ABOUT MONEY

                         

                                  ❤ MONEY IS A REWARD FOR YOUR ABILITY ❤ 

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                I KNOW WHAT SOME OF ARE THINKING - WE ARE LIVING IN SATYUG TO JUST DO OUR WORK AND NOT EXPECT MONEY IN RETURN. NO, I DID NOT MEAN IT IN THAT WAY.

              WHAT I MEAN HERE IS - LOVE WHAT YOU DO, AND DO WHAT YOU LOVE. DO NOT DO THINGS YOU ARE NOT MEANT TO. MOREOVER, DO NOT BE AFTER MONEY SO MUCH THAT YOUR LIFE BECOMES MONOTONOUS, DRIES OUR COMPLETELY, AND YOU DO THINGS WITHOUT ANY PASSION.

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                            👀  LOVE WHAT YOU DO, AND DO WHAT YOU LOVE 👀

              ONECE YOU PASSIONATELY DO WORK THAT YOU ENJOY, YOU WILL NOT ONLY PRODUCE BETTER RESULTS BUT YOU WILL BE ENJOYING IT AS WELL. IT IS ALMOST LIKE BEING PAID FOR ENTERTAINING YOURSELF ! I KNOW IT IS DIFFICULT FOR MANY OF US TO ACCEPT OR BELIEVE IN THIS - YOU MAY EVEN SAY THAT THIS IS MEANT ONLY FOR THOSE FORTUNATE FEW WHO LOVE WHAT THEY DO AND ARE PAID DO IT.

              LET US BREAK THIS MYTH RIGHT NOW- GOD HAS CREATED ALL OF US AND IMPLANTED A SEED OF PURPOSE IN EACH ONE OF US. HE HAS FURTHER LEFT IT OPEN FOR US TO DISCOVER OUR PURPOSE THROUGH SELF - EXPLORATION. WE BECOME WHAT WE ARE MEANT TO BE BY GOING THROUGH OUR KARMIC CYCLE STEP BY STEP. IT IS SIMILAR TO HUMAN BIRTH - THE NEW ARRIVAL HAS TO GO THROUGH A LONG PROCESS OF NINE MONTHS OF BE BORN AND BECOME READY TO FACE THE ENVIRONMENT OF AN ALIEN WORLD.

          ONCE YOU UNDERSTAND THIS, YOU WILL GET A DEEP SENSE OF INNER CALMNESS, AND YOU WILL BECOME MORE FOCUSED IN DOING YOUR WORK, CUTTING DOWN ALL THE NOISE THAT KEEP CLUTTERING YOUR MIND ALL THE TIME.

          MOST OF US KNOW MONEY IS A BY - PRODUCT BUT STILL END UP TREATING OUSELVES LIKE MACHINES AND ASSUME THAT WE ARE PAID FOR THE WORK WE DO - LET US CHANGE THIS BELIEF AND LOOK AT IT AS A REWARD FOR OUR ABILITY TO SERVE.

           JUST KEEP SERVING AS MUCH YOU CAN - YOU WILL NOT ONLY FEEL SATISFIED BUT YOU WILL EARN MUCH YOU CAN - YOU WILL WHICH CAN BE UTILISED BUT YOU WILL EARN MORE MONEY, WHICH CAN BE UTILISED TO MEET YOUR PERSONAL NEEDS AND SERVE OTHERS AROUND YOU. THE MORE YOU SERVE, MORE MONEY WILL START ROLLING IN, WHICH WILL GIVE YOU DEEP SATISFACTION AND A SENSE OF FULLFILMENT.

                        👀  MONEY IS A REWARD FOR YOUR ABILITY TO SERVE 👀

            MOST OF US HAVE A WEIRD FEELING ABOUT OUR WORKS. WELL, IF YOU ARE NOT LIKE ME, THAT IS GREAT - BUT, FOR ME, IT WAS NOT A PLEASURE STORY, AND I WAS OUT OF SYNC FOR MANY YEARS.

          I WANTED TO START WORKING AS SOON AS LONGER TO EARN - A STUDIES BECAUSE I COULD NOT WAIT ANY LONGER TO EARN - A SELF - IMPOSED PRESSURE. I REMEMBER MY INITIAL PERIOD OF WORKING. I WAS SO DEEPLY INVOLVED IN MY WORK TO LEARN NEW THINGS, TO UNDERSTAND PEOPLE AND PROCESSESS, TO PLEASE EVERYBODY AROUND, AND SO FORTH.

          WITHOUT REALISING IT, I BECAME GOOD AT WHAT I WAS DOING AND WAS GENERALLY LIKED BY EVERYBODY - AND WHY NOT?

          I WAS  THERETO PLEASE EVERYBODY. A YOUNG, BUDDING ENGINEER WITH A LOT OF ENTHUSIASM CAN SPEND OF A FEW YEARS LIKE THAT WITHOUT ANY HURDLES AS IF THERE WAS NOTHING ELSE TO LOOK FORWARD TO IN LIFE OTHER THAN WORK. SLOWLY, THAT BECAME A HABIT AND MY WAY OF LIFE - FAMILY, PERSONAL TIME, SOCIAL OBLIGATIONS, FRIENDS, ETC. WERE JUST NOT THERE ON MY WORK, I MANAGED TO HAVE TIME TO FIND MY LIFE PARTNER, GET MARRIED, AND GO ON A HONEY MOON. IN FACT, IT WAS ALL INCIDENTAL BECAUSE IF THOUGHT THAT I HAD TO DO THOSE THINGS.

         AFTER SPENDING THE EARLY YEARS OF MY LIFE LIKE THAT - MAYBE AT LEAST TEN YEARS - I FELT IT WAS TIME FOR ME TO MOVE ON AND TAKE MORE RESPONSIBILITY AT WORK. SO, I JOINED A MULTINATIONAL ORGANISATION, GREW IN NO TIME FROM PRODUCT MANAGER TO GENERAL MANAGER. WHY NOT? I DID NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO TAKE CARE OF EXCEPT FOR WORK!

          ANYWAY, LIFE WENT ON LIKE THAT UNTIL I TURNED FORTY. IN BETWEEN, I HAD ALSO PICKED UP THE NETWORKING BUSINESS TO BUILD ON DURING MY FREE TIME ! I WAS EXHAUSED - PRACTICALLY ENGAGED 24/7 I MUST HAVE SLEPT FOR LESS THAN FOUR HOURS MANY NIGHTS. I CONTINUED WORKING LIKE A MACHINE, FROM AIRPORT TO AIRPORT AND THROUGH NEVER - ENDING INTERNAL AND EXTERNAL BUSINESS MEETINGS.

         I FREED MYSELF OF THAT HECTIC LIFE AND TOOK UP ASSIGNMENTS THAT GAVE ME MORE PEACE OF MIND. I COULD FINALLY DO ONLY THOSE THINGS THAT WERE REQUIRED RATHER THAN PLEASING PEOPLE AND REMAINING BUSY 24/7.

       AS I AM WRITING THIS BOOK, I HAVE PICKED UP AN ASSIGNMENT WITH A MID-SIZED MULTINATIONAL ORGANISATION TO BUILD AND INDIAN OPERATION WITH A SMALLER TEAM. I AM ENJOYING MY WORK AND AM FEELING COMPLETELY SECURE ABOUT MYSELF. I DO WHAT NEED TO BE DONE AND AM NOT BEING CARRIED AWAY BY ANY ILLUSION. YOU MAY NOT BE IN THE SAME STATE AS I WAS - MAYBE YOU ARE MORE COMPOSED AND ARE ALREADY ENJOYING YOUR WORK, IF SO, YOU NEED NOT CHANGE THAT. I AM NARRATING MY STORY ONLY FOR THOSE WHO ARE THE CROSSROADS OF A SIMILAR SITUATION, HOLDING BACK FOR THE ONE FINE DAY, THAT WILL BEVER COME.

                ONCE YOU COME TO TERMS WITH YOURSELF, YOU WILL ATTRACT THE JOB/WORK YOU LOVE ( UNIVERSAL FORCES WILL WORK AT GETTING THE RIGHT PEOPLE AND SITUATIONS TO YOU - YOU JUST HAVE TO KEEP AN OPEN MIND AND HEAR YOUR OWN INNER VOICE) ONCE YOU SEIZE THE RIGHT OPPORTUNITY, THINGS WILL FALL IN PLACE. YOU WILL DO WHAT YOU LVOE AND LOVED WHAT YOU DO - AND THE WORK YOU DO WILL BECOME LIKE MUSIC IN YOUR LIFE. MONEY WILL BE A MERE BY-PRODUCT. 

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JOY OF GIVING

                      THE MORE YOU GIVE, THE MORE YOU GAIN

                     GIVING CAN BECOME A VERY COMPLEX THING IF YOU START ANALYSING IT TOO MUCH - GIVE TO WHOM, HOW MUCH TO GIVE, GIVING THROUGH NGO S, IS IT RIGHT TO GIVE ANYTHING TO A BEGGAR, AND SO ON. THE SIMPLE ANSWER TO ALL THESE QUESTIONS IS THAT IF YOU GET JOY IN GIVING, THEN GIVE WHATEVER YOU CAN TO ANYBODY YOU PLEASE - TIME, MONEY, THINGS, KNOWLEDGE, WISDOM, OR JUST ABOUT ANYTHING.

                   WE MAY NOT REALISE THIS BUT THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE WORKS ON A "GIVE AND TAKE " THEORY. TAKE A MOMENT, AND DWELL OVER ALL THAT YOU HAVE BEEN GIVEN. YOU WILL BE AMUSED WHEN YOU THINK BACK ON THIS.

                ❤ THE VERY LIFE YOU ARE LIVING

                ❤ THE AIR YOU ARE BREATHING

                ❤ THE WATER YOU ARE DRINKING

                ❤ THE FOOD YOU ARE EATING

                ❤ THE HOUSE YOU ARE LIVING IN

                ❤ THE DOMESTIC HELP YOU ARE GETTING

                ❤ THE COUNTRY YOU ARE LIVING IN

                ❤ THE CITY YOU ARE LIVING IN

               ❤ THE WORK YOU ARE DOING

               ❤ THE NATURE YOU ARE ENJOYING - PARK, MOUNTAINS, RIVERS, BEACHES.

               ❤ THE TRANSPORT MEANS YOU ARE USING - BIKES, CARS, COACHES, AIRCRAFTS

               ❤ THE MOTORABLE ROADS AND OTHER INFRASTRUCTURE YOU ARE USING

               ❤ THE MEANS OF ENTERTAINMENT YOU ARE ENJOYING - THEATRE, THEME PARKS, AMUSEMENT PARKS, MALLS

                      THIS LIST IS ENDLESS. WE TAKE THE THINGS PROVIDED BY NATURE FOR GRANTED AND FURTHER THINK THAT IT IS JUST OUR MONEY THAT IS BUYING MOST OF THE SERVICES AND MEANS. THINK AGAIN, THERE ARE A NUMBER OF PEOPLE INVOLVED FROM THE INNOVATION OF THE PRODUCT UNTIL YOU GET IT IN YOUR HAND. IF THEY HAD DECIDED NOT TO DO WHATEVER IT IS THEY DID, YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN DEPRIVED OF WHAT YOU ARE USING CURRENTLY.

                   WE LIVE IN A BIG COMMUNITY IN THE UNIVERSE WHERE IN EVERYBODY HAS A ROLE TO PLAY, AND THE MORE YOU GIVE, THE MORE YOU GAIN- IT IS A SIMPLE AND ROBUST RULE OF NATURE.WE SIMPLY CANNOT MANIPULATE THIS.

                                       THE MORE YOU GIVE, THE MORE YOU GAIN

                         ONCE YOU HAVE THIS FEELING OF GRATIFICATION, YOU WILL START SHARING JOYOUSLY. ONCE YOU START SHARING AND FORGET ABOUT THE GRATIFICATION AT THE END OF IT, IT WILL BECOME REAL JOY CALLED THE JOY OF GIVING.

                     DO NOT WORRY ABOUT WHAT YOU GET IN RETURN. YOU DO NOT NEED TO GET ANYTHING IN RETURN BECAUSE YOU ARE ALREADY ABUNDANTLY PROVIDED FOR. IT IS ONLY NOW THAT YOU HAVE REALISED THIS FACT AND STARTED GIVING BACK. GO ON, AND GRAB EVERY SINGLE MOMENT OF THIS JOY AT EVERY OPPORTUNITY YOU COME ACROSS.

                    IF YOU ARE STILL NOT SURE WHERE TO START, THE FOLLOWING LIST                          CAN HELP.

     

               ❤ COOK OR BUY FOOD FOR SOMEONE WHO IS HUNGRY - FAMILY, FRIENDS, OR A STRANGER.

               ❤ GIVE TIME TO SOMEONE WHO IS LONGING FOR YOUR COMPANY - FAMILY, FRIENDS, OR THE ELDERLY.

               ❤ TEACH THOSE WHO ARE WILLING TO LEARN.

               ❤ SUPPORT SICK PEOPLE BY NURSING THEM, PAYING THEIR BILLS, AND HELPING THEM RECOVER FASTER.

               ❤ GIVE A FLOWER TO SOMEONE WHEN YOU MEET HIM OR HER.

               ❤ DEVELOP THE HABIT OF TAKING SOME TOKEN WITH YOU WHEN YOU GO TO MEET SOMEONE. IT NEED NOT BE EXPENSIVE-FLOWERS, FRUITS, BOOKS,. IT IS THE THOUGHT THAT IS IMPORTANT AND NOT WHAT YOU BUY.

              ❤ WHEN YOU GO OUT WITH FRIENDS, TREAT THEM TO A MEAL AT EVERY OPPORTUNITY YOU GET.

              ❤ LISTEN CAREFULLY AND INTENTLY WHEN SOMEONE IS TALKING WITH YOU.

              ❤ SHARE YOUR LOVE AND CARE WITH THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU.

              ❤ GREET AND THANK THE PEOPLE WHO ARE GENERALLY TAKEN FOR GRANTED, LIKE WATCHMEN, SECURITY GUARDS, DRIVERS, DOMESTIC HELP, OR ANYONE WHO IS RENDERING SOME KIND OF SERVICE TO YOU.

              ❤ IF YOU SEE ELDERLY PEOPLE CROSSING THE ROAD, HELP THEM AND WISH THEM WELL.

              ❤ IF SOMEONE IS IN A HURRY AND WANTS TO MOVE AHEAD IN THE QUEUE AT PUBLIC PLACES, JUST LET HIM OR HER THROUGH - THE SKY IS NOT GOING TO FALL DOWN.

             ❤ IF SOMEONE IS IN DISTRESS, PRAY FOR HIM OR HER - IN FACT, PRAY FOR ALL THE PEOPLE YOU KNOW.

             ❤ HELP PEOPLE WITHOUT THEM FINDING OUT WHO IS HELPING THEM.

               ONCE YOU START DOING THIS, IT WILL BECOME SECOND NATURE TO YOU, AND YOU WILL BE ALIGNED WITH THE LAW OF NATURE. YOU WILL EXPERIENCE AND INNER JOY THAT CANNOT BE COMPARED TO THE TEMPORARY PLEASURE YOU GET OUT OF THE VARIOUS MEANS OF ENTERTAINMENT YOU USUALLY ENJOY.

               WITH THIS, I COME TO THE END. I HOPE YOU WILL FIND USEFUL GUIDE IN YOUR PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS.

                                                               ❤.... GOD BLESS.....❤

  

                           

           

 

HARD WORK NEVER GIVE YOU MONEY

                                                   DONT BE SERIOUSLY

                  IT TOOK ME MORE THAN TWENTY YEARS TO UNDERSTAND THAT WORK COULD ALSO BE ENJOYED. TO BE FAIR, I SECRETLY ENJOYED IT BUT WAS CONSTANTLY REMINDING MYSELF THAT IT WAS WORK AND THAT I SHOULD NOT ENJOY IT. I HAVE TO DO IT "SERIOUSLY" BECAUSE I HAVE TO EARN. WHAT A STUPID THOUGHT! IF YOU, LIKEME, TAKE WORK VERY SERIOUSLY BECAUSE YOU THINK IT HAS TO BE TREATED SO, WELCOME ABOARD!

                   I THINK THIS HAS SOMETHING TO DO WITH ONE'S BACKGROUND, UPBRINGING, AND FINANCIAL SITUATION. WITH DUE RESPECT TO MY PAST, THE ONLY AIM OF MY LIFE WHEN I WAS SIXTEEN WAS TO SOMEHOW STUDY HARD, GET THE REQUIRED MARKS IN TENTH AND TWELTH GRADES, OBTAIN ADMISSION INTO AN ENGINEERING COLLEGE, START EARNING SOONER THAN LATER, AND SUPPORT MY FAMILY! WHEN I SEE PHOTOS OF MY YOUTH, THESE FEELINGS ARE REFLECTED ON MY FACE. I FEEL THIS PRESSURE EVEN NOW!

                 I DID NOT HAVE THE CONCEPT OF ENJOYING LIFE, SMELLING THE ROSE ON THE WAY, OR TAKING A REFRESHING BREAK- I WAS  CAUGHT UP IN A RACE LIKE HOW IT WAS SHOWN IN THE HINDI MOVIE 3 IDIOTS-JUST RUNNING AROUND WITHOUT KNOWING WHAT I WAS DOING. SOMEHOW, I GOT DONE WITH ENGINEERING AND THEN, I WAS IN HURRY TO GET A JOB MORE THAN MY RESULTS.

                  I GOT A JOB, THEN, I WANTED TO SWITCH OVER TO A BIGGER ORGANISATION FOR BETTER PAY, POSITION, AND RESPECT.

               YES, WE ALL NEED MONEY, AND WE DO NEED TO WORK HARD FOR IT. HOWEVER, THIS DOES NOT MEAN THAT WE CAN'T ENJOY OUR WORK OR THAT WE HAVE TO BECOME TOO SERIOUS ABOUT IT. TO START WITH, 

                       LET US LOOK AT THE FOLLOWING SUGGESTIONS:

             ❤ FREE YOURSELF OF WORRIES  ABOUT THE FUTURE - YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER IT ANYWAY.

             ❤ STOP PLEASING EVERYBODY AROUND YOU.

             ❤ LEARN TO SAY "NO" WHEN NECCESSARY.

             ❤ ALIGN YOUR HEART AND MIND.

             ❤ REDUCE EXTERNAL COATING AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.

             ❤ BECOME NON-JUDEMENTAL OF OTHERS.

             ❤ STOP BEING HARD ON YOURSELF.

             ❤ DON'T WORK FOR MONEY.

                NOW, LET US DWELL IN DETAIL OVER EACH TOPIC, AND SEE HOW TO FOLLOW EACH OF THEM. IT IS NOT AS DIFFICULT AS IT SOUNDS. BELIEVE ME!

               I AM SURE EACH ONE OF US ALREADY HAS CERTAIN ABILITIES AND COMFORT ZONES WITH REGARD TO SOME OF THE ABOVE POINTS, IF NOT ALL - SO, FOCUS ON THOSE POINTS WHERE YOU NEE HELP, AND JUST GLANCE THROUGH THE POINTS YOU ARE ALREADY COMFORTABLE IN TO SEE IF THERE IS ANYTHING NEW TO BE LEARNT.

                  FIRST, LIST OUR YOUR FEARS. SOME OF THE EXAMPLES COULD BE:

         1. WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I DO NOT HAVE A JOB OR MONEY COMING IN ONE MONTH FROM NOW?

         2. WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I DIE TOMORROW ?

        3. WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF MY SPOUSE IS NOT THERE TOMORROW ?

        4. WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF MY CHILD DOES NOT BECOME SUCCESSFUL ACCORDING TO SOCIETY'S DEFINITION ?

        5. WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF SOMEBODY IN MY FAMILY FALLS SICK AND I DO NOT HAVE MONEY TO TREAT THEM ?

       6. WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I MEET WITH A SEVERE ACCIDENT ?

      7. WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I FAIL IN ACHIEVING THE REQUIRED TARGETS AT MY WORK/JOB ?

       8. WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF I LOSE THE CONTRACT I HAVE BEEN WORKING ON FOR THE PAST FEW YEARS ?

      9. WHAT IF I AM UNABLE TO BUY THAT SWANKY FLAT, WHICH HAVE I DREAMT OF BUYING FOR MORE THAN A DECADE ?

     10. WHAT IF DO NOT HAVE THAT SEDAN, WHICH I DESERVED TO HAVE FOR THE PAST FIVE YEARS BUT AM HOLDING BACK ?

     11. WHAT IF I CAN'T AFFORD TO GO ON A VACATION WITH MY FAMILY FOR ANOTHER FIVE YEARS OR EVEN MORE ?

                   THESE ARE ALL NEGATIVE THOUGHTS NOBODY LIKES TO DWELL ON, RIGHT? WE KNOW THAT THE VERY THOUGHT ITSELF GIVES US JITTERS, AND IT IS CERTAINLY NOT A GOOD IDEA TO THINK ABOUT THEM IN MORE DETAIL. HOLD YOUR BREATH - IAM GOING TO ASK YOU TO DO EXACTLY THAT.

                  IF ANY OF YOU HAVE PRACTICED VIPASSANA MEDITATION, YOU MIGHT ALREADY KNOW THIS - OUR BODY EXPERIENCE SEVERAL SENSATIONS THAT KEEP REOCCURRING AND VANISHING ON THEIR OWN, AND THIS IS A CONTINIOUS PROCESS. WHEN YOU ARE PRACTISING THIS TECHNIQUE, YOU ARE INSTRUCTED TO NOT RESIST THE SENSATION - JUST BE PRESENT, OBSERVE IT. AND IT WILL GO AWAY ON ITS OWN AS NO SENSATION LASTS FOREVER.

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ABOUT YOUR HEALTH

                                                BEING FAT OR NORMAL 

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                 MOST OF US KNOW WHAT IS APPROPRIATE FOR US TO EAT AND WHAT NEEDS TO BE CONTROLLED. HOWEVER, WE SUCCUMB TO OUR TEMPTATIONS. SOMEONE MIGHT PERSUADE US TO EAT, OR WE MIGHT HAVE THIS INNER DIALOGUE OF IT DOES NOT LOOK GOOD IF I SAY NO TO SOMETHING ALL THE TIME. I AM SURE YOU WILL FIND THIS FAMILIAR, AND SOME OF YOU MIGHT EVEN WONDER WHAT IS NEW IN THIS. THIS ONLY NEW THING HERE IS TAKING THE RIGHT DECISIONS FROM NOW ON.

              LET US STOP FOOLING OURSELVES - AFTER ALL, THIS IS OUR OWN BODY, WHICH WE NEED FOR AS LONG WE LIVE IN THIS WORLD. DO NOT FOLLOW THE EXAMPLE OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN EATING JUNK FOOD ALL THEIR LIFE AND ARE STILL HEALTHY - YOU DO NOT KNOW THEIR STORY, AND YOU DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY DO OR NOT DO. YOU ONLY HAVE CONTROL OVER YOUR OWN BODY AND NOBODY ELSE'S.

             WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS (THE MOST ADVANCED SPECIES GOD HAS CREATED) WE HAVE THE POWER TO THINK, ANALYSE, ASSESS, AND LEARN FROM OUR OWN AND OTHERS' MISTAKES. THERE ARE DEFINITELY MANY TEMPTING PREPARATIONS THