ITS YOUR LIFE

                                IT'S NOT ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON

         YOU CAN TELL IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW WHAT YO'RE BEEN GIVING. IF A CURRENT RELATIONSHIP IS GREAT, IT MEANS YOU ARE GIVING MORE LOVE AND GRATITUDE THAN NEGATIVITY. IF A CURRENT RELATIONSHIP IS DIFFICULT OR CHALLENGING, IT MEANS YOU ARE INADVERTENTLY GIVING MORE NEGATIVITY THAN LOVE.

          SOME PEOPLE THINK A RELATIONSHIP IS EITHER GOOD OR BAD BECAUSE OF THE OTHER PERSON, BUT LIFE DOESN'T HAPPEN THAT WAY. YOU CAN'T SAY TO THE FORCE OF LOVE, I WILL GIVE LOVE ONLY WHEN THE OTHER PERSON GIVES IT TO ME!, YOU CAN'T RECEIVE ANYTHING IN LIFE UNLESS YOU GIVE IT FIRST!  WHATEVER YOU GIVE, YOU RECEIVE, SO IT'S NOT ABOUT THE OTHER PERSON AT ALL, IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU! IT'S ALL ABOUT WHAT YOU ARE GIVING AND WHAT YOU ARE FEELING.

          YOU CAN CHANGE ANY RELATIONSHIP RIGHT NOW BY LOOKING FOR THE THINGS YOU LOVE, APPRECIATE, AND ARE GRATEFUL FOR IN THAT PERSON. WHEN YOU MAKE A DELIBERATE EFFORT TO LOOK FOR THE THINGS YOU LOVE MORE THAN YOU NOTICE NEGATIVE THOUGH SOMETHING INCREDIBLE HAS HAPPENED TO THE OTHER PERSON. BUT IT'S THE FORCE OF LOVE THAT IS INCREDIBLE, BECAUSE IT DISSOLVES NEGATIVITY, INCLUDING NEGATIVITY IN RELATIONSHIPS, ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS HARNESS THE FORCE OF LOVE BY LOOKING FOR THE THINGS YOU LOVE IN THE PERSON, AND EVERYTHING WILL CHANGE IN THE RELATIONSHIP!

LOVE IS TRUTH

                                                                            LOVE

            WHEN YOU WERE  A LITTLE CHILD, YOU WERE FLEXIBLE AND FLUID BECAUSE YOU HAD NOT FORMED OR ACCEPTED AS MANY NEGATIVE BELIEFS ABOUT LIFE. AS YOU GOT OLDER, YOU TOOK ON MORE FEELINGS OF LIMITATION AND NEGATIVITY, WHICH CAUSED YOU TO BECOME MORE SET IN YOUR WAYS AND LESS FLEXIBLE. THIS IS NOT AN AMAZING LIFE, THIS IS A LIMITED LIFE.

            THE MORE YOU LOVE,THE MORE THE FORCE OF LOVE WILL MELT AWAY NEGATIVITY IN YOUR BODY AND IN YOUR MIND. AND YOU CAN FEEL LOVE MELTING AWAY EVERYTHING NEGATIVE WHEN YOU'RE HAPPY, GRATEFUL, AND JOYFUL. YOU CAN FEEL IT! YOU FEEL LIGHT, YOU FEEL INVICIBLE, AND YOU FEEL ON TOP OF THE WORLD.

            AS YOU GIVE MORE AND MORE LOVE, YOU WILL NOTICE CHANGES START TO HAPPEN TO YOUR BODY. FOOD WILL TASTE BETTER, COLORS WILL GET BRIGHTER, SOUNDS WILL BECOME CLEARER, MOLES OR LITTLE MARKS ON YOUR BODY WILL BEGIN TO FADE AND DISAPPEAR. YOUR BODY WILL BEGIN TO FEEL MORE FLEXIBLE, STIFFINESS AND LITTLE CREAKS WILL BEGIN TO VANISH. WHEN YOU GIVE LOVE AND EXPERIENCE THE MIRACLES IN YOUR BODY, YOU WILL BE LEFT IN NO DOUBT THAT LOVE IS THE SOURCE OF HEALTH! 

LIFE IMPROVING POINTS

                                                                          POINTS

  1.       "THE LAW OF LOVE COULD BE BEST UNDERSTOOD

           AND LEARNED THROUGH LITTLE CHILDREN"

2.        " LOGIC WILL GET YOU FROM A TO B IMAGINATION

             WILL TAKE YOU EVERYWHERE"

3.        " EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE FOR THE PERSON WHO BELIEVES"

4.        " ALL YOU CAN POSSIBLY NEED OR DESIRE IS ALREADY YOURS.

             CALL YOUR DESIRES INTO BEING BY IMAGINING AND FEELING 

             YOUR WISH FULFILLED"

5.       " WHEN YOU REALIZE THERE IS NOTHING LACKING

           THE WHOLE WORLD BELONGS TO YOU"

6.       " THIS IS AN ETERNAL AND FUNDAMENTAL PRINCIPLE,

             INHERENT IN ALL THINGS, IN EVERY SYSTEM OF PHILOSOPHY,

             IN EVERY RELINGION, AND IN EVERY SCIENCE. THERE IS NO

             GETTING AWAY FROM THE LAW OF LOVE"

7.        " LET OUR LIVES BE GOOD, AND THE TIMES ARE GOOD. WE 

              MAKE OUR TIMES, SUCH AS WE ARE, SUCH ARE THE TIME"

8.         " YOU ARE REWARDED NOT ACCORDING TO YOUR WORK OR

              YOUR TIME BUT ACCORDING TO THE MEASURE OF YOUR LOVE"

9.          " IT'S NOT HOW MUCH WE GIVE BUT HOW MUCH LOVE

                WE PUT INTO GIVING"

10.         " SUCCESS IS NOT THE KEY TO HAPPINESS. HAPPINESS IS

                 THE KEY TO SUCCESS"

11.          "THE ENTIRE LAW IS SUMMED UP IN A SINGLE COMMAND,

                LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF"

12.           "HATE IS NOT CONQUERED BY HATE. HATE IS CONQUERED

                 BY LOVE. THIS IS A LAW ETERNAL"

13.          " WHEREVER ANYONE HAS OFFENED ME, I TRY TO RAISE MY

                 SOUL SO HIGH THAT THE OFFENSE CANNOT REACH IT".

14.          " YOUR OWN SOUL IS NOURISHED WHEN YOU ARE KIND,

                IT IS DESTROYED WHEN YOU ARE CRUEL"

15.        " HAPPINESS DEPENDS UPON OURSELVES"

7.       "       

AUTO SUGGESTION

                         TRANSLATING AUTO-SUGGESTION INTO REALITY

     1. GO TO SPOT WHERE YOU WON'T BE DISTURBED.

     2. MAKE A LIST OF YOUR AUTO-SUGGESTIONS. MAKE SURE THEY ARE POSITIVE AND IN THE PRESENT TENSE.

     3. REPEAT AUTO-SUGGESTIONS AT LEAST TWICE A DAY: FIRST THING IN THE MORNING AND AT THE END OF THE DAY. IN THE MORNING, YOUR MIND IS FRESH AND RECEPTIVE, AT NIGHT YOU DEPOSIT THE POSITIVE PICTURE INTO YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS TO BE WORKING FOR YOU OVERNIGHT. YOU CAN ALSO WRITE EACH AUTO-SUGGESTION ON A FEW SMALL STICKY NOTES. PLACE THEM IN PLACES YOU WILL SEE THEM THROUGH OUT THE DAY. SEEING THE NOTES THROUGHOUT THE DAY WILL CAUSE YOU TO REPEAT THE AUTO-SUGGESTIONS AGAIN.

     4. AUTO-SUGGESTIONS ALONE WILL NOT WORK. USE VUSUALIZATION AS WELL.

     5. DO THIS FOR AT LEAST 21 DAYS UNTIL IT BECOMES A HABIT.

DREAMS

                                                     DREAMS AND WISHES

           GREAT MINDS HAVE PURPOSE, OTHERS HAVE WISHES.

      PEOPLE CONFUSE GOALS WITH DREAMS AND WISHES. DREAMS AND WISHES ARE NOTHING MORE THAN DESIRES. DESIRES ARE WEAK. DESIRES BECOME STRONG WHEN THEY ARE SUPPORTED BY;

         * DERECTION

         * DEDICATION

         * DETERMINATION

         * DISCIPLINE

         * DEADLINES.

                 THESE ARE WHAT DIFFERENTIATE A DESIRE FROM A GOAL. GOALS ARE DREAMS WITH A DEADLINES AND ACTION PLAN. GOALS CAN BE WORTHY OR UNWORTHY. IT IS PASSION, NOT WISHING THAT TURNS DREAMS INTO REALITY.

      1. HAVE A DEFINITE, CLEAR WRITTEN GOAL.

      2. HAVE A PLAN TO ACCOPLISH AND WRITE IT DOWN.

      3. READ THE FIRST TWO TWICE A DAY.

                                                      GOALS MUST BE BALANCED

 

       OUR LIFE IS LIKE A WHEEL WITH SIX SPOKES.

     1. FAMILY. OUR LOVED ONES ARE THE REASON TO LIVE AND MAKE A LIVING.

     2. FINANCIAL. REPRESENTS OUR CAREER AND THE THINGS THAT MONEY CAN BUY.

     3. PHYSICAL. WITHOUT YOUR HEALTH, NOTHING MAKES SENSE.

     4. MENTAL. THIS REPRESENTS KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM.

     5. SOCIAL. EVERY INDIVIDUAL AND ORGANIZATION HAS SOCIAL RESPONSIBILITY, WITHOUT WHICH, SOCIETY STARTS DYING.

     6. SPIRITUAL. YOUR VALUE SYSTEM REPRESENTS ETHICS AND CHARACTER.

     IF ANY OF THESE SPOKES IS OUT OF ALIGNMENT, YOUR LIFE GOES OUT OF BALANCE. TAKE A FEW MINUTES TO JUST CONSIDER. IF ANY ONE OF THESE SIX SPOKES WERE MISSING, WHAT WOULD YOUR LIFE BE LIKE?

MEASURE FOR SUCCESS

                                          HOW DO WE MEASURE SUCCESS?

              THE SUCCESS IS MEASURED BY THE FEELING OF KNOWING WE HAVE DONE A JOB WELL AND HAVE ACHIEVED OUR OBJECTIVE.

            SUCCESS IS NOT MEASURED BY OUR POSITION IN LIFE BUT BY THE OBSTACLES WE OVERCAME TO GET THERE.

           SUCCESS IN LIFE IS NOT DETERMINED BY HOW WE ARE DOING COMPARED WITH OTHERS, BUT BY HOW WE ARE DOING CAMPARED WITH WHAT WE ARE CAPABLE OF DOING. SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE COMPETE AGAINST THEMSELVES. THEY BETTER THEIR OWN RECORD AND KEEP IMPROVING CONSTANTLY.

          SUCCESS IS NOT MEASURED BY HOW HIGH WE GO UP IN LIFE, BUT RATHER BY HOW MANY TIMES WE BOUNCE BACK WHEN WE FALL DOWN. IT IS THIS BOUNCE-BACK ABILITY THAT DETERMINES SUCCESS.

SUCCESS

                                                          SUCCESS LIFE

             SUCCESS IS LIKE  BAKING A CAKE. UNLESS YOU HAVE JUST THE RIGHT RECIPE, IT IS NOT GOING TO WORK. THE INGREDIENTS MUST BE OF THE FINEST QUALITY AND IN RIGHT PROPORTIONS. YOU CAN'T OVER BAKE IT OR UNDERCOOK IT. ONCE YOU HAVE OCCASIONAL MISHAP, IT BECOMES A LOT EASIER.

            YOU HAVE THE RECIPE: WHETHER OR NOT TO USE IT IS YOUR CHOICE.

                                             A CRASH COUSE FOR SUCCESS

 

      * PLAY TO WIN AND NOT TO LOSE.

      * LEARN FROM OTHER PEOPLES MISTAKES.

      * ASSOCIATE WITH PEOPLE OF HIGH MORAL CHARACTER.

      * GIVE MORE THAN YOU GET.

      * DON'T LOOK FOR SOMETHING FOR NOTHING

      *  ALWAYS THINK LONG TERM.

      * EVALUATE YOUR STRENGTHS AND BUILD ON THEM.

      * ALWAYS KEEP THE LARGER PICTURE IN MIND WHEN MAKING A DECISION.

      * NEVER COMPROMISE YOUR INTEGRITY.