LOVE IS A SHIELD
TO TAKE THE POWER OUT OF OTHER PEOPLE'S NEGATIVITY AND NOT BE AFFECTED BY IT, REMEMBER THE MAGNETIC FIELDS OF FEELINGS SURROUNDINGS EACH PERSON. THERE'S FIELD OF LOVE, JOY, HAPPINESS, GRATITUDE, EXCITEMENT, PASSION, AND A FIELD FOR EVERY NEGATIVE FEELING.
A PERSON SURROUNDED BY A MAGNETIC FIELD OF ANGER DOESN'T FEEL GOOD AT ALL, AND SO IF YOU COME INTO THEIR PRESENCE, THEY WILL MOST LIKELY DIRECT THEIR ANGER AT YOU. THEY DON'T MEAN TO HARM YOU, BUT THEY CAN'T SEE ANYTHING GOOD WHEN THEY'RE LOOKING AT THE WORLD THROUGH THEIR FIELD OF ANGER. ALL THEY CAN SEE ARE THINGS THAT ANGER THEM. AND BECAUSE THEY CAN ONLY SEE ANGER, THEY ARE LIKELY TO GET ANGRY AND HURL CAN ONLY SEE ANGER, THEY ARE LIKELY TO GET ANGRY AND HURL ANGER AT THE FIRST PERSON THEY SEE - OFTEN A LOVED ONE. DOES THIS SITUATION SOUND FAMILIAR?
IF YOU'RE FEELING FANTASTIC, THE FORCE OF YOUR MAGNETIC FIELD CREATES A SHIELD THAT NO NEGATIVITY CAN PENETRATE. AND SO IT WON'T MATTER WHAT NEGATIVITY ANYONE HURTS AT YOU, IT CANNOT TOUCH YOU, AND IT WILL BOUNCE RIGHT OFF YOUR FEELING FIELD WITHOUT AFFECTING YOU AT ALL.
ON THE OTHER HAND , IF A PERSON HURLS SOMETHING NEGATIVE AT YOU AND YOU FEEL WHAT THEY SAY, THEN YOU KNOW THAT YOUR FEELINGS MUST HAVE DROPPED, BECAUSE THE NEGATIVITY BROKE THROUGH YOUR FEELING FIELD. THERE'S ONLY ONE THING TO DO IF THIS HAPPENS, AND THAT IS TO FIND AN EXCUSE TO POLITELY WALK WAY, SO YOU CAN RESTORE YOURSELF WITH GOOD FEELINGS. TWO NEGATIVE FIELDS MULTIPLY AT A RAPID RATE WHEN THEY COME INTO CONTACT WITH EACH OTHER, AND NO GOOD CAN EVER COME OF IT. YOU WILL KNOW THIS FROM YOUR OWN LIFE EXPERIENCE, TWO NEGATIVE FIELDS TOGETHER ARE NOT A PRETT SIGHT!
" MUDDY WATER, LET STAND, BECOMES CLEAR".
---- FOUNDER OF TAOISM
IF YOU ARE FEELING SAD, DISSAPOINTED, FRUSTRATED, OR ANY NEGATIVE
FEELING, THEN YOU ARE LOOKING AT THE WORLD THROUGH THAT FEELING FIELD, AND THE WORLD WILL LOOK SAD, DISSAPOINTING OR FRUSTRATING TO YOU. YOU CANNOT SEE ANYTHING GOOD THROUGH A FIELD OF BAD FEELINGS. NOT ONLY IS YOUR NEGATIVE FIELD ATTRACTING MORE NEGATIVITY TO ITSELF, BUT YOU WILL NEVER SEE YOUR WAY OUT OF ANY PROBLEM UNTIL YOU CHANGE THE WAY YOU FEEL. CHANGING THE WAY YOU FEEL IS EASY COMPARED TO RUNNIG AROUND TRYING TO CHANGE THE CIRCUMSTANCES OF THE OUTSIDE WORLD. ALL THE PHYSICAL ACTION IN THE WORLD CANNOT CHANGE THE SITUATION. CHANGE YOUR FEELINGS AND THE OUTSIDE CIRCUMSTANCES WILL CHANGE!
