THE POINTS TO BECOME WINNER

                                                   SUCCESS OF THE LIFE

    1. WHERE NONE SEES ANOTHER, WHERE IT IS ALL ONE, THERE IS NONE TO BE MESERABLE, NONE TO BE UNHAPPY.

   2. KNOWING THAT MOTHER AND FATHER ARE THE VISIBLE REPRESENTATIVES OF GOD, THE HOUSEHOLDER, ALWAYS AND BY ALL MEANS, MUST PEOPLE THEM. IF THE MOTHER IS PLEASED, AND THE FATHER, GOD IS PLEASED WITH THE MAN. THAT CHILD IS REALLY A GOOD CHILD WHO NEVER SPEAKS HARSH WORDS TO HIS PARENTS.

  3. THE ONLY WAY TO RISE BY DOING THE DUTY NEXT TO US, AND THUS GATHERING STRENGTH TO ON UNTIL WE REACH THE HIGHEST STATE.

 4. THOUGH THIS BODY HAS ITS BEGINNING AND END, THE DWELLER IN THE BODY IS INFINITE AND WITHOUT END.

 5. EVEN IF YOU HAVE KNOWLEDGE, DO NOT DISTURB THE CHILDLIKE FAITH OF THE IGNORANT. ON THE OTHER HAND, GO DOWN TO THEIR LEVEL AND GRADUALLY BRING THEM UP. THAT IS A VERY POWERFUL IDEA, AND IT HAS BECOME THE IDEAL IN INDIA. THIS IS WHY YOU CAN SEE GREAT PHILOSOPHER GOING INTO A TEMPLE AND WORSHIPPING IMAGES. IT IS NOT HYPOCRISY.

 6. THEN THE GODS BECOME NO GODS, DEATH BECOMES NO DEATH, LIFE BECOMES NO LIFE.

 7. WHO CAN WORK WITHOUT ANY ATTACHMENT? THIS IS REAL QUESTION.

 8. SUCH A MAN IS THE SAME WHETHER HIS WORK SUCCEEDS OF FAILS.

 9. WORK FOR WORK'S SAKE. WORSHIP FOR WORSHIP'S SAKE. DO GOOD BECAUSE IT IS GOOD TO DO GOOD. ASK NO MORE.

 10. YOU CANNOT BELIEVE IN GOD UNTIL YOU BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

 11. STRENGTH IS LIFE, WEAKNESS IS DEATH.

 12. NEITHER SEEK NOR AVOID, TAKE WHAT COMES.

 13. ALL WEAKNESS, ALL BONDAGE IS IMAGINATION.

 14. KNOWING THIS, STAND UP AND FIGHT.

 15. NOR FREEDO,. NOR GODS, NOR WORK, NOR ANYTHING.

 16. THIS IS THE SAGE WHO ALWAYS WORKS FOR WORK'S SAKE WITHOUT CARING FOR THE RESULTS.

 17. THE POWERS OF THE MIND ARE LIKE RAYS OF LIGHT DISSIPATED , WHEN THEY ARE CONCENTRATED, THEY ILLUMINE.

 18. HE WHO KNOWS THAT HE IS FREE IS FREE, HE WHO KNOWS THAT HE IS BOUND IS BOUND. WHAT IS THE END AND AIM OF LIFE? NONE, BECAUSE I KNOW THAT I AM THE INFINITE.

 19. WHEN BY ANALYZING HIS OWN MIND, MAN COMES FACE TO FACE, AS IT WERE, WITH SOMETHING WHICH IS, BY ITS OWN NATURE, ETERNALLY PURE AND PERFECT, HE WILL NO MORE BE MISERABLE, NO MORE UNHAPPY.

 20. STAND UP, BE BOLD, BE STRONG! KNOW THAT YOU ARE THE CREATOR OF YOUR OWN DESTINY. ALL THE STRENGTH AND SUCCOUR YOU WANT IS WITHIN YOURSELF.

 21. THE ROSE CALLED BY ANY OTHER NAME WOULD SMELL AS SWEET.

 22. REALISATION IS REAL RELIGION, ALL THE REST IS ONLY PREPARATION-HEARING LECTURES, OR READING BOOKS, OR REASONING IS MERELY PREPARING THE GROUND, IT IS NOT RELIGION.

