LIFE STORY

                                                 YOUR LIFE YOUR STORY

 

              YOU ARE CREATING THE STORY OF YOUR LIFE, SO WHAT STORY ARE YOU TELLING ABOUT YOURSELF? DO YOU BELIEVE THERE ARE THINGS YOU CAN AND CONNOT DO? IS THAT THE STORY YOU ARE TELLING ABOUT YOURSELF? BECAUSE THAT STORY IS NO TRUE.

               DON'T LISTEN IF SOMEONE SAYS YOU ARE LESS THAN ANYONE ELSE, DON'T LISTEN IF SOMEONE SAYS YOU ARE LIMITED IN ANY WAY. DON'T LISTEN IF SOMEONE SAYS YOU CAN'T DO WHAT YOU LOVE TO DO AND EARN A LIVING FROM IT. DON'T LISTEN IF SOMEONE SAYS YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH NOW AND YOU HAVE TO PROVE YOURSELF IN LIFE. DON'T LISTEN IF SOMEONE SAYS YOU CANNOT HAVE WHAT YOU LOVE OR DO WHAT YOU LOVE OR BE WHAT YOU LOVE. IF YOU BELEIVE IT, YOU PUT LIMITS ON YOURSELF, BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY, IT IS NOT TRUE! THERE IS NOT A SINGLE THING THAT IS TOO GOOD FOR YOU, OR TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE.

             THE FORCE OF LOVE SAYS, 'WHATEVER YOU GIVE YOU RECEIVE BACK', DOES THAT SAY YOURE NOT GOOD ENOUGH? THE FORCE OF LOVE SAYS? GIVE LOVE FOR WHATEVER YOU WANT TO BE, DO, OR HAVE AND YOU WILL RECEIVE IT. DOES THAT SAY YOU ARE NOT GOOD ENOUGH? YOU ARE WORTHY AND DESERVING JUST AS YOU ARE. YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH NOW. IF YOU FEEL YOU HAVE DONE SOMETHING THAT WAS NOT RIGHT, UNERSTAND THAT YOUR REALIZATION AND ACCEPTANCE OF IT IS ABSOLUTION FOR THE LAW OF ATTRACTION.

BAD FEELINGS

                                               ELIMINTE BAD FEELINGS

              YOU CAN CHANGE ANYTHING IN YOUR LIFE BY CHANGING HOW YOU FEEL. WHEN YOU CHANGE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT ANY SUBJECT, THE SUBJECT MUST CHANGE! BUT IN CHANGING THE WAY YOU FEEL, DON'T TRY TO GET RID OF BAD FEELINGS, BECAUSE ALL BAD FEELINGS ARE SIMPLY A LACK OF LOVE. INSTEAD, YOU PUT LOVE IN! YOU DON'T TRY TO GET RID OF ANGER OR SADNESS; ANGER AND SADNESS ARE GONE WHEN YOU PUT LOVE IN. THERE IS NOTHING DO DIG OUT OF YOU. WHEN YOU PUT LOVE INTO YOU, ALL BAD FEELINGS ARE GONE.

               EVERYTHING HAS ITS PERFECT PLACE IN LIFE, INCLUDING BAD FEELINGS. WITHOUT BAD FEELINGS, YOU WOULD NEVER KNOW WHAT IT FEEL LIKE TO FEEL GOOD. YOU WOULD JUST FEEL THE ONE 'BLAH' FEELING ALL THE TIME BECAUSE YOU WOULD HAVE NOTHING TO COMPARE YOUR FEELINGS TO. YOU WOULDN'T KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO FEEL REALLY HAPPY, EXCITED, OR JOYFUL. IT'S THROUGH FEELING SADNESS THAT YOU KNOW HOW GOOD IT FEELS TO BE HAPPY. YOU CAN NEVER REMOVE BAD FEELINGS FROM LIFE BECAUSE THEY ARE A PART OF LIFE, AND WITHOUT THEM, YOU WOULD'T HAVE GOOD FEELINGS!.

           LIFE IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN! WHEN YOU'RE HAVING FUN, YOU FEEL GREAT AND YOU RECEIVE GREAT THINGS! WHEN YOU TAKE LIFE TOO SERIOUSLY, YOU RECEIVE SERIOUS THINGS. HAVING FUN BRINGS THE LIFE YOU WANT, AND TAKING THINGS TOO SERIOUSLY BRINGS A LIFE YOU HAVE TO TAKE SERIOUSLY BRINGS A LIFE YOU HAVE TO TAKE SERIOUSLY, YOU HAVE THE POWER OVER YOUR LIFE, AND YOU CAN USE IT DO DESIGN YOUR LIFE IN WHATEVER WAY YOU WANT, BUT FOR YOUR OWN SAKE, LIGHTEN UP!..

