👉 DOING GOOD AND RECEIVE GOOD 👈
BENJAMIN FRANKLIN SAID, WHEN YOU ARE GOOD TO OTHERS, YOU ARE BEST TO YOURSELF.
WHETHER IT IS YOUR THOUGHTS, ACTIONS OR BEHAVIOR, SOONER OR LATER THEY RETURN- AND WITH GREAT ACCURACY.
TREAT PEOPLE WITH RESPECT ON YOUR WAY UP BECAUSE YOU WILL BE MEETING THEM ON YOUR WAY DOWN.
THE FOLLOWING STORY IS TAKEN FROM THE BEST OF... BITS & PIECES.
MANY YEARS AGO TWO BOYS WERE WORKING THEIR WAY THROUGH STANFORD UNIVERSITY. THEIR FUNDS GOT DESPERATELY LOW, AND THE IDEA CAME TO THEM TO ENGAGE IGNACY PADEREWSKI FOR A PIANO RECITAL. THEY WOULD USE THE FUNDS TO HELP PAY THEIR BOARD AND TUITION.
THE GREAT PIANEST'S MANAGER ASKED FOR A GUARANTEE OF $2000. THE GUARANTEE WAS A LOT OF MONEY IN THOSE DAYS, BUT THE BOYS AGREED AND PROCEEDED TO PROMOTE THE CONCERT. THEY WORKED HARD, ONLY TO FIND THAT THEY HAD GROSSED ONLY $1600.
AFTER THE CONCERT THE TWO BOYS TOLD THE GREAT ARTIST THE BAD NEWS. THEY GAVE HIM THE ENTIRE $1600, ALONG WITH A PROMISSORY NOTE FOR $400, EXPLAINING THAT THEY WOULD EARN THE AMOUNT AT THE EARLIEST POSSIBLE MOMENT AND SEND THE MONEY TO HIM. IT LOOKED LIKE THE END OF THEIR COLLEGE CAREERS.
NO BOYS, REPLIED PADEREWSKI, THAT WON'T DO. THEN, TEARING THE NOTE IN TWO, HE RETURNED THE MONEY TO THEM AS WELL, NOW, HE TOLD THEM. TAKE OUT OF THIS $1600 ALL OF YOUR EXPENSES AND KEEP FOR EACH OF YOU 10 PERCENT OF THE BALANCE FOR YOUR WORK. LET ME HAVE THE REST.
THE YEARS ROLLED BY. WORLD WAR I CAME AND WENT. PADEREWSKI, NOW PREMIER OF POLAND, WAS STRIVING TO FEED THOUSANDS OF STARVING PEOPLE IN HIS NATIVE LAND. THE ONLY PERSON IN THE WORLD WHO COULD HELP HIM WAS HERBERT HOOVER, WHO WAS IN CHARGE OF THE US FOOD AND RELIEF BUREAU. HOOVER RESPONDED AND SOON THOUSANDS OF TONS FOOD WERE SENT TO POLAND.
AFTER THE STARVING PEOPLE WERE FED, PADERESWSKI JOURNEYED TO PARIS TO THANK HOOVER FOR THE RELIEF SENT TO HIM.
THAT'S ALL RIGHT. MR.PEDEREWSKI, WAS HOOVER'S REPLY. BESIDES, YOU DON'T REMEMBER IT, BUT YOU HELPED ME ONCE WHEN I WAS A STUDENT AT COLLEGE, AND I WAS IN TROUBLE.
IT IS ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL COMPENSATIONS OF LIFE THAT NO MAN CAN SINCERELY TRY TO HELP ANOTHER WITHOUT HELPING HIMSELF.
GOODNESS HAS A WAY OF COMING BACK, THAT IS TE NATURE OF THE BEAST. ONE DOESN'T HAVE TO DO GOOD WITH A DESIRE TO GET BACK. IT JUST HAPPENS AUTOMATICALLY.
SOME FACTORS TO MAINTAINING POSITIVE RELATIONSHIPS:
MOST OF THEM ARE SELF-EXPLANATORY OR ELABORATED ON LATER IN THIS CHAPTER:
1. SELFISHNESS
2. LACK OF COURTESY
3. INCONSIDERATE BEHAVIOR
4. NOT MEETING COMMITMENTS
5. RUDE BEHAVIOR
6. LACK OF INTEGRITY AND HONESTY
7. SELF-CENTEREDNESS
(A PERSON ALL WRAPPED UP IN HIMSELF MAKES A PRETTY SMALL PACKAGE)
8. ARROGANCE
( AN ARROGANT PERSON IS CONTENT WITH HIS OPINION AND KNOWLEDGE. THAT WILL GUARANTEE HIM PERPETUAL IGNORANCE)
9. CONCEIT
( SINCE NATURE ABHORS A VACUUM, SHE FILLS EMPTY HEADS WITH CONCEIT)
JOHN BRAGGED, MY SON GOT HIS INTELLIGENCE FROM ME, HIS WIFE REPLIED, I AM SURE HE DOES, BECAUSE I HAVE STILL GOT MINE.
👀 NEGATIVE ATTITUDE
👀 CLOSED MIND
👀 LACK OF LISTENING
👀 SUSPICIOUS NATURE
👀 LACK OF RESPECT FOR VALUES (LOW MORALS)
👀 LACK OF DISCIPLINE
👀 LACK OF COMPASSION(CRUELTY IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS)
👀 IMPATIENCE
👀 ANGER (TEMPER GETS A PERSON IN TROUBLE AND EGO KEEPS HIM THERE)
👀 MANIPULATING BEHAVIOR
👀 ESCAPIST BEHAVIOR
👀 TOUCHY NATURE
👀 INCONSISTENCY
👀 UNWILLINGNESS TO ACCEPT THE TRUTH
👀 PAST BAD EXPERIENCE
👀 AN UNCARING ATTITUDE( BEING IGNORED IS NOT A GOOD FEELINGS, IT SHOWS A LACK OF CONCERN)
👀 GREED - IS LIKE WATER, THE MORE YOU DRINK, THE THIRSTIER YOU GET.
THIS PROBABLY IS NOT AN ALL-INCLUSIVE LIST. MOST OF US MAY HAVE SOME OF THE CHARACTERISTICS MENTIONED ABOVE. SOME MAY HAVE MORE OF ONE THAN THE OTHER. THE OBJECTIVE IS TO EVALUATE AND ADJUST COURSE IN THOSE AREAS.
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