 23. THE EASIEST WAY TO MAKE OURSELVES HAPPY IS TO SEE THAT OTHERS ARE HAPPY.

 24. WE ARE NOT THE VEDANTISTS, PAURANICS, OR TANTRICS. WE ARE THE DON'T TOUCHISTS OUR RELIGION IS DON'T TOUCH ME, I AM HOLY.

 25. TAKE UP ANYTHING THAT YOU SEE OR FEEL, A BOOK FOR INSTANCE, FIRST CONCENTRATE THE MIND ON IT, THEN ON THE KNOWLEDGE THAT IS IN THE FORM OF A BOOK, AND THEN ON THE EGO THAT SEES THE BOOK, AND SO ON. BY THAT PRACTICE ALL THE ORGANS WILL BE CONQUERED.

BEEING KNOW ABOUT YOURSELF

                                                     KNOW ABOUT YOURS

     YOU SPOKE EARLIER ABOUT THE IMPORTANT OF HAVING DEEP ROOTS WITHIN OR INHABITING THE BODY. CAN YOU EXPLAIN WHAT YOU MEANT BY THAT?

     THE BODY CAN BECOME A POINT OF ACCESS INTO THE REALM OF BEING. LET'S GO INTO THAT MORE DEEPLY NOW.

     I AM STILL NOT QUITE SURE IF I FULLY UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU MEANT BY BEING.

     WATER? WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT? I DON'T UNDERSTAND IT. THIS IS WHAT A FISH WOULD SAY IF IT HAD A HUMAN MIND.

     PLEASE STOP TRYING TO UNDERSTAND BEING. YOU HAVE ALREADY HAD SIGNIFICANT GLIMPSES OF BEING, BUT THE MIND WILL ALWAYS TRY TO SQUEEZE IT INTO A LITTLE BOX AND THEN PUT A LABEL ON IT. IT CANNOT BE DONE IT. IT CANNOT BECOME AN OBJECT OF KNOWLEDGE. IN BEING, SUBJECT AND OBJECT MERGE INTO ONE.

     BEING CAN BEFELT AS THE EVER-PRESENT I AM THAT IS BEYOND NAME AND FORM. TO FEEL AND THUS TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE AND TO ABIDE IN THAT DEEPLY ROOTED STATE IS ENLIGHTENMENT, IS THE TRUTH THAT JESUS SAYS WILL MAKE YOU FREE.

    FREE FROM WHAT?

       FREE FROM THE ILLUSION THAT YOU ARE NOTHING MORE THAN YOUR PHYSICAL BODY AND YOUR MIND. THIS "ILLUSION OF THE SELF" AS THE BUDDHA CALLS IT, IS THE CORE ERROR. FREE FROM FEAR IN ITS COUNTLESS DSGUISES AS THE INEVITABLE CONSEQUENCE OF THAT ILLUSION-THE FEAR THAT IS YOUR CONSTANT TORMENTOR AS LONG AS YOU DERIVE YOUR SENSE OF SELF ONLY FROM THIS EPHEMERAL AND VULNERABLE FORM. AND FREE FROM SIN, WHICH IS THE SUFFERING YOU UNCONSCIOUSLY INFLICT ON YOURSELF AND OTHERS AS LONG AS THIS ILLUSORY SENSE OF SELF GOVERNS WHAT YOU THINK, SAY, AND DO. 

   

MOTIVATIONAL THOUGHTS

                                                  POSITIVE THOUGHTS

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      * YOU HAVE TO GROW FROM THE INSIDE OUT. NONE CAN TEACH YOU, NONE CAN MAKE YOU SPIRITUAL. THERE IS NO OTHER TEACHER BUT YOUR OWN SOUL.

     * IN A CONFLICT BETWEEN THE HEART AND THE BRAIN, FOLLOW YOUR HEART.

     * IN A DAY, WHEN YOU DON'T COME ACROSS ANY PROBLEMS-YOU CAN BE SURE THAT YOU ARE TRAVELLING IN A WRONG PATH.

    * IT IS THE COWARD AND THE FOOL WHO SAYS, "THIS IS FATE". BUT IT IS THE STRONG MAN WHO STANDS UP AND SAYS, "I WILL MAKE MY FATE".

    * ALL POWER IS WITHIN YOU; YOU CAN DO ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING. BELIEVE IN THAT, DO NOT BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE WEEK, DO NOT BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE HALF-CRAZY LUNATICS, AS MOST OF US DO NOWADAYS.  YOU CAN DO ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING, WITHOUT EVEN THE GUIDANCE OF ANYONE. STAND UP AND EXPRESS THE DIVINITY WITHIN YOU.

