WHENEVER YOUR NEED
OR POSITION IN LIFE
WHEN YOU BEGIN TO ACTIVELY PRACTICE SELF-TALK, WHAT YOU FIRST USE IT FOR WILL DEPEND ON WHAT YOU WANT TO FIX FIRE HABIT - THE MORE YOU USE IT, THE MORE YOU USE IT - ITS SUCCESS WILL DEPEND MORE ON GETTING STARTED THAN ON WHAT YOU DECIDE TO USE IT FOR FIRST.
IT MAKES TO DIFFERENCE WHAT YOU DO FOR A LIVING, WHAT YOUR EDUCATIONAL BACKGROUND IS, WHAT YOUR PROBLEMS MAY BE, OR WHAT YOUR GOALS ARE. IT DOESN'T WHETHER YOU HAVE SUCCEEDEDOR FAILED IN THE PAST, THE WORKINGS OF THE HUMAN BRAIN ARE COMPLETELY INDIFFERENT TO YOUR SITUATION IN LIFE. ANYONE CAN USE SELF-TALK AND BENEFIT FROM ITS RESULTS.
TO GIVE YOU JUST A FEW EXAMPLES OF THE MANY WAYS IN WHICH THE USE OF ACTIVE SELF-TALK CAN MAKE A DIFFERENCE, LET'S LOOK AT SOME OF THE CIRCUMSTANCES IN OUR LIVES THAT CAN BE HELPED OR IMPROVED WITH THE KIND OF SELF-TALK WE'RE DISCUSSING. THE POSSIBILITIES FOR USING SELF-TALK ARE LIMITED ONLY BY THE INDIVIDUALS. THERE ARE AS MANY USES AS THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH NEEDS. MOST OF THESE EXAMPLES, AT SOME TIME AND IN SOME WAY, APPLY TO ALL OF US.
IF YOU WANT TO CONQUER A PROBLEM
OR OVERCOME AN OBSTACLE:
CHANGING YOUR SELF-TALK CAN FIX MANY KINDS OF PROBLEMS. THE PROBLEM CAN BE ANYTHING YOU WANT TO CONQUER - LARGE OR SMALL. YOU MAY WANT TO USE SELF-TALK TO CHANGE ATTITUDES OR ACTIONS - OR CHOICES YOU MAKE REPEATEDLY THAT CAUSE YOU PROBLEMS. SOMTIMES EVEN A SMALL AMOUNT OF EXACTLY RIGHT SELF-TALK WILL HELP YOU TAKE A MINOR STEP THAT CREATES MAJOR RESULTS. IF YOU HAVE A PROBLEMS OF ANY KIND, ASK YOURSELF THE QUESTIONS, "IS MY OLD SELF-TALK CONTRIBUTING TO THIS PROBLEM? COULD CHANGING MY SELF-TALK HELP ME FIX IT?"
IF YOU WANT TO REACH GOALS
PRACTICING SELF-TALK WHILE YOU'RE SETTING GOOD GOAL IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT MEANS TO ACHIEVING THEM THAT I HAVE EVER FOUND. SETTING GOALS, AND WORKING AT REACHING THEM, IS PART AND PARCEL TO BECOMING HEALTHY, WEALTHY, AND WISE, WORTHY GOALS ARE ESSENTIAL TO TRUE AND LASTING SELF-FULLFILLMENT.
IMAGINE SETTING WORTHWHILE GOALS - AND THEN FUELING THEM WITH THE NONSTOP ENERGY OF SELF-TALK. YOU COULD ACHIEVE THEM WITHOUT IT, PERHAPS, BUT THE ROAD WOULD BE HARDER, GIVE LIFE TO YOUR PATH. GRANT YOUR JOURNEY THE ASSURANCE OF A SAFE ARRIVAL. SET YOUR GOALS, WORK AT ACHIEVING THEM, AND TALK TO YOURSELF EVERY DAY ALONG THE WAY.
SETTING GOALS AND POSITIVE SELF-TALK GO HAND IN HAND. BUT TALK TO YOURSELF IN EXACTLY THE RIGHT WAY, AND YOU WILL FIND THE ROAD EASIER TO FOLLOW. IF YOU ARE NOT YET SETTING GOALS - AND WRITING THEM DOWN - YOU SHOULD. IF YOU ARE NOT ARE ALREADY AN ACTIVE GOAL-SETTER, GIVE TO YOUR GOALS THE GIFT OF YOUR OW SELF-ASSURANCE. ADD THE WORDS OF DAILY DIRECTION AND ENCOURAGEMENT OF SELF-TALK TO YOUR GOALS. AND WELL-SET GOAL DESERVES THE BENEFIT OF WELL-SAID WORDS.
IF YOU WANT TO IMPROVE YOUR JOB
IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER, WE ARE ALL SUBJECT TO THE DIRECTIONS OF OTHERS. WE ALL HAVE RULES THAT WE HAVE TO FOLLOW. HOW YOU VIEW YOUR JOB, YOUR VOCATION, YOUR ASSOCIATES, AND YOUR EMPLOYER, BOSS, OR SUPERVISOR WILL HAVE AN IMPORTANT EFFECT ON HOW WELL YOU DO AND HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF IN THE JOB YOU ARE IN. IF YOU TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU DO NOT LIKE YOUR JOB- YOU PROBABLY WON'T. IF YOU TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE UNHAPPY WITH YOUR MANAGER OR EMPLOYER, YOU PROBABLY WILL BE.
GIVE YOURSELF AN ADVANTAGE. TALK TO YOURSELF ABOUT YOUR WORK AND THE PEOPLE YOU WORK WITH IN A WAY THAT MAKES YOUR WORK WORK FOR YOU.
IF YOU EVER FIND YOURSELF FALLING INTO THE HABIT OF FINDING FAULT WITH COMPLAINING ABOUT, CRITICIZING, OR RESENTING YOUR JOB, STEP ASIDE AND TALK TO YOURSELF. THERE ARE OTHERS WHO HAVE IT FAR WORSE, SOME OF THEM WOULD LOVE TO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY THAT YOU NOW HAVE. YOUR JOB, OR YOUR OCCUPATION, DOES A LOT MORE THAN PAY THE BILLS. IT GIVES YOU THE OPPORTUNITY TO EXCEL, TO EXCEPT THE BEST OF YOURSELF AND TO PUT THAT EXPECTATION INTO PRACTICE. YOUR SUCCESS WILL ALWAYS DEPEND ON WHAT YOU THINK, WHAT YOU TELL YOURSELF MOST. EXPECT THE BEST, AND THEN TELL YOURSELF THE BEST. IF YOUR DO, THERE IS A GOOD CHANCE THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL GET.