ELIMINATE BAD FEELINGS

                                         HOW TO ELIMINATE BAD FEELINGS

        YOU CAN CHANGE ANYTHING IN YOUR LIFE BY CHANGING HOW YOU FEEL. WHEN YOU CHANGE HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT ANY SUBJECT, THE SUBJECT MUST CHANGE! BUT IN CHANGING THE WAY YOU FEEL, DON'T TRY TO GET RID OF BAD FEELINGS, BECAUSE ALL BAD FEELINGS ARE SIMPLY A LACK OF LOVE. INSTEAD, YOU PUT LOVE IN! YOU DON'T TRY TO GET RID OF ANGER OR SADNESS; ANGER AND SADNESS ARE GONE WHEN YOU PUT LOVE IN. THERE IS NOTHING TO DIG OUT OF YOU. WHEN YOU PUT LOVE INTO YOU, ALL BAD FEELINGS ARE GONE.'

         THERE IS ONLY ONE FORCE IN LIFE AND THAT FORCE IS LOVE. YOU ARE EITHER FEELING GOOD BECAUSE YOU ARE FULL OF LOVE, YOU ARE FEELING BAD BECAUSE YOU ARE EMPTY OF LOVE, BUT ALL YOUR FEELINGS ARE DEGREES OF LOVE.

          THINK OF LOVE AS IF IT IS WATER IN A GLASS, AND THE GLASS IN YOUR BODY. WHEN A GLASS HAS ONLY A LITTLE WATER IN IS, IT IS EMPTY OF WATER. YOU CAN'T CHANGE THE WATER LEVEL IN THE GLASS BY WAGING WAR ON THE EMPTINESS AND TRYING TO RIP OUT THE EMPTINESS. THE EMPTINESS GOES BY FILLING THE GLASS WITH WATER. WHEN YOU HAVE BAD FEELINGS YOU ARE EMPTY OF LOVE, AND SO WHEN YOU PUT LOVE INTO YOURSELF, THE BAD FEELINGS ARE GONE..

SECRET PROCESS

                                                        THE CREATION PROCESS

          IMAGINE IT, FEEL IT, RECEIVE IT.

1. IMAGINE

        USE YOUR MIND TO FOCUS ON AND IMAGINE WHAT YOU DESIRE. IMAGINE ,YOURSELF BEING WITH YOUR DESIRE. IMAGINE YOURSELF DOING THINGS WITH YOUR DESIRE. IMAGINE YOURSELF HAVING YOUR DESIRE.

2. FEEL

         AT THE SAME TIME AS YOU IMAGINE, YOU MUST FEEL LOVE FOR WHAT YOU'R IMAGINE YOU MUST FEEL LOVE FOR WHAT'S IMAGINE AND FEEL BEING WITH YOUR DESIRE. YOU MUST IMAGINE AND FEEL DOING THINGS WITH YOUR DESIRE. YOU MUST IMAGINE AND FEEL HAVING YOUR DESIRE.

        YOUR IMAGINATION CONNECTS YOU TO WHAT YOU WANT, YOUR DESIRE AND FEELINGS OF LOVE CREATE THE MAGNETISM, THE MAGNETIC POWER, DRAWING YOUR DESIRE TO YOU. THIS COMPLETE YOUR PART IN THE CREATION PROCESS.

3. RECEIVE

     THE FORCE OF LOVE WILL WORK THROUGH THE VISIBLE AND INVISIBLE FORCES OF NATURE TO BRING WHAT YOU DESIRE TO YOU. IT WILL USE CIRCUMSTANCES, EVENTS, AND PEOPLE TO GIVE WHAT YOU LOVE TO YOU.

     WHATEVER YOU DESIRE YOU MUST WANT IT WITH ALL YOUR HEART, DESIRE IS LOVE, AND UNLESS YOU HAVE A BURNING DESIRE IN YOUR HEART, YOU WILL NOT HAVE ENOUGH POWER TO HARNESS THE FORCE OF LOVE, YOU MUST REALLY DESIRE WHAT YOU WANT, AS AN ATHLERE DESIRE TO PLAY A SPORT, DANCER DESIRES TO DANCE, AND A PAINTER DESIRE TO PAINT. YOU MUST DESIRE WHAT YOU WANT WITH ALL YOUR HEART BECAUSE DESIRE IS A FEELING OF LOVE, AND YOU MUST GIVE LOVE TO RECEIVE WHAT YOU LOVE!

