HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS

               

                             THE MASTER KEY TO HAPPY RELATIONSHIPS 

                                                      WITH OTHERS

                      JUDGE NO, THAT BE NOT JUDGED. FOR WITH WHAT JUDGMENT YE JUDGE, YE SHALL BE JUDGED: AND WITH WHAT MEASURE YE METE, IT SHALL BE MEASURED TO YOU AGAIN. MATTHEW 7:1-2.

                  A STUDY OF THESE VERSES AND THE APPLICATION OF THE INNER TRUTHS THEREIN CONTAINED REPRESENT THE REAL KEY TO HARMONIOUS RELATIONS. TO JUDGE IS TO THINK, TO ARRIVE AT A MENTAL VERDICT OR CONCLUSION IN YOUR MIND. THE THOUGHT YOU HAVE ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON IS YOUR THOUGHT, BECAUSE YOU ARE THINKING IT.

               YOUR THOUGHTS ARE CREATIVE, THEREFORE, YOU ACTUALLY CREATE IN YOUR OWN EXPERIENCE WHAT YOU THINK AND FEEL ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON. IT IS ALSO TRUE THAT THE SUGGESTION YOU GIVE TO ANOTHER, YOU GIVE TO YOURSELF BECAUSE YOUR MIND IS THE CREATIVE MEDIUM.

             THIS IS WHY IT IS SAID, FOR WITH WHAT JUDGMENT YE JUDGE, YE SHALL BE JUDGED. WHEN YOU KNOW THIS LAW AND THE WAY YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND WORKS, YOU ARE CAREFUL TO THINK, FEL, AND ACT RIGHTS TOWARD THE OTHER. THESE VERSES TEACH YOU ABOUT THE EMANCIPATION OF MAN AND REVEAL TO YOU THE SOLUTION TO YOUR INDIVIDUAL PROBLEMS.

                                    AND WITH WHAT MEASURE YE METE,

                                    IT SHALL BE MEASURED TO YOU AGAIN

                THE GOOD YOU DO FOR OTHERS COMES BACK TO YOU IN LIKE MEASURE, AND THE EVIL YOU DO RETURNS TO YOU BY THE LAW OF YOUR MIND. IF A MAN CHEATS AND DECEIVES ANOTHER, HE IS ACTUALLY CHEATING AND DECEIVING HIMSELF. HIS SENSE OF GUILT AND MOOD OF LOSS INEVITABLY WILL ATTRACT LOSS TO HIM IN SOME WAY, AT SOME TIME. HIS SUBCONSCIOUS RECORDS HIS MENAL ACT AND REACTS ACCORDING TO THE MENTAL INTENTION OR MOTIVATION.

              YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND IS IMPERSONAL AND UNCHANGING, NEITHER CONSIDERING PERSONS NOR RESPECTING RELIGIOUS AFFILIATIONS OR INSTITUTIONS OF ANY KIND. IT IS NEITHER COMPASSIONATE NOR VINDICTIVE. THE WAY YOU THINK, FEEL, AND ACT TOWARD OTHERS RETURNS AT LAST UPON YOURSELF.

                                   THE DAILY HEADLINES MADE HIM SICK

                                      

              BEGIN NOW TO OBSERVE YOURSELF, OBSERVE YOUR REACTIONS TO PEOPLE, CONDITIONS, AN CIRCUMSTANCES. HOW DO YOU RESPOND TO THE EVENTS AND NEWS OF THE DAY? IT MAKES NO DIFERENCE IF ALL THE OTHER PEOPLE WERE WRONG AND YOU ALONE WERE RIGHT. IF THE NEWS DISTURBS YOU, IT IS YOUR EVIL BECAUSE YOUR NEGATIVE EMOTIONS ROBBED YOU OF PEACE AND HARMONY.

             A WOMAN WROTE ME ABOUT HER HUSBAND, SAYING THAT HE GOES INTO A RANGE WHEN HE READS WHAT CERTAIN NEWSPAPER COLUMNISTS WRITE IN THE NEWSPAPER. SHE ADDED THAT THIS CONSTANT REACTION OF ANGER AND SUPPRESSED RAGE ON HIS PART BROUGHT ON BLEEDING ULCERS, AND HIS PHYSICIAN RECOMMENDED AN EMOTIONAL RECONDITIONING.

           I INVITED THIS MAN TO SEE ME AND I EXPLAINED TO HIM THE WAY HIS MIND FUNCTIONS INDICATING HOW EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE IT WAS TO GET ANGRY WHEN OTHERS WRITE ARTICLES WITH WHICH HE SHOULD GIVE THE NEWSPAPERMAN FREEDOM TO EXPRESS HIMSELF EVEN THOUGH THE LATTER DISAGREED WITH HIM POLITICALLY, RELIGIOUSLY, OR IN ANY OTHER WAY. IN THE SAME MANNER, THE NEWSPAPERMAN WOULD GIVE HIM FREEDOM TO WRITE A LETTER TO THE NEWSPAPER DISAGREEING WITH HIS PUBLISHED STATEMENTS. HE LEARNED THAT HE COULD DISAGREE WITHOUT BEING DISAGREEABLE. HE AWAKENED TO THE SIMPLE TRUTH BEING DISAGREABLE. HE AWAKENED TO THE SIMPLE TRUTH THAT IT IS NEVER WHAT A PERSON SAYS OR DOES THAT AFFECTS HIM, IT IS HIS REACTION TO WHAT IS SAID OR DONE THAT MATTERS SAY. THEY NO LONGER HAVE POWER TO DISTURB, ANNOY, AND IRRITATE HIM. HIS ULCERS HAVE DISAPPEARED DUT TO HIS EMOTIONAL POISE AND SERENITY.

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