AUTOMATIC PILOT

                              TAKE YOUR FEELINGS OFF AUTOMATIC PILOT

             MANY PEOPLE DON'T KNOW ABOUT THE POWER OF GOOD FEELINGS, AND SO THEIR FEELINGS ARE REACTIONS OR RESPONSE OF WHAT HAPPENS TO THEM. THEY HAVE PUT THEIR FEELINGS ON AUTOMATIC PILOT, INSTEAD OF DELIBERATELY TAKING CHARGE OF THEM. WHEN SOMETHING GOOD HAPPENS, THEY FEEL GOOD. WHEN SOMETHING BAD HAPPENS, THEY FEEL BAD. THEY DON'T REALIZE THAT THEIR FEELINGS ARE THE CAUSE OF WHAT IS HAPPENING TO THEM. AS THEIR FEELINGS ARE THE NEGATIVE FEELINGS TO SOMETHING THAT HAS HAPPENED, THEY GIVE OUT MORE NEGATIVE FEELINGS, AND THEY RECEIVE BACK MORE NEGATIVE CIRCUMSTANCES. THEY BECOME TRAPPED IN A CYCLE NOT GETTING ANYWHERE, LIKE A HAMSTER ON A WHEEL, BECAUSE THEY DON'T REALIZE THAT TO CHANGE THEIR LIFE, THEY MUST CHANGE THEIR FEELING FREQUENCY!

                " IF YOU WANT TO FIND THE SECRETS OF THE UNIVERSE,

                  THINK IN TERMS OF ENERGY, FREQUENCY, AND VIBRATION"

                   IF YOU DON'T HAVE ENOUGH MONEY, NATURALLY YOU DON'T FEEL GOOD ABOUT MONEY, BUT THE MONEY IN YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER CHANGE WHILE YOU DON'T FEEL GOOD ABOUT IT. IF YOU GIVE OUT NEGATIVE FEELINGS ABOUT MONEY, YOU'RE ON A NEGATIVE FREQUENCY ABOUT MONEY AND YOU WILL RECEIVE BACK NEGATIVE CIRCUMSTANCES SUCH AS BIG BILLS OR THINGS BREAKING DOWN, WHICH ARE ALL CIRCUMSTANCES THAT DRAIN YOU OF MONEY. WHEN YOU REACT WITH NEGATIVE FEELINGS TO A BIG BILL, YOU GIVE OUT MORE NEGATIVE FEELINGS ABOUT MONEY, WHICH BRING EVEN MORE NEGATIVE CIRCUMSTANCES TO YOU THAT DRAIN YOU OF MORE MONEY.

                         " DO NOT WASTE ONE MOMENT IN REGRET, FOR

                           TO THINK FEELINGLY OF THE MISTAKES OF THE PAST

                            IS TO RE-INFECT YOURSELF".

FEEL ABOUT MONEY

                                                THE POINT OF CREATION

                       WHEN YOU CHANGE THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT MONEY, THE AMOUNT OF MONEY IN YOUR LIFE WILL CHANGE. THE BETTER YOU FEEL ABOUT MONEY, THE MORE MONEY YOU MAGNETIZE TO YOURSELF.

                       YOU CAN TREND TO THINK OF THE THINGS YOU WANT AS REALLY BIG THINGS, BUT YOUR PERPECTIVE IS WAY OUT OF PROPORTION WHEN YOU THINK THAT WAY. WHEN YOU THINK SOMETHING IS REALLY BIG, IN EFFECT YOU'RE SAYING TO THE LAW OF ATTRACTION, THIS IS SO BIG IT'S GOING TO BE DIFFICULT TO ACHIEVE, AND IT'S PROBABLY GOING TO TAKE A REALLY LONG TIME, AND YOU WILL BE RIGHT, BECAUSE WHATEVER YOU THINK AND FEEL IS WHAT YOU WILL RECEIVE. IF YOU THINK YOUR DESIRE IS REALLY BIG, YOU WILL CREATE DIFFICULTY AND A TIME DELAY IN RECEIVING WHAT YOU WANT. BUT THERE IS NO BIG OR SMALL FOR THE LAW OF ATTRACTION, AND THERE IS NO CONCEPT TO TIME FOR THE LAW OF ATTRACTION.