TOXIC

                                                         TOXIC RELATIVES

                       WHAT DO YOU DO IF YOU HAPPEN TO HAVE TOXIC RELATIVES? OBVIOUSLY, THIS IS A TOUCHY ISSUE. WHAT I'M GOING TO SEGGEST IS THAT YOU DON'T TURN YOUR BACK ON YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS. FAMILY TIES ARE PRECIOUS, AND I THINK WE MUST MAKE EVERY EFFORT TO MAINTAIN HARMONIOUS FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS.

                      EVEN SO, I RECOMMEND THAT YOU PUT SOME CONTROLS IN PLACE THAT REDUCE THE IMPACT YOUR TOXIC RELATIVES HAVE ON YOUR LIFE. YOU'RE NOT ABANDONING THEM OR REFUSING TO SPEAK WITH THEM, BUT YOU ARE PUTTING SOME LIMITS ON YOUR INVOLVEMENT WITH THEM.

                      FOR EXAMPLE, IF YOU HAVE NEGATIVE RELATIVES, I SUGGEST THAT YOU DON'T GO OUT OF YOUR WAY TO CALL THEM ON THE PHONE SEVERAL TIMES EACH DAY IF YOU KNOW THEY'RE GOING TO PUT YOU DOWN OR CRITICIZE YOUR EVERY MOVE. WHAT GOOD CAN POSSIBLY COME FROM THAT? WE GET BOMBARED WITH ENOUGH NEGATIVETY AS IT IS---- JUST TURN ON THE RADIO OR TV OR READ A NEWSPAPER. DO WE NEED OUR RELATIVES TO PROVIDE EVEN MORE NEGATIVE NEWS? I DON'T THINK SO!

                      AND HERE'S ANOTHER SUGGESTION THAT WILL WORK EQUALLY WELL WHETHER YOU'RE TALKING WITH A FRIEND OR A RELATIVE, WHEN THE DISCUSSION MOVE TO A NEGATIVE SUBJECT, RESIST THE TEMPLATION TO ACCUSE THE OTHER PERSON OF BEING NEGATIVE. THAT WILL USUALLY MAKES THINGS EVEN WORSE. INSTEAD, GENTLY SHIFT THE CONVERSATION TO A MORE POSITIVE TOPIC. 

                     REMEMBER THAT I'M NOT ASKING YOU TO DISOWN YOUR RELATIVES OR REFUSE TO ATTEND FAMILY FUNCTIONS. THIS IS ABOUT LIMITING YOUR CONTACTS WITH NEGATIVE RELATIVES SO YOU DON'T GET DRAGGED DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL!

FEARS

                         THE BENEFITS OF BACKING AWAY FROM FEARS

                         WHEN CONFRONTED WITH AN ANXIETY-PRODUCING EVENT, MOST PEOPLE WILL RETREAT TO AVOID THE FEAR AND ANXIETY. THAT'S WHAT I USED TO DO. YOU SEE, BACKING AWAY DOES RELIEVE THE FEAR AND ANXIETY THAT WOULD HAVE RESULT IF YOU FOLLOWED THROUGH WITH THE ACTIVITY. FOR INSTANCE, IF SOMEONE ASKS YOU TO MAKE A PRESENTATION WITHIN YOUR COMPANY, AND YOU DECLINE, YOU SAVE AND THE NERVOUSENESS YOU'D EXPERIENCE IN THE DAYS LEADING UP TO THE PRESENTATION.

                         IN FACT, I'VE FOUND THAT'S THE ONE AND ONLY BENEFIT YOU GET BY RETREATING---- A MOMENTARY AVOIDANTS OF ANXIETY.

                          THINK ABOUT IF FOR A MOMENT. CAN YOU LIST ANY OTHERS BENEFITS THAT PEOPLE GET WHEN THEY REFUSE TO CONFRONT THEIR FEARS? I'VE ASKED THAT QUESTIONS OF THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE, AND NOBODY HAS BEEN ABLE TO COME UP WITH ANY ADDITIONAL BENEFITS, FOR GOOD REASON---- THERE ARE NONE!

                                                  THE PRICE YOU PAY

                   NOW, I WANT YOU TO SERIOUSLY CONSIDER THE PRICE YOU PAY WHEN YOU BACK AWAY FROM THOSE FEARS THAT ARE STANDING IN THE WAY OF YOUR GROWTH, HERE'S WHAT HAPENS:

                        * YOUR SELF-ESTEEM IS LOWERED

                        * YOU FEEL POWERLESS AND FRUSTRATED

                        * YOU SABOTAGE YOUR SUCCESS

                        * YOU LEAD AN UNEVERNFUL, BORING LIFE.

                    IS THIS A PRICE WORTH PAYING FOR THE SHORT-TERM AVOIDANCE OF FEAR AND ANXIETY? MOST OF US ARE INDEED WILLING TO PAY THIS DEAR PRICE, SIMPLY TO AVOID TEMPORARY DISCOMFORT AND POSSIBLE REDECULE FROM OTHERS.

                   TRUST ME FOLKS, THIS IS INSANE! IN THE RUN, RETREATING IS NOT THE BEST WAY TO HANDLE YOUR PROBLEM. YOU'LL NEVER BE HIGHLY SUCCESFULL OR DEVELOP YOUR TALENT TO THE FULLEST UNLESS YOU'RE WILLING TO CONFRONT YOUR FEARS.

       

COMMITMENT

                                           TIME TO MAKE A COMMITMENT

                          NOW, LET'S ASSUME YOU HAVE A GOAL IN MIND. THE NEXT QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF IS, AM I WILLING TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO ACHIEVE THIS GOAL?.

                         IF YOUR ANSWER IS," I'LL DO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING, EXCEPT THAT I WON'T DO------- ," THEN FRANKLY, YOU'RE NOT COMMITTED. AND IF YOU'RE NOT COMMITTED, IT'S LIKELY THAT YOU'LL BE DERAILED AND NOT ACHIEVE YOUR OBJECTIVE. FOR INSTANCE, MANY PEOPLE START A NEW BUSINESS WITH THIS APPROACH, I'LL GIVE IT SIX MONTHS TO PRPOSPER. IT IF THINGS DON'T WORK OUT AFTER SIX MONTHS, I'LL QUIT', THIS IS NOT A MENTAL ATTITUDE THAT LEADS TO SUCCESS.

                        WHERE WOULD NOVELIST DAVID BALDACCI BE IF HE HAD SAID." I'LL TRY THE WRITING FOR ONR YEAR.... AND IF CAN'T SELL ANYTHING, I'LL GIVE IT UP'? HE'D HAVE MISSED OUT ON THE OPPORTUNITY TO DO WHAT HE LOVES HAVE FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE.... AND LIVE HIS DREAM!

                        NOW, I'M NOT SUGGESTING THAT YOU JUST BULL AHEAD WITHOUT A PLAN AND HOPE FOR THE BEST. OF COURSE YOU SHOULD SET TIMETABLES. DEADLINES AND BUDGET SO YOU STAY ON COURSE AND SUCCEED AS QUIKLY AS POSSIBLE. BUT THE REALLITY IS, DESPITE YOUR MOST CAREFUL PLANS, YOU DON'T KNOW HOW LONG IT WILL TAKE TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOAL.... AND YOU CON'T FORESEE ALL THE OBSTACLES THAT WILL CROSS YOUR PATH.

                         THAT'S WHERE COMMITMENT SEPATATES THE WINNERS FROM THE LOSERS. THE COMMITTED PEOPLE ARE GOING TO HANG IN------ AND PREVAIL----- NO MATTER WHAT. AND IF IT TAKES A LITTLE LONGER THAN THEY THOUGHT, SO BE IT. THOSE WHO AREN'T COMMITTED ARE GOING TO GIVE UP THE SHIP WHEN THINGS DON'T GO THEIR WAY.

                            NOW THAT YOU'VE LEARNED ABOUT THE POWER OF COMMITMENT, IT'S TIME TO APPLY THE PRINCIPLE. SO, GO AHEAD. SELECT A GOAL YOU HAVE A BURNING DESIRE TO ACHIEVE. MAKE A COMMITMENT TO DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO ACHIEVE THIS GOAL. START MOVING FORWARD AND GET READY TO NOTICE AND TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ALL OPPORTUNITIES THAT COME YOUR WAY. THEN FOLLOW THROUGH WITH PERSISTENT ACTION AND GET READY TO SUCCEED.!