" THE POWER IS FROM WITHIN, BUT WE CANNOT RECEIVE
IT UNLESS WE GIVE IT".
--- CHALESS HAANEL
WHEN SOMEONE IS SORROUNDED BY A MAGNETIC FIELD OF JOY, YOU CAN FEEL THEIR JOY TOUCH YOU FROM ACROSS THE ROOM. PEOPLE WHO ARE POPULAR AND WHO HAVE MAGNETIC PERSONALITIES ARE SIMPLY PEOPLE WHO FEEL GOOD MOST OF THE TIME. THE FIELD OF JOY THAT SURROUNDS THEM IS SO MAGNETIC THAT IT DRAWS EVERYBODY AND EVERYTHING TO THEM.
THE MORE YOU GIVE LOVE AND FEEL GOOD, THE MORE MAGNETIC YOUR FIELD BECOMES AND THE MORE IT EXPANDS, DRAWING EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE YOU LOVE TO YOU! IMAGINE THAT!
GOSSIP IS STICKY TOO
GOSSIP SEEMS HARMLESS ON THE SURFACE, BUT IT CAN CAUSE A LOT OF NEGATIVE THINGS IN PEOPLE'S LIVES. GOSSIP IS NOT GIVING LOVE. GOSSIP IS GIVING NEGATIVITY AND THAT'S EXACTLY WHAT YOU RECEIVE BACK. GOSSIP IS NOT HARMFUL TO THE PEOPLE WHO IS BEING SPOKEN OF GOSSIP HARMS THOSE GOSSIPLING!
WHEN YOU ARE TALKING WITH A FAMILY MEMBER OR A FRIEND, AND THEY TELL YOU ABOUT SOME NEGATIVE THING THAT SOMEONE SAID OR DID THEY ARE GOSSIPPING AND THEY ARE GIVING OUT NEGATIVITY. AS YOU LISTEN TO THEM, YOU ARE GIVING OUT NEGATIVITY TOO BECAUSE YOU ARE A FEELING BEING, AND YOU CAN'T HEAR NEGATIVE THINGS WITHOUT YOUR FEELING BEING, AND YOU CAN'T HEAR NEGATIVE THINGS WITHOUT YOUR FEELINGS DROPPING RAPIDLY. WHEN YOU TALK WITH A WORK COLLEAGUE AT LUNCH, AND YOU BOTH TALK NEGATIVELY ABOUT SOMEONE, YOU ARE GOSSIPPING AND YOU ARE GIVING OUT NEGATIVITY. YOU CAN'T TALK ABOUT OR HEAR NEGATIVITY AND HAVE GOOD FEELINGS!
SO TO PUT IT FRANKLY, WE NEED TO BE MINDFUL OF NOT STICKING OUR NOSE IN OTHER PEOPLE'S BUSINESS, BECAUSE THEIR BUSINESS WILL GET STUCK ON OUR NOSE! UNLESS YOU WANT IT IN YOUR LIFE, TURN AWAY FROM IT WITHOUT FEELING ANYTHING. YOU'LL NOT ONLY BE DOING YOURSELF A FAVOR, BUT YOU'LL ALSO BE DOING THE OTHER PEOPLE A FAVOR WHO DON'T THE NEGATIVE EFFECT GOSSIP CAN HAVE ON THEIR LIVES.
IF YOU FIND YOURSELF GOSSIPPING OR LISTENING TO GOSSIP, STOP MIDSENTENCE AND SAY, "BUT I AM SO GRATEFUL THAT".... AND FINISH THE SENTENCE WITH SOMETHING GOOD ABOUT THE PERSON BEING GOSSIPED ABOUT.
"IF A MAN SPEAKS OR ACTS WITH AN EVIL THOUGHT, PAIN
FOLLOWS HIM. IF A MAN SPEAKS OR ACTS WITH A PURE
THOUGHT, HAPPINESS FOLLOWS HIM, LIKE A SHADOW
THAT NEVER LEAVES HIM".
---GOWTHAMA BUDDHA