                     TO HELP YOU HAVE THE TRUE PERSPECTIVE OF CREATION, NO MATTER HOW BIG YOUR DESIRE MAY SEEM TO YOU, THINK OF IT AS THE SIZE OF DOT! YOU MAY WANT A HOUSE, CAR, VACATION,MONEY, THE PERFECT PARTNER, YOUR DREAM JOB, OR CHILDREN. YOU MAY WANT TO RECEIVE FULL HEALTH IN YOUR BODY. YOU MAY WANT TO PASS EXAMS, GET INTO A PARTICULAR COLLEGE, BREAK A WORLD RECORE, BECOME PRESIDENT, A SUCCESSFUL ACTOR, LAWYER, WRITER, OR TEACHER. IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT IT IS YOU WANT, THINK OF IT AS THE SIZE OF A DOT, BECAUSE FOR THE FORCE OF LOVE, WHAT YOU WANT IS SMALLER THAN A DOT!.

MAGNET POWER

                                                    YOU ARE A MAGNET

             THE LAW OF ATTRACTION IS UNFAILINGLY GIVING YOU EVERY SINGLE THING IN YOUR LIFE BASED ON WHAT YOU'RE GIVING OUT. YOU MAGNETIZE AND RECEIVE THE CIRCUMSTANCES OF WEALTH, HEALTH, RELATIONSHIPS, YOUR JOB, AND EVERY SINGLE EVENT AND EXPERIENCE IN YOUR LIFE, BASED ON THE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS YOU'RE GIVING OUT. GIVE OUT POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS ABOUT MONEY, AND YOU MAGNETIZE POSITIVE CIRCUMSTANCES, PEOPLE, AND EVENTS THAT BRING MORE MONEY, AND YOU MAGNETIZE NEGATIVE CIRCUMSTANCES, PEOPLE, AND EVENTS THAT CAUSE YOU TO HAVE A LACK OF MONEY.

                  "WHETHER HUMANITY WILL CONSCIOUSLY FOLLOW THE LAW

                    OF LOVE, I DO NOT KNOW. BUT THAT NEED NOT DISTURB ME.

                    THE LAW WILL WORK JUST AS THE LAW OF GRAVITATION

                    WORKS WHETHER WE ACCEPT IT OR NOT"

                      

BEAUTY OF LOVE

                                         BEAUTY COMES FROM LOVE

        "AS LOVE GROWS IN YOU, BEAUTY GROWS TOO. FOR LOVE

          IS THE BEAUTY OF THE SOUL"

              ALL BEAUTY COMES FROM THE FORCE OF LOVE. UNLIMITED BEAUTY IS AVAILABLE TO YOU THROUGH LOVE, BUT THE PROBLEM IS THAT MOST PEOPLE FIND FAULT AND CRITICIZE THEIR BODY MORE THAN THEY APPRECIATE IT. LOOKING AT YOUR FAULTS AND BEING UNHAPPY ABOUT ANYTHING ABOUT YOUR BODY DOES NOT BRING BEAUTY TO YOU! ALL IT BRINGS IS MORE FAULTS AND MORE UNHAPPINESS.

            THE BEAUTY BUSINESS IS ENORMOUS, YET UNLIMITED BEAUTY IS BEING POURED DOWN TO YOU IN EVERY SECOND. BUT YOU HAVE TO GIVE LOVE TO RECEIVE IT! THE HAPPIER YOU ARE, THE MORE BEAUTYFUL YOU WILL BE. LINES WILL FADE, SKIN WILL TIGHTEN AND BEGIN TO GLOW, HAIR WILL BECOMES THICKER AND STRONGER, EYES WILL BEGIN TO SPARKLE, AND THEIR COLOR WILL INTENSIFY. AND MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE,YOU WILL SEE THE PROOF THAT BEAUTY COMES FROM LOVE WHEN PROPLE ARE DRAWN TO YOU WHEREVER YOU GO.

MOVIE OF YOUR LIFE

                                         WATCH THE MOVIE OF YOUR LIFE

             LIFE IS MAGICAL! WHAT HAPPENS IN ONE DAY OF YOUR LIFE IS MORE MAGICAL THAN ANY FANTASY MOVIE YOU CAN SEE, BUT YOU HAVE TO LOOK AT WHAT HAPPENING WITH THE SAME CONCENTRATION AS WHEN YOU WATCH A MOVIE. IF YOU'RE WATCHING A MOVIE AND YOU GET DISTRACTED WITH A PHONE CALL OR YOU FALL ASLEEP, YOU MISS WHAT HAPENS, IT'S THE SAME THING WITH THE MOVIE OF YOUR LIFE THAT IS CONSTANTLY SHOWING ON THE SCREEN OF YOUR DAY. IF YOU ARE WALKING AROUND ASLEEP AND YOU'RE NOT ALERT, YOU MISS THE MESSAGES AND SYNCHRONICITIES THAT ARE CONSTANTLY SPEAKING TO YOU, GUIDING AND DIRECTING YOU IN YOUR LIFE!.

