THE TRUST RELATIONSHIPS

                                                                         TRUST 

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                   ALL RELATIONSHIP ARE TRUST RELATIONSHIPS. RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN EMPLOYER AND EMPLOYEE, PARENT AND CHILD, HUSBAND AND WIFE, STUDENT AND TEACHER, BUYER AND SELLLER, AND CUSTOMER AND SALESPERSON ARE ALL TRUST RELATIONSHIPS. HOW CAN WE HAVE TRUS WITHOUT INTEGRITY? CRISIS IN TRUST REALLY MEANS CRISIS IN TRUTH. TRUST RESULTS FROM BEING TRUSTWORTHY.

                WHAT ARE THE FACTORS THAT BUILD TRUST?

             👀 RELIABILITY - GIVES PREDICTABILITY AND COMES FROM COMMITMENT.

             👀 CONSISTENCY- BUILDS CONFIDENCE.

             👀 RESPECT - TO SELF AND OTHERS GIVES DIGNITY AND SHOWS A CARING ATTITUDE.

             👀 FAIRNESS - APPEALS TO JUSTICE AND INTEGRITY.

             👀 OPENNESS - SHOWS A WILLINGNESS TO LISTEN AND SHARE YOUR VIEWS.

            👀 CONGRUENCE - ACTION AND WORDS HARMONIZE. IF A PERSON SAYS ONE THING AND BEHAVES DIFFERENTLY, HOW CAN YOU TRUST THAT PERSON?

           👀 COMPETENCE - COMES WHEN A PERSON HAS THE ABILITY AND THE ATTITUDE TO SERVE.

           👀 INTEGRITY - INSPITE OF OUR EFFORT TO IMPROVE WE NEED TO ACCEPT EACH OTHER WITH OUR PLUSES AND MINUSES.

           👀 CHARACTER - A PERSON MAY HAVE ALL THE COMPETENCE BUT IF HE LACKS CHARACTER HE CAN'T BE TRUSTED.

            👀 COURAGE - A PERSON WHO LACKS COURAGE WILL LET YOU DOWN IN A CRISIS.

                       TRUST IS MANY WAYS IS A MUCH GREATER COMPLIMENT THAN LOVE. THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE WE LOVE BUT WE CAN'T TRUST THEM. RELATIONSHIPS ARE LIKE BANK ACCOUNTS. THE MORE WE DEPOSIT, THE LARGER THEY BECOME, THEREFORE, THE MORE WE CAN DRAW FROM THEM. HOWEVER, IF YOU TRY TO DRAW WITHOUT DEPOSITING, IT LEADS TO DISAPPOINTMENT. 

                     MANY TIMES WE FEEL WE ARE OVERDRAWN BUT, IN REALITY, WE MAY BE UNDER-DEPOSITED.

                      BELOW ARE SOME OF THE CONSEQUENCES OF POOR RELATIONSHIPS AND THE LACK OF TRUST.

                    👀 STRESS                                                           👀 POOR HEALTH

                   👀 LACK OF COMMUNICATION                     👀 DISTRUST

                   👀 IRRITATION                                                    👀 ANGER

                   👀 CLOSEMINDEDNESS                                   👀 PREJUDICE

                   👀 NO TEAM SPIRIT                                          👀 BREAKDOWN OF MORALE

                   👀 LACK OF CREDIBILITY                              👀 UNCOOPERATIVE BEHAVIOR

                   👀 POOR SELF-ESTEEM                                   👀 CONFLICT

                   👀 SUSPICION                                                    👀 FRUSTRATION

                   👀 LOSS OF PRODUCTIVITY                           👀 UNHAPPINESS

                   👀 ISOLATION 

                                  YOUR CONSCIOUS AND SUBCONSCIOUS MIND

             THE CONSCIOUS MIND HAS THE ABILITY TO THINK. IT CAN ACCEPT OR REJECT. BUT THE SUBCONSCIOUS ONLY ACCEPTS. IT MAKES NO DISTINCTION REGARDING INPUT. IF WE FEED OUR MIND WITH THOUGHTS OF FEAR, DOUBT AND HATE, THE AUTO-SUGGESTIONS WILL ACTIVATE AND TRANSLATE THOSE THINGS INTO REALITY. THE SUBCONSCIOUS IS LIKE A DATABANK. THE SUBCONSCIOUS IS LIKE THE AUTOMOBILE WHILE THE CONSCIOUS IS LIKE THE DRIVER. OF THE TWO, THE SUBCONSCIOUS IS MOR POWERFUL. THE POWER IS IN THE AUTOMOBILE BUT THE CONTROL IS WITH THE DRIVER. 

               THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND CAN WORK FOR US OR AGAINST US. IT IS NOT RATIONAL. IF WE ARE NOT SUCCESSFUL, WE NEED TO REPROGRAM THE SUBCONSCIOUS.

                 THE SUBCONSCIOUS MIND IS LIKE A GARDEN, IT DOESN'T CARE WHAT WE PLANT. IT IS NEUTRAL, IT HAS NO PREFERENCES. IF WE PLANT GOOD SEEDS, WE WILL HAVE A GOOD GARDEN, OTHERWISE, WE WILL HAVE A WILD GROWTH OF WEEDS, I'D GO A STEP FURTHER TO SAY, EVEN WHEN WE PLANT GOOD SEEDS, WEEDS STILL GROW AND THE WEDDING PROCESS MUST CONTINUE CONSTANTLY.

                    THE HUMAN MIND IS NO DIFFERENT. POSITIVE AND NEGATIVVE THOUGHTS CAN'T OCCUPY THE MIND SIMULTANEOUSLY.

                    IN ORDER TO SUCCEED, WE NEED TO GET PROGRAMMED IN A POSITIVE WAY.

                                                   RESISTANCE TO CHANGE

                  WHEN PEOPLE RECOGNIZE OR BECOME AWARE OF THEIR NEGATIVE HABITS, WHY DON'T THEY CHANGE?

                   THE REASON THEY DON'T CHANGE IS BECAUSE THE REFUSE TO ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY. THE PLEASURE OF CONTINUING IS GREATER THAN THE PAIN. THEY MAY:

                   👀 LACK THE DESIRE TO CHANGE

                   👀LACK THE DISCIPLINE TO CHANGE

                   👀 LACK THE BELIEF THAT THEY CAN CHANGE

                   👀 LACK THE AWARENESS FOR THE NEED TO CHANGE

                                   

                  ALL OF THESE FACTORS PREVENT US FROM GETTING RID OF OUR NEGATIVE HABITS. WE ALL HAVE A CHOICE. WE CAN IGNORE NEGATIVE BEHAVIOR AND HOPE IT WILL GO AWAY- THE OSTRICH APPROACH - OR FACE UP TO IT AND OVERCOM IT FOR LIFE. BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION COMES FORM OVERCOMING IRRIATIONAL FEARS AND GETTING OUT OF THE CONFORT ZONE. REMEMBER, FEARS AND GETTING OUT OF THE CONFORT ZONE. REMEMBER, FEAR IS A LEARNED BEHAVIOR AND CAN BE UNLEARNED. 

             THE FOLLOWING EXCUSES ARE THE MOST COMMON EXPLANATIONS FOR NOT CHANGING NEGATIVE HABITS.

             1. I HAVE ALWAYS DONE IT THAT WAY.

             2. I HAVE NEVER DONE IT THAT WAY.

             3. THAT IS NO NOT MY JOB.

            4. I DON'T THINK IT WILL MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE.

            5. I'M TOO BUSY.

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