CHILDRENS WITH GOOD HABITS
❤ TEACH HIM TO PUT A PRICE TAG ON EVERYTHING AND HE WILL PUT HIS INTEGRITY FOR SALE.
❤ TEACH HIM NEVER TO TAKE A STAND AND THEN HE WILL FALL OR ANYTHING.
❤ MAKE HIM BELIEVE THAT WINNING IS NOT EVERYTHING, THAT IT IS THE ONLY THING AND HE WILL MAKE EVERY EFFORT TO WIN BY HOOK OR BY CROOK.
❤ GIVE A CHILD EVERYTHING HE WANTS RIGHT FROM INFANCY AND HE WILL GROW UP BELIEVING THAT THE WORLD OWES HIM A LIVING AND EVERYTHING WILL BE HANDED TO HIM ON A PLATTER.
❤ WHEN HE PICKS UP BAD LANGUAGE, LAUGH AT HIM. THIS WILL MAKE HIM THINK HE IS CUTE.
❤ DON'T EVER GIVE HIM ANY MORAL OR ETHICAL VALUES. WAIT UNTIL HE IS 21 AND LET HIM DETERMINE HIS OWN.
❤ GIVE HIM CHOICES HAS A CONSEQUENCE.
❤ NEVER TELL HIM HE IS WRONG HE MIGHT DEVELOP A COMPLEX. THIS WILL CONDITION HIM TO BELIEVE THAT SOCIETY IS AGAINST HIM WHEN HE GETS ARRESTED FOR DOING SOMETHING WRONG.
❤ ALWAYS PICK UP THINGS THAT HE LEAVES LYING AROUND - BOOKS, SHOES, CLOTHES, AND SO ON. DO EVERYTHING FOR HIM SO THAT HE WILL LEARN TO PUSH ALL RESPONSIBILITIES ONTO OTHERS.
❤ LET HIM READ, WATCH AND HEAR ANYTHIG HE WANTS, BE CAREFUL WHAT HE FEEDS HIS BODY, BUT LET HIS MIND FEED ON GARBAGE.
❤ IN ORDER TO BE POPULAR WITH HIS PEERS, HE MUST GO ALONG TO GET ALONG.
❤ QUARREL FREQUENTLY WHEN HE IS PRESENT. THIS WAY HE WON'T BE SURPRISED WHEN THINGS FALL APART AT HOME.
❤ GIVE HIM AS MUCH MONEY AS HE WANTS. NEVER TEACH HIM RESPECT FOR THE VALUE OF MONEY. MAKE SURE HE DOES HAVE THINGS AS TOUGH AS YOU DID.
❤ PROVIDE INSTANT GRATIFICATION FOR ALL SENSUAL DESIRES SUCH AS FOOD, DRINK AND COMFORT. DEPRIVATION CAN CAUSE FRUSTRATION.
❤ SIDE WITH HIM AGAINST NEIGHBORS AND TEACHERS, AS THEY ARE PREJUDICED AGAINST HIM.
❤ WHEN HE GETS INTO REAL TROUBLE, EXCUSE YOURSELF BY SAYING, I TRIED MY BEST BUT COULD NEVER DO ANYTHING WITH HIM.
❤ DON'T PUT YOUR FOOT DOWN BECAUSE YOU BELIEVE DISCIPLINE TAKES AWAY FREEDOM.
CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE
IF A CHILD LIVES WITH CRITICISM, HE LEARNS TO CONDEMN.
IF A CHILD LIVES WITH PRAISE, HE LEARNS TO APPRECIATE.
IF A CHILD LIVES WITH HOSTILITY, HE LEARNS TO FIGHT.
IF A CHILD LIVES WITH TOLERANCE, HE LEARNS TO BE PATIENT.
IF A CHILD LIVES WITH RIDICULE, HE LEARNS TO BE SHY.
IF A CHILD LIVES WITH ENCOURAGEMENT, HE LEARN CONFIDENCE.
IF A CHILD LIVES WITH SHAME, HE LEARNS TO FEEL GUILTY.
IF A CHILD LIVES WITH APPROVAL, HE LEARNS TO LIKE HIMSELF.
IF A CHILD LIVES WITH SECURITY, HE LEARNS TO HAVE FAITH.
IF A CHILD LIVES WITH ACCEPTANCE AND FRIENDSHIP,
HE LEARNS TO FIND LOVE IN THE WORLD.
WHAT CHILDREN GET, THEY GIVE TO SOCIETY.
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BUILDING SELF-CONFIDENCE
A YOUNG COUPLE USED TO LEAVE THEIR DAUGHTER AT A DAYCARE CENTER EVERY DAY BEFORE GOING TO WORK. AS THEY PARTED COMPANY, THE PARENTS AND CHILD KISSED EACH OTHER'S HAND AND THEN PUT THE KISSES IN THEIR POCKETS. ALL DURING THE DAY WHEN THE LITTLE GIRL GOT LONELY SHE WOULD TAKE OUT A KISS AND PUT IT ON HER CHEEK. THIS LITTLE ROUTINE MADE THEM FEEL TOGETHER EVEN THOUGH THEY WERE PHYSICALLY APART. WHAT A WONDERFUL THOUGHT.
EDUCATION
BEING IGNORANT IS NOT SHAMEFUL, BUT BEING UNWILLING TO LEARN IS. ROLE MODELS CAN TEACH THROUGH EXAMPLE. CHILDREN WHO ARE TAUGHT THE IMPORTANT OF INTEGRITY DURING THEIR FORMATIVE YEARS GENERALLY DON'T LOSE IT. IT BECOMES A PART OF LIFE, WHICH IS WHAT WE ARE LOOKING FOR IN ANY PROFESSIONAL, WHETHER A CONTRACTOR, ATTORNEY, ACCOUNTANT, POLITICIAN, POLICE OFFICER OR JUDGE, INTEGRITY IS A LOT STRONGER THAN HONESTY. IN FACT IT IS THE FOUNDATION OS HONESTY.
YOUTH ARE IMPRESSIONABLE, WHEN THEY SEE THEIR MENTORS - SUCH AS PARENTS, TEACHERS OR POLITICAL DISHONESTY SUCH AS STEALING A TOWEL IN A HOTEL OR CUTLEY FROM THE RESTAURANTS, THE FOLLOWING HAPPENS.
👀THEY ARE DISAPPOINTED.
👀 THEY LOSE RESPECT FOR THEIR MENTORS.
👀 CONSTANT EXPOSURE BREEDS ACCEPTANCE IN THEM.
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