             LIFE IS RESPONDING TO YOU. LIFE IS COMMUNICATING WITH YOU. THERE ARE NO ACCIDENTS OR COINCIDENCE EVERY SINGLE THING HAS A FREQUENCY, AND WHEN ANYTHING COMES INTO YOUR LIFE, IT MEANS IT'S ON THE SAME FREQUENCY AS YOU ARE. EVERYTHING YOU SEE EVERY SIGN, COLOR, PERSON, OBJECT, EVERYTHING YOU HEAR EVERY CIRCUMSTANCE AND EVENT IS ON YOUR FREQUENCY.

          "SO ASTOUNDING ARE THE FACTS IN THIS CONNECTION THAT

             IT WOULD SEEM AS THROUGH THE CREATOR HIMSELF HAD

             ELECTRICALLY DESIGNED THIS PLANET"

FORCE OF LOVE

                                      NO EXCUSES FOR THE FORCE OF LOVE

                IF YOUR LIFE IS NOT FILLED WITH EVERYTHING YOU LOVE, IT DOESN'T MEAN YOU'RE NOT A GOOD AND LOVING PERSON. THE LIFE PURPOSE FOR EACH OF US IS TO OVERCOME NEGATIVITY BY CHOOSING LOVE. THE PROBLEM IS THAT MOST PEOPLE LOVE AND THEN STOP LOVING HUNDREDS OF TIMES IN A DAY. THEY DON'T GIVE LOVE LONG ENOUGH FOR THE FORCE OF LOVE TO MOVE ALL THE GOOD THINGS INTO THEIR LIFE. THINK ABOUT IT; ONE MOMENT YOU GIVE LOVE THROUGH A WARM HUG WITH A LOVED ONE, AND THEN YOU STOP GIVING LOVE WITHIN MINUTES WHEN YOU GET ANNOYED BECAUSE YOU CAN'T FIND YOUR KEYS OR YOU'RE DELAYED IN TRAFFIC OR YOU CAN'T FIND A PARKING SPACE. YOU GIVE LOVE WHEN YOU LAUGH WITH A WORK COLLEAGUE, AND THEN STOP WHEN YOU GET DISAPPPOINTED BECAUSE THE LOCAL LUNCH PLACE HAS RUN OUT OF SOMETHING YOU WANT. YOU GIVE LOVE AS YOU LOOK FORWARD TO THE WEEKEND, AND THEN YOU STOP WHEN YOU RECEIVE YOUR BILLS. AND SO IT CONTINUES ALL THROUGH THE DAY' YOU GIVE LOVE AND YOU STOP GIVING LOVE, GIVE LOVE AND STOP GIVING LOVE. GIVE LOVE AND STOP GIVING LOVE , FROM ONE MOMENT TO THE NEXT.

              YOU ARE EITHER GIVING LOVE AND HARNESSING THE FORCE OF LOVE, OR YOU'RE NOT. YOU CAN'T HARNESS THE FORCE OF LOVE WITH AN EXCUSE ABOUT WHY YOU DIDN'T LOVE. EXCUSES AND JUSTIFYING WHY YOU GIVE AN EXCUSE AS TO WHY YOU DIDN'T LOVE JUST AND MORE NEGATIVITY TO YOUR LIFE. WHEN YOU GIVE AN EXCUSE AS TO WHY DIDN'T LOVE, YOU'RE FEELING THE SAME NEGATIVITY AGAIN, AND SO YOU'RE GIVING OUT MORE OF IT!.