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   * THE GREATEST RELIGION IS TO BE TRUE TO YOUR OWN NATURE. HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELVES.

  * THE GREAT SECRET OF TRUE SUCCESS, OF TRUE HAPPINESS,, IS THIS, THE MAN OR WOMAN WHO ASKS FOR NO RETURN, THE PERFECTLY UNSELFISH PERSON, IS THE MOST SUCCESSFUL.

  * ALL LOVE IS EXPANSION, ALL SELFISHNESS IS CONTRACTION. LOVE IS THEREFORE THE ONLY LAW OF LIFE. HE WHO LOVE LIVES, HE WHO IS SELFISH IS DYING. THERFORE LOVE FOR LOVE'S SAKE, BECAUSE IT IS THE ONLY LAW OF LIFE, JUST AS YOU BREATHE TO LIVE.

  * DARE TO BE FREE, DARE TO GO AS FAR AS YOU THOUGHT LEADS, AND DARE TO CARRY THAT OUT IN YOUR LIFE.

 * ANYTHING THAT MAKES WEAK-PHYSICALLY, INTELLECTUALLY AND SPIRITUALLY, REJECT IT AS POISON.

 * BE NOT AFRAID OF ANYTHING. YOU WILL DO MARVELOUS WORK. IT IS FEARLESSNESS THAT BRINGS HEAVEN IN A MOMENT.

 * WE ARE WHAT OUT THOUGHTS HAVE MADE US, SO TAKE CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU THINK. WORDS ARE SECONDARY. THOUGHTS LIVE; THEY TRAVEL FAR.

 * THEY ALONE LIVE, WHO LIVE FOR OTHERS.

 * ARISE, AWAKE, STOP NOT UNTIL YOUR GOAL IS ACHIEVED.

 * COME UP, O LIONS, AND SHAKE OFF THE DELUSION THAT YOU ARE SHEEP, YOU ARE SOULS IMMORTAL, SPIRITS FREE, BLEST AND ETERNAL, YE ARE NOT MATTER, YOU ARE NOT THE SERVANT OF MATTER.

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 * IT IS THE TOUCH OF THE SENSES THAT BRINGS ALL THIS QUALITY OF EXISTENCE, HEAT, COLD, PLEASURE AND PAIN.

 * DON'T GIVE ANY CHANCE FOR OTHERS TO STOLE YOUR SMILE. BECAUSE THE MOST VALUABLE ASSET THAN ANYTHING IN YOUR LIFE.

 * DON'T DO ANYTHING MORE FOR YOUR BODY THAN YOU DO FOR JOHN.

 * AS SUCH HE CANNOT EXPERIENCE THE NATURE OF THE SOUL.

 * THAT IS THE TEST OF EVERYTHING. RENOUNCE EVERYTHING. IT IS THE CREATIVE FACULTY THAT BRINGS US INTO ALL THIS ENTALEMENT.

 * WHERE ONE SEES ANOTHER, ONE HEARS ANOTHER SO LONG AS THERE ARE TWO, THERE MUST BE FEAR AND FEAR IS THE MOTHER OF ALL (MISERY)

 * WORK FOR WORK'S SAKE. THERE ARE SOME WHO ARE REALLY THE SALT OF THE EARTH IN EVERY COUNTRY AND WHO WORK FOR WORK'S SAKE, WHO DO NOT CARE FOR NAME, OR FAME, OR EVEN TO GO TO HEAVEN.

 * ONLY WHAT IS DONE AS DUTY FOR DUTY'S SAKE.. CAN SCATTER THE BONDAGE OF KARMA.

 * HE HAS SEEN THE GLORY OF THE SELF.

 

DON'T SEEK YOURSELF IN THE MIND

                                                THE SECRETS OF NOW

       I FEEL THAT THERE IS STILL A GREAT DEAL I NEED TO LEARN ABOUT THE WORKINGS OF MY MIND BEFORE I CAN GET ANYTWHERE NEAR FULL CONSCIOUSNESS OR SPIRITUAL ENLIGHTENMENT.

      NO, YOU DON'T. THE PROBLEMS OF THE MIND CANNOT BE SOLVED ON THE LEVEL OF THE MIND. ONCE YOU HAVE UNDERSTOOD THE BASIC DYSFUNCTION, THERE ISN'T REALLY MUCH ELSE THAT YOU NEED TO LEARN OR UNDERSTAND. STUDYING THE COMPLEXITIES OF THE MIND MAKE YOU A GOOD PSYCHOLOGIST, BUT DOING SO WON'T TAKE YOU BEYOND THE MIND, JUST AS THE STUDY OF MADNESS ISN'T ENOUGH TO CREATE SANITY. YOU HAVE ALREADY UNDERSTOOD THE BASIC MECHANICS OF THE UNCONSCIOUS STATE; IDENTIFICATION WITH THE MIND, WHICH CREATES A FALSE SELF, THE EGO, AS A SUBSTITUTE FOR YOUR TRUE SELF ROOTED IN BEING. YOU BECOME AS A "BRANCH CUT OFF FROM THE VINE" AS JESUS PUTS IT.

       THE EGO'S NEEDS ARE ENDLESS. IT FEELS VULNERABLE AND THREATEND AND SO LIVES IN A STATE OF FEAR AND WANT. ONCE YOU KNOW HOW THE BASIC DYSFUNCTION, OPERATES, THERE IS NO NEED TO EXPLORE ALL ITS COUNTLESS MANIFESTATIONS, NO NEED TO MAKE IT INTO A COMPLEX PERSONAL PROBLEM. THE EGO, OF COURSE, LOVES THAT. IT IS ALWAYS SEEKING FOR SOMETHING TO ATTACH ITSELF TO IN ORDER TO UPHOLD AND STREGTHEN ITS ILLUSORY SENSE OF SELF, AND IT WILL READILY ATTACH ITSELF TO YOUR PROBLEMS. THIS IS WHY, FOR SO MANY PEOPLE, A LARGE PART OF THEIR SENSE OF SELF IS INTIMATELY CONNECTED WITH THEIR PROBLEMS. ONCE THIS HAS HAPPENED, THE LAST THING THEY WANT IS TO BECOME FREE OF THEM, THAT WOULD MEAN LOSS OF SELF. THERE CAN BE A GREAT DEAL OF UNCONSCIOUS EGO INVESTMENT IN PAIN AND SUFFERING.

     SO ONCE YOU RECOGNIZE THE ROOT OF UNCONSCIOUSNESS AS IDENTIFICATION WITH THE MIND, WHICH OF COURSE INCLUDES THE EMOTIONS, YOU STEP OUT OF IT. YOU BECOME PRESENT . WHEN YOU ARE PRESENT, YOU CAN ALLOW THE MIND TO BE AS IT IS WITHOUT GETTING ENTANGLED IN IT. THE MIND IN ITSELF IS NOT DYSFUNCTIONAL. IT IS A WONDERFUL TOOL. DYSFUNCTION SETS IN WHEN YOU SEEK YOUR SELF IN IT AND MISTAKE IT FOR WHO YOU ARE. IT THEN BECOME THE EGOIC MIND AND TAKES OVER YOUR WHOLE LIFE.

LIFE MEANINGS

                            POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE THINGS IN YOUR LIFE

   "LOVE IS AN ELEMENT WHICH THOUGH PHYSICALLY UNSEEN

     IS AS REAL AS AIR OR WATER. IT IS AN ACTING, LIVING,

    MOVING FORCE... IT MOVES IN WAVES AND CURRENTS

    LIKE THOSE OF THE OCEAN"

     

     THE KIND OF LOVE THAT THE GREATEST THINKERS AND SAVIORS OF THE WORLD TALKED ABOUT IS VERY DIFFERENT FROM WHAT MOST PEOPLE UNDERSTAND LOVE TO BE. IT IS MUCH MORE THAN LOVING YOUR FAMILY, FRIENDS, AND FAVORITE THINGS, BECAUSE LOVE IS NOT JUST A FEELING, LOVE IS THE POSITIVE AND GOOD. THERE ARE NOT A HUNDRED DIFFERENT POSITIVE FORCES IN LIFE, THERE IS ONLY ONE.

   NATURE'S GREAT POWERS, LIKE GRAVITY AND ELECTROMAGNETISM, ARE INVISIBLE TO OUR SENSES, BUT THEIR POWER IS INDISPUTABLE. LIKEWISE, THE FORCE OF LOVE IS INSIBLE TO US, BUT ITS POWER IS IN FACT FAR GREATER THAN ANY OF NATURE'S POWERS. THE EVIDENCE OF ITS THERE IS NO LIFE.

