❤ DO NOT TAKE YOUR PARENTS FOR GRANTED ❤
YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARENTS IN THE NEXT IMPORTANT ONE YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE. LET US DWELL OVER THIS IN MORE DETAIL. FIRST THINGS FIRST - DO NOT TAKE YOUR PARENTS FOR GRANTED. DO NOT BLAME THEM FOR WHAT YOU HAVE OR DO NOT. THEY HAPPEN TO BE CHOSEN BY THE ALMIGHTY TO BRING YOU INTO THIS WORLD - SO, IF YOU HAVE NOT DONE THIS YET, THANK THEM FOR BRINGING YOU INTO THIS WORLD.
TOO OFTEN, WE TAKE OUR PARENTS FOR GRANTED. KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY, WE IGNORE THEM OR MISS OUT ON GIVING THEM DUE ATTENTION - NOT BECAUSE WE LOVE THEM LESS, BUT BECAUSE WE ARE SIMPLY TOO CONSUMED BY SO MANY THINGS AND NOISES AROUND US.
OUR NEAREST AND DEAREST HAVE BEEN PROVIDING US WITH A NEST ALL ALONG, AND WE TEND TO AVOID ACKNOWLEDGING THAT. OCCASIONALLY, WE ARE REMINDED OF IT BY THEIR HEALTH, THEIR CONVERSATION, OR THE LACK OF IT. WHEN YOU HEAR THEM TALKING TO SOMEONE ELSE, YOU MAY REALISE OH MY GOODNESS ! I NEVER KNEW THEY WERE FEELING LIKE THIS.
NO WORRIES IT IS NEVER TOO LATE. DO THE FOLLOWING RIGHT FROM TODAY:
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❤ GREET THEM FIRST THING IN THE MORNING (NINE OUT OF TEN CASES, THEY WILL WAKE UP EARLIER THAN YOU), ASK THEM HOW ARE THEY DOING, AND SAY A COUPLE OF NICE THINGS - NOT ONLY WILL IT BRIGHTEN THEIR DAY BUT IT WILL ALSO MAKE YOUR DAY HAPPIER, SIMILARLY, WISH THEM GOOD NIGHT (NINE OUT OF TEN CASES, THEY WILL GO TO BED MUCH EARLIER THAN YOU ), FIND OUT IF THEY NEED ANYTHING FROM YOU, INQUIRE IF THEY COMFORTABLE, AND ASK ABOUT THEIR ROUTINE (HAVE THEY TAKEN THE MEDICINE THEY NEED TO TAKE, ETC).
❤ IF YOU ARE FORTUNATE AND OPERATE FROM HOME OCCASIONALLY LIKE ME, AND IF YOUR PARENTS LIVE WITH YOU, HAVE AS MANY BREAKFAST, LUNCHES, AND DINNERS AS YOU CAN WITH THEM - IT IS THE BEST PLACE AND WAY TO ENRICH YOUR BOND WITH THEM AND MAKE THEM FEEL WANTED. LEARN FROM THEM, LISTEN TO WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY. LAUGH TOGETHER, AND MAKE PLANS TOGETHER OVER A MEAL. LISTEN TO STORIES FROM THEIR PAST, LISTEN TO WHAT IS GOING ON IN THEIR MIND, PICK UP CLUES ON WHAT THEY MIGHT NEED (THEY MAY NOT EVEN TELL YOU WHAT THEY NEED, YOU WILL HAVE TO FIGURE IT OUT) AND PROVIDE IT TO THEM.
❤ GET THEIR BLESSINGS, AND SPEND AS MUCH TIME YOU CAN WITH THEM - IT IS LIKE ACCUMULATION THE WEALTH OF THEIR BLESSINGS, WHICH YOU CAN THEN WITHDRAW FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE AND YEARS TO COME WHEN THEY ARE NOT AROUND. EACH ONE OF US HAVE DIFFERENT WAYS TO EXPRESS OUR GRATITUDE TOWARDS THEM. FOLLOW YOUR OWN WAY BUT DO IT AS MANY TIMES AS YOU CAN, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, DO IT FROM YOUR HEART.
❤ SPEND TIME WITH YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER SEPARATELY - SET ASIDE SOME TIME FOR THE TWO OF YOU AWAY FROM EVERYBODY ELSE, AND YOU WILL DISCOVER THINGS THAT WOULD HAVE NEVER COME UP OTHERWISE. MAKE A NOTE OF WHAT YOU LEARN IN YOUR ONE - ON - ONE CONVERSATIONS WITH THEM, AND CONSIDER WHAT MORE YOU CAN DO TO MAKE THEM HAPPIER.
❤ MONEY, LUXURY, CONVENIENCE, AND OTHER MATERIAL THINGS CAN ADD A TEMPORARY FLAVOUR BUT REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR TIME, ATTENTION, AND THE FEELING OF BEING WANTED.
❤ IF YOU ARE NOT STAYING WITH THEM, MAKE AS MANY CALLS AS POSSIBLE, MEET THEM AS OFTEN YOU CAN, AND KEEP THEM IN YOUR MIND ALL THE TIME.
❤ ACQUAINTANCES ❤
TODAY, WE ARE CONNECTED WITH A NUMBER OF PEOPLE ON A TEMPORARY BASIS - FOR EXAMPLE, SHOP KEEPERS, FELLOW COMMUTERS, SERVICE PROVIDERS, FELLOW PARTICIPANTS IN EVETS WE ATTEND, PEOPLE WE MEET DURING OUR VACATIONS, AND SO ON.
MORE OFTEN THAN NOT, WE SIMPLY OVERLOOK THEM. BUSY IN OUR OWN THOUGHTS, WE SIMPLY FORGET THEM IN A FLASH OR DO NOT EVEN REGISTER THEM. TAKE A DEEP BREATH HERE AS I AM GOING TO EXPLAIN WHY YOU SHOULD CHANGE THIS BEHAVIOUR.
EVERY INDIVIDUAL IS A UNIQUE SOUL AS ARE WE - WE ARE ALL CREATIONS OF THE ALMIGHTY, AND IN THAT WAY, WE ARE ALL CREATIONS OF THE ALMIGHTY, AND IN THAT WAY, WE ALL BELONG TO ONE BIG FAMILY. EVERY OTHER SOUL IS OUR SIBLING IN SOME FORM OR THE OTHER. IT MAY SOUND PHILOSOPHICAL BUT IT ISN'T A MERE ABSTRACT NOTION.
SEVERAL LEARNED SCHOLARS/SPIRITUAL LEADERS ACROSS THE GLOBE HAVE STUDIED THE EVOLUTION OF HUMAN BEINGS IN THE UNIVERSE AND HAVE PROVIDED ADEQUATE PROOF SUPPORTING THIS IDEA. ONCE YOU ACCEPT THIS, YOU WILL START TREATING EVERY INDIVIDUAL AS YOUR SIBLING - THERE WILL BE LOVE, RESPECT, UNDERSTANDING, AND CONSIDERATION, AND YOU WILL DEVELOP FRIENDSHIPS ALL OVER THE PLACE.
IN CONCLUSION, LET US UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THAT HUMAN BEINGS ARE SOCIAL ANIMALS SURROUNDED BY A NUMBER OF RELATIONSHIPS - IN FACT, THE UNIVERSE HELPED US CREATE THIS KIND OF A SUPPORT SYSTEM AS IT KNOWS THAT WE WILL NOT BE ABLE TO SUSTAIN OUR EXISTENCE WIHOUT IT.
SO, WATCH EACH OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS CLOSELY AND CORRECT THEM WHERE NEEDED BY MAKING SMALL CHANGES ONE AT A TIME. EVEN IF IT FEELS TOO MUCH FOR YOU, BE DETERMINDED AS YOU WILL RELIEVE YOURSELF OF THE UNNECCESSARY BAGGAGE THAT YOU CARRY SUBCONSCIOUSY.
ONCE AGAIN, FRIENDSHIP IS NOT MEASURED BY THE AMOUNT OF TIME YOU SPEND TOGETHER. RATHER, DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH YOU HAVE LIFTED EACH OTHER IN TIMES OF NEED.
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