          " HOLDING ON TO ANGER IS LIKE GRASPING A HOT COAL

             WITH THE INTENT OF THROWING IT AT SOMEONE ELSE:

              YOU ARE THE ONE GETTING BURNED"

 

KEEP YOUR MIND FOCUSED ON LOVE

                           HOW TO KEEP YOUR MIND FOCUSED ON LOVE

              "CLARITY OF MIND MEANS CLARITY OF PASSION, TOO;

              THIS IS WHY A GREAT AND CLEAR MIND LOVES ARDENTLY

              AND SEES DISTRINCTLY WHAT IT LOVES " 

              ONE WAY TO STAY IS TO TRICK YOUR MIND BY ASKING QUESTIONS SUCH AS " WHAT CAN I SEE THAT I LOVE?",  HOW MANY THINGS CAN I SEE THAT I LOVE? WHAT ELSE IS THERE THAT I LOVE? WHAT CAN I SEE THAT THRILLS ME?, WHAT CAN I SEE THAT EXCITES ME?, WHAT CAN I SEE THAT I'M PASSIONATE ABOUT? ARE THERE MORE THINGS I CAN SEE THAT I LOVE?, WHAT CAN I HEAR THAT I LOVE?, WHEN YOU ASK YOUR MIND QUESTIONS YOUR MIND CAN'T HELP ITSELF AND IT GETS BUSY RIGHT AWAY TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWERS. IT STOPS OTHER THOUGHTS IMMEDIATELY SO AS TO COME UP WITH THE ANSWERS TO YOUR QUESTIONS.

             THE SECRET IS TO KEEP ASKING YOUR MIND QUESTIONS REGULARLY. THE MORE QUESTIONS YOU CAN ASK, THE MORE YOU WILL BE IN CONTROL OF YOUR MIND. YOUR MIND WILL BE WORKING WITH YOU AND DOING WHAT YOU WANT IT TO DO, INSTEAD OF WORKING AGAINST YOU.

            SOMETIMES YOUR MIND CAN TAKE OFF LIKE A FREIGHT TRAIN DOWN A MOUNTAIN WITHOUT A DRIVER OF YOUR MIND, SO TAKE CHARGE AND KEEP IT BUSY WITH YOUR INSTRUCTIONS BY TELLING IT WHERE YOU WANT IT TO GO. YOUR MIND ONLY TAKES OFF ON ITS OWN IF YOU'RE NOT TELLING IT WHAT TO DO.

              "THE MIND ACTS LIKE AN ENEMY FOR THOSE WHO

               DONTS CONTROL IT"

DOMINANT THOUGHT

                                   DOMINANT THOUGHTS RULE THE DAY

                 THE IDEA THAT WE BECOME WHAT WE THINK ABOUT HAS ALSO BEEN EXPRESSED AS THE LAW OF DOMINANT THOUGHT. THIS MEANS THAT THERE'S A POWER WITHIN EACH OF US THAT PROPELS US IN THE DIRECTION OF OUR CURRENT DOMINANT THOUGHTS.

             THE KEY WORD HERE IS DOMINANT. YOU CAN'T EXPECT POSITIVE RESULTS WHEN YOU SPEND 10 SECONDS A DAY THINKING POSITIVELY AND THE REMAINING 16 WAKING HOURS DWELLING ON NEGATIVE OUTCOMES!

            HERE'S THE BOTTOM LINE. A LITTLE POSITIVE THINKING DOESN'T PRODUCE POSITIVE RESULTS. JUST LIKE A LITTLE BIT OF A DIET DOEN'T WORK. IT'S LIKE TRYING TO LOSE WEIGHT BY EATING A HEALTHY, LOW--- CALORIE BREAKFAST ...... AND THEN PIGGING OUT ON CAKE AND ICE CREAM FOR THE REST OF THE DAY! THE SAME IS TRUE OF EXERCISE YOU CAN'T DO A FEW MINUTES OF EXERCISE ONECE A WEEK AND EXPECT TO BE PHYSICALLY FIT.

           LOOK AT POSITIVE THINKING IN THE SAME WAY. A LITTLE BIT JUST DOES'T GET THE JOB DONE. INSTEAD, YOU MUST TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR MENTAL ACTIVITY AND THINK POSITIVELY THROHOUT EACH AND EVERY DAY UNTIL IT BECOMES A HABIT. REMEMBER, IT HAS TO BE YOUR DOMINANT THROUGH PATTERN.

          TAKE A MOMENT TO CONSIDER YOUR DOMINANT THOUGHTS IN THE MAJOR AREAS OF YOUR LIFE. ARE THEY SERVING YOU.... OR HOLDING YOU BACK?