    TAKE A MOMENT TO THINK ABOUT IT. WHAT WOULD THE WORLD BE WITHOUT LOVE? FIRST OF ALL, YOU WOULDN'T EVEN EXIST, WITHOUT LOVE YOU COULDN'T HAVE BEEN BORN. NONE OF YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS WOULD HAVE BEEN BORN EITHER. IN FACT, THERE WOULDN'T BE A SINGLE HUMAN BEING ON THE PLANET. IF THE FORC OF LOVE CEASED TODAY, THE ENTIRE HUMAN RACE WOULD DECREASE AND EVENTUALLY DIE OUT.

      EVERY SINGLE INVENTION, DISCOVERY AND HUMAN CREATION CAME FROM THE LOVE IN A HUMAN HEART. IF IT WERE NOT FOR THE LOVE OF THE WRIGHT BROTHERS, WE COULD NOT FLY IN AN AIRPLANE. IF IT WERE NOT FOR THE LOVE OF SCIENTISTS, INVENTORS, AND DISCOVERERS, WE WOULD NOT HAVE ELECTRICITY, HEARTING OR LIGHT, NOR WOULD WE BE ABLE TO DRIVE A CAR OR USE A PHONE, APPLIANCE, OR ANY OF THE TECHNOLOGY THAT MAKES LIFE EASIER AND MORE CORFORTABLE. WITHOUT THE LOVE OF ARCHITECTS AND BUILDERS, THERE WOULD BE NO HOMES, BUILDING OR CITIES. WITHOUT LOVE, THERE WOULD BE NO MEDICINES, DOTORS, OR EMERGENCY FACILITIES, NO TEACHERS, SCHOOLS, OR EDUCATION. THERE WOULD BE NO BOOKS, NO PAINTINGS AND NO MUSIC, BECAUSE ALL OF THESE THINGS ARE CREATED FROM THE POSITIVE FORCE OF LOVE. TAKE A LOOK AROUND YOU RIGHT NOW. WHATEVER YOU SEE THAT IS A HUMAN CREATION WOULD NOT BE THERE WITHOUT LOVE. 

           

GRAVITING POWER OF LOVE

                                 UNLIMITED WAYS TO RECEIVE LOVE

     MONEY IS ONLY A TOOL FOR YOU TO EXPERIENCE THE THING YOU LOVE IN LIFE. WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THE THINGS YOU CAN DO WITH MONEY, YOU WILL FEEL MUCH MORE LOVE AND JOY THAN WHEN YOU THINK ONLY OF MONEY. IMAGINE BEING WITH WHAT YOU LOVE, DOING WHAT YOU LOVE, AND HAVING THE THINGS YOU LOVE, BECAUSE YOU WILL THEN FAR MORE LOVE THAN YOU WILL IF YOU ONLY THINK ABOUT MONEY.

   THE ATTRACTIVE FORCE OF LOVE HAS UNLIMITED WAYS FOR YOU TO RECEIVE WHAT YOU WANT, AND ONLY OF THOSE WAYS INVOLVES MONEY. DON'T MAKE THE MISTAKE OF THINKING THAT MONEY IS THE ONLY WAY YOU CAN RECEIVE SOMETHING. THAT IS LIMITED THINKING AND YOU WILL LIMIT YOUR LIFE!

     MY SISTER ATTRACTED A NEW CAR THROUGH THE MOST ADVENTUROUS SEQUENCE OF EVENTS. SHE WAS DRIVING TO WORK AND SHE GOT CAUGHT IN A FLASH FLOOD AND HER CAR STOPPED IN THE WATER. AT THE INSISTENCE OF AN EMERGENCY RECUE WORKER SHE WAS CARRIED TO DRY LAND, EVEN THOUGH THE WATER WAS NOT DANGEROUSLY HIGH. SHE LAUGHED HER WAY THROUGH THE WHOLE EXPERIENCE, AND HER RESCUE EVEN MADE THE NIGHTLY TELEVISION NEWS. MY SISTER'S CAR WAS IRREPARABLY DAMAGED BY THE WATER, AND WITHIN TWO WEEKS SHE WAS GIVEN A LARGE CHECK, AND SHE BOUGHT HER DREAM CAR.

