LEARN TO BE CONTENT, YOU CAN ACHIEVE MANY THINGS IN LIFE AND STILL BE UNHAPPY AS THAT BECOMES YOUR SECOND NATURE.  IF WAS NOT EASY FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND THIS THROUGHOUT MY LIFE. MY WIFE COULD UNDERSTAND ME MUCH BETTER THAN ANYBODY ELSE COULD.

                SHE MONITORED ME CLOSELY AND TOLD ME TO WORK ON MY STATE OF MIND. SHE HAD NOTICED I WAS GETTING ANXIOUS ABOUT ACHIEVING MY GOALS. SHE ALSO TOLE ME THAT WITH SUCH A STATE OF MIND, EVEN IF I DID ACHIEVE MY GOALS AND HAD PLENTY OF MONEY, I WOULD NOT BE HAPPY AND AT PEACE WITH MYSELF. BEING THE KIND OF PERSON. I AM, I DID NOT BUT INTO THIS ARGUMENT AND CONTINUED IN THAT RESTLESS STATE OF YEARS.

                   HOWEVER, I WAS ALWAYS WORKING ON MYSELF AND WILLING TO LEARN FROM MY MISTAKES - THANKS TO MY HABIT OF READING SELF - HELP BOOKS FOR MORE THAN TEN YEARS. EACH OF THOSE GREAT AUTHORS HAS HELPED ME GROW INCH MY INCH. I STARTED REALISING THAT I COULD NOT PUT MY HAPPINESS ON HOLD, THINKING THAT I CAN BE HAPPY ONCE I HAVE PLENTY OF MONEY, RETIRE, BE FREE OF MY JOB, AND BE ABLE TO DO WHATEVER I WANTED THEN.

                 WHAT A FOOLISH THOUGHT! BUT, YES, I LIVED LIKE THAT FOR MANY YEARS, AND I WANT TO LEARN FROM MY EXPERIENCE. THIS IS SOMETHING THAT IS NOT JUST MY PERSONAL EXPERIECE AND AUTHORS WHO HAVE CHANGED THOUSANDS OF LIVES. I HAVE LISTED SOME OF THE BOOKS THAT CONTRIBUTED TO TRANSFORMING MY LIFE AT THE END OF THIS BOOK. I URGUE YOU TO READ THEM AT SOME POINT IN YOUR LIFE.

             PRACTICE THA BELOW MENTIONED GUIDELINES, WHICH ARE PROVEN AND TIME-TESTED SPIRITUAL LAWS OF WHOLESOME SUCCESS.

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1. THANK GOD EVERY DAY FOR WHAT YOU HAVE. LIKE HOW YOU NEED FOOD AND A BATH EVERY DAY, YOUR SOUL NEEDS CLEANSING. WHAT COULD BE A BETTER WAY THAN TO THANK GOD FOR WHAT YOU HAVE AND LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU HAVE FAITH IN HIM FOR YOU TO SUCCEED AND ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS. YOU ARE HERE FOR A REASON, AND YOU DREAMS ARE IMPLANTED IN YOU BY HIM - SO, RELAX AND SURRENDER YOURSELF TO THE ALMIGHTY WHO BROUGHT YOU INTO THIS WORLD.

2. WHILE YOU MAY OR MAY NOT YET BELIEVE IN YOUR DREAM/GOALS, WRITE THEM DOWN AND VERBALISE AS IF YOU HAVE ALREADY ACHIEVED IT. FOR EXAMPLE, IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR THE RIGHT PARTNER, SAY. "THAN YOU, GOD, FOR BRINGING THE RIGHT PARTNER INTO MY LIFE", ALOUD. IF YOU WANT TO SUCCEED IN YOUR BUSINESS, SAY "THANK YOU, GOD FOR BRINGING THE RIGHT OPPORTUNITY IN FRONT OF ME AND FOR MAKING ME DO THE RIGHT THINGS IN ORDE TO SUCCEDD". THERE ARE SOME GREAT BOOK ON THE POWER OF SELF-TALK- YOU CAN FIND AND READ IT.

3. WATCH YOUR WORDS OF DISBELIEF - FOR EXAMPLE, EVEN THOUGH YOU MAY WANT TO SAY POSITIVE THINGS, DEEP DOWN YOU MAY NOT QUITE BELIEVE OR FEEL IT IS GOING TO HAPPEN. IT IS IKAY TO FEEL THAT WAY - JUST LET IT REMAIN THERE, LET IT NOT COME OUT OF YOUR MOUTH. ONCE IT COMES OUT, YOU ARE INVITING THINGS YOU DON'T WANT INTO YOUR LIFE.

4.  LIVE IN THE MOMENT - IF YOU WANT TO FEEL GOOD AND BE HAPPY, FEEL SO RIGHT NOW - DON'T POSTPONE YOUR HAPPINESS. THIS IS KEY TO EVERYTHING ELSE THAT HAPPENS IN YOUR LIFE. JUST LIVE FOR THE MOMENT, AND AS YOU PRATICE THIS, IT WILL BECOME YOUR HABIT, MOREOVER, DID YOU KNOW THAT UNIVERSAL POWERS ARE ATTRACTED TO HAPPY PEOPLE EASILY?

5. GET RID OF YOUR EGO AT ONCE- THIS SINGLE ELEMENT CAN RELIVE YOU OF MOST OF YOUR BURDEN. HERE ARE A COUPLE OF SIMPLE EXAMPLES OF YOUR EGO AT PLAY. IF YOU ARE SHY TO SPEAK IN PUBLIC, IT IS BECAUSE YOU DO NOT WANT PEOPLE TO LAUGH AT YOU, WHICH HURTS YOUR EGO. OVERCOME THAT, AND YOU WILL MAKE GREAT STRIDES. ANOTHER EXAPLE IS THE TEMPTATION TO INTERRUPT SOMEONE WHILE HE/SHE IS TALKING BECAUSE YOU WANT YOUR POINT TO BE HEARD FIRST OR BECAUSE YOU DISAPPROVE OF THE PERSON WHO IS TALKING. THUS. YOUR EGO COULD BE THE BIGGEST OBSTACLES TO YOUR GROWTH.

6. GET OUT OF THE IF-THEN SYSDROME, - IF I GET THE RIGHT PARTNER, THEN I WILL BE HAPPY, IF RETIRE, THEN I WILL  BE HAPPY, IF MY INCOME DOUBLES, THEN I WILL BE HAPPY, IF I WIN THIS MATCH, THEN I WILL BE HAPPY, ISTEAD SAY, "THANK YOU GOD,"! I AM PUTTING MY BEST FOOT FORWARD WITH YOUR BLESSINGS, AND I KNEW YOU WILL LEAD ME TOWARDS WHAT IS BEST FOR ME.

7. BE HAPPY FOR OTHERS- IF SOMEONE SUCCEEDS, BE HAPPY FOR THEM AND SAY, "THAN GOD IT IS RANING BLESSINGS, MY TURN WILL SURELY COME NEXT."

8. DON'T TAKE YOURSELF TOO SERIOUSLY, LEARN TO LAUGH AT YOUR MISTAKES. IT IS ALSO IMPORTANT TO LEARN TO KEEP QUIET WHEN SOMEONE ID MAD AT YOU.

9. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS- YOU ARE WHO ARE ARE, AND YOU ARE BEST THE WAY YOU ARE. THIS IS BECAUSE GOD HAS MADE YOU, AND HE KNOWS WHAT TO DO WITH YOU!

10.  STOP BEING JEDGEMENTAL- JUDGE NOBODY, AND JUDGE NOTHING. YOU DO NOT HAVE THE RIGHT TO JUDGE ANYBODY ELSE- IT IS OT UNDER YOUR JURISDICTION. PEOPLED ARE PEOPLE, AND EACH ONE HAS HIS/HER OWN JOURNEY. EVEN IF YOU DO NOT LIKE THE WAY THEY TREAT YOU OR THE WAY THEY BEHAVE, LEARN TO IGNORE IT. THINK ABOUT IT IN THIS WAY-YOU HAVE MANY CHARACTERISTICS THAT MAY NOT BE LIKED BY MANY, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF THEY STARTED JUDGING YOU?

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