JOB

                                           GETTING THE JOB YOU WANT

 

           YOU CAN USE VISUAL REMINDERS TO YOUR ADVANTAGE IN A LOT OF WAYS IT'S NOT LIMITED TO CHECKS. HERE'S AN EXAMPLE INVOLVING A FRIEND OF MINE, WHO WE'LL CALL ROBERT JONES. ROBERT RECEIVED HIS PARTY'S NOMINATION FOR A JUDGESHIP, AND HE'LL BE ON THE BALLOT IN AN UPCOMING ELECTION.

          WHILE ROBERT STANDS AN EXCELLENT CHANGE OF WINNING THIS ELECTION, HE'S STILL A LITTLE NERVOUS.... AND DOUBTS CREEP INTO HIS MIND NOW AND AGAIN. I SUGGESTED TO ROBERT THAT HE MAKE A HANDWRITTEN SIGN THAT READS JUDGE ROBERT JONES AND THAT HE PUT THAT SIGN WHERE HE'LL SEE IT EVERYDAY . I ALSO RECOMMENDED THAT HE WRITE THESE WORDS ON A CARD HE CAN CARRY IN HIS WALLET.

           BY LOOKING AT THOSE WORDS THROUGHOUT THE DAY, ROBERT IS CONDITIONING HIS MIND TO VIEW HIMSELF AS A JUDGE. HE'S GOING TO START THINKING ABOUT WEARING THE BLACK ROBES. HE'LL SEE EVERONE RISE AS HE ENTERS THE COUTROOM. AS THESE IMAGES BECOME STRONGER AND STRONGER, ROBERT WILL TAKE THOSE ACTIONS THAT WILL BRING THIS PICTURE INTO REALITY. HE'LL CAMPAIGN MORE. HE'LL MAKE SURE HIS PARTY IS DOING EVERYTHING POSSIBLE TO GET THE VOTERS OUT ON ELECTION DAY.

           WHILE ROBERT COULD HAVE FORMED STRONG MENTAL IMAGES WITHOUT THE USE OF THE SIGN, IT HAS SO MUCH MORE POWER WITH THE VISUAL AID! THE SIGN IS A REMINDER TO ROBERT TO THINK ABOUT BEING A JUDGE.... AND TO RUN SUCCESSFUL IMAGES THROUGH HIS MIND.

            OF COURSE, THERE ARE NO GUARANTEE THAT THIS WILL WORK FOR ROBERT OR THAT IT WILL ALWAYS WORK FOR YOU. BUT ONCE YOU TRY THIS FOR YOURSELF, I THINK YOU'LL FIND THAT IT'S AN INCREDIBLY POWERFUL AID TO HELP YOU GET WHAT YOU WANT! SO, IS THERE A POSITION THAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE? SALES MANAGER... SUPERVISOR.... ATTORNEY......OWNER OF YOUR OWN BUSINESS? WHATEVER IT IS CREAT A VISUAL AID AND YOUR MIND WILL GET TO WORK TO BRING THAT PICTURE INRO YOUE LIFE.

PROBLEMS INTO OPPORTUNITIES

                            TURN YOUR PROBLEMS INTO OPPORTUNITIES

                 WHEN FACED WITH PROBLEMS OR SETBACKS IN YOUR LIFE, WHAT IS YOUR IMMEDIATE REACTION? IF YOU'RE LIKE MOST PEOPLE, YOUR FIRST IMPULSE IS TO COMPLAIN, WHY DID THIS HAVE TO HAPPEN TO ME? WHAT AM I GOING TO DO NOW? MY PLANS ARE RUINED!.

                 THIS RESPONSE IS ONLY NATURAL. HOWEVER AFTER THE INITIAL DISAPPOINTMENT WEARS OFF, YOU HAVE A CHOICE TO MAKE. YOU CAN EITHER WALLOW IN MISERY AND DWELL ON THE NEGATIVE ASPECTS OF YOUR SITUATION OR YOU CAN FIND THE BENEFIT OR LESSON THAT THE PROBLEM IS OFFERING.

                YES, YOU'LL PROBABLY FACE A PERIOD OF UNCERTAINLY OR STRUGGLE, BUT THERE'S ALWAYS A FLIP SIDE TO THE DIFFICULTY. YOU SEE,  A PROBLEM IS OFTEN NOT A PROBLEM MAY POINT OUT AN ADJUSTMENT YOU CAN MAKE TO IMPROVE CERTAIN CONDITIONS IN YOUR LIFE. WITHOUT THE PROBLEM, YOU NEVER WOULD HAVE TAKEN THIS POSITIVE ACTION.

               FOR EXAMPLE YOU PROBABLY KNOW OR HAVE HEARD ABOUT SOMEONE WHO LOST HIS OR HER HOB AND THEN WENT ON TO START A SUCCESSFUL BUSINESS. OFTEN THAT PERSON WILL TELL YOU THAT IF HE OR SHE HADNOT BEEN LAID OFF, THE NEW BUSINESS WOULD NEVER HAVE BEEN STARTED, WHAT STARTED AS AN ADVERSITY ENDED UP AS A GOLDEN OPPORTUNITY.

              HOW ABOUT THE TIMES YOU WERE ABSOLETLY CONVINSED THAT A PARTICULAR JOB WAS PERFECT FOR YOU, YOU HAD A GREAT INTERVIEW AND JUST COULD'NT WAIT FOR THE OFFER. BUT THE OFFER NEVER CAME, SOMEONE ELSE GOT THE JOB. YOU WERE DEVASTATED! DAYS OR MONTHS LATER A NEW JOB CAME ALONG, AND YOU REALIZED THAT THE FIRST POSITION WAS MUCH LESS DESIRABLE THAN THE ONE THAT CAME ALONG LATER. THE EARLIER REJECTION WAS, IN FACT, A BLESSING. ANOTHER EXAMPLE IS THE DEAL ON THE DREAM HOUSE. WHICH FALLS THROUGH.... ONLY TO BE REPLACED BY SOMETHING EVEN BETTER..

 

FRIENDSHIP

                                          EVALUATE YOUR FRIENDSHIPS

                  IT'S CRUCIAL THAT YOU EVALUATE YOUR FRIENDSHIP FROM TIME TO TIME EVEN THOSE YOU'VE MAINTAINED FOR MANY YEARS. TRUST ME, THIS ISN'T A MONOR ISSUE. THOSE WHO OCCUPY YOUR TIME HAVE A SIGNIFICANT IMAPACT ON YOUR MOST PRICELESS POSSESION YOUR MIND!.

                  ARE YOU SURROUNDING YOURSELF WITH NEGATIVE FRIENDS AND SPENDING A LOT OF TIME WITH THEM IN YOUR LEISURE HOURS? IF SO, I'M GOING TO ASK YOU TO THINK ABOUT SPENDING MUCH LESS TIME WITH THESE PEOPLE OR EVEN NO TIME AT ALL WITH THEM.

                SOUNDS HARSH, DOESN'T IT? AFTER ALL, I'M SUGGESTING THAT YOU LIMIT OR ELIMINATE YOUR INVOLVEMENT WITH SOME LONG STANDING FRIENDS. WHEN I TELL PEOPLE THIS AT MY SEMINARS, INVARIABLY SOME ONE WILL RAISE A HAND AND ACCUSE ME OF BEING COLD OR UNCARING. THE AUDIENCE MEMBER WILL TYPICALLY SAY, SHOULD WE TRY TO HELP OUR NEGATIVE FRIENDS INSTEAD OF DUMPING THEM?

                 WELL, YOU ARE FREE TO DO WHATEVER YOU THINK IS BEST, AND EACH SITUATION MUST BE DEALT WITH ON ITS OWN UNIQUE FACTS. HOWEVER I WILL FOUND THAT IN MOST CASES, HANGING AROUND THESE NEGATIVE FRIENDS DOES NOT HELP THEM AND IT DOES'T HELP YOU EITHER! EVERYONE GETS DRAGGED DOWN BECAUSE MOST NEGATIVE PEOPLE DONT WANT TO CHANGE. THEY JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LISTEN TO THEIR TALES OF WOE.

                 IF YOU HAVE A STRONG URGE TO SPEND TIME WITH NEGATIVE FRIENDS ASK YOURSELF: WHY AM I CHOOSING TO BE WITH THESE PEOPLE?, CONSCIOUSLY YOU MAY BE CHOOSING TO HOLD YOURSELF BACK, TO BE LESS THAN YOU ARE CAPABLE OF BECOMING.

                 LET ME CLARIFY ONE IMPORTANT POINT. I'M NOT MAKING A JUDGMENT HERE THAT NEGATIVE PEOPLE ARE ANY LESS WORTHY THAN OTHER PEOPLE. I'M SAYING THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES IF YOU SPEND TIME WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE NEGATIVE. WHAT ARE THE CONSEQUENCE? YOU WILL BE LESS HAPPY AND LESS SUCCESSFUL THAN YOU COULD BE.