       THE MOST WONDERFUL PART OF THIS STORY IS THAT MY SISTER WAS RENOVATING A HOUSE AT THE TIME, AND SHE DIDN'T EVEN IMAGINE HAVING A NEW CAR. SHE HAD ATTRACTED THE BEAUTIFUL NEW CAR TO HER BECAUSE SHE HAD CRIED TEARS OF JOY WHE SHE HEARD THE NEWS THAT OUR OTHER SIBLING HAD GOTTEN A NEW CAR. MY SISTER WAS SO HAPPY AND GAVE SO MUCH LOVE FOR OUR SIBLING RECEIVING A NEW CAR THAT THE LAW OF ATTRACTION MOVED EVERY ELEMENT, CIRCUMSTANCE, AND EVENT TO DELIVER A NEW CAR TO HER TOO. THAT IS THE POWER OF LOVE! ALL THINGS CAN COME TO YOU IN AN UNLIMITED NUMBER OF WAYS.

STAY WITH POSITIVE FRIENDS

                                         EVALUATE YOUR FRIENDSHIPS

        IT'S CRUCIAL THAT YOU EVALUATE YOUR FRIENDSHIPS FROM TIME TO TIME-EVEN THOSE YOU'VE MAINTAINED FOR MANY YEARS. TRUST ME, THIS ISN'T A MINOR ISSUE. THOSE WHO OCCUPY YOUR TIME HAVE A SIGNIFICANT IMPACT ON YOUR MOST PRICELESS POSSESSION-YOUR MIND!

      ARE YOU SURROUNDING YOURSELF WITH NEGATIVE FRIENDS AND SPENDING A LOT OF TIME WITH THEM IN YOUR LEISURE HOURS? IF SO, I'M GOING TO ASK YOU TO THINK ABOUT SPENDING MUCH LESS TIME WITH THESE PEOPLE-OR EVEN NO TIME AT ALL WITH THEM.

      SOUNDS HARSH, DOESN'T IT? I'M SUGGESTING THAT YOU LIMIT - OR ELIMINATE- YOUR INVOLVEMENT WITH SOME LONG-STANDING FRIENDS. WHEN I TELL PEOPLE  THIS AT MY SEMINARS, INVARIABLY SOMEONE WILL RAISE A HAND AND ACCURE ME OF BEING COLD OR UNCARING. THE AUDIENCE MEMBER WILL TYPICALLY SAY, SHOULDN'T WE TRY TO HELP OUR NEGATIVE FRIENDS INSTEAD OF DUMPTING THEM?

      WELL, YOU'RE FREE TO DO WHATEVER YOU THINK IS BEST, AND EACH SITUATION MUST BE DEAL WITH ON ITS OWN UNIQUE FACTS, HOWEVER, I'VE FOUND THAT IN MOST CASES, HANGING AROUND THESE NEGATIVE FRIENDS, DOESN'T HELP THEM- AND IT DOESN' HELP YOU, EITHER! EVERYONE GETS DRAGGED DOWN BECAUSE MOST NEGATIVE PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO CHANGE. THEY JUST WANT SOMEONE TO LISTEN TO THEIR TALES OF WOE.

         IF YOU HAVE A STRONG URGUE TO SPEND TIME WITH NEGATIVE FRIENDS, ASK YOURSELF; WHY AM I CHOOSING TO BE WITH THESE PEOPLE? CONSCIOUSLY OR UNCONSCIOUSLY, YOU MAY BE CHOOSING TO HOLD YOURSELF BACK-TO BE LESS THAN YOU ARE CAPABLE OF BECOMING.

           BY THE WAY, I THINK IT'S WONDERFUL TO TRY TO HEPL SOMEONE OVERCOME THEIR NEGATIVITY. BUT IF YOU'VE BEEN TRYING FOR SEVERAL YEARS... AND AREN'T GETTING ANYWHERE... MAYBE IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON!

       LET ME CLARIFY ONE IMPORTANT POINT. I'M NOT MAKING A JUDGMENT HERE THAT NEGATIVE PEOPLE ARE ANY LESS WORTHY THAN OTHER PEOPLE. I'M SAYING THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES IF YOU SPEND TIME WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE NEGATIVE. WHAT ARETHE CONSEQUENCES? YOU'LL BE LESS HAPPY AND LESS SUCCESSFUL THAN YOU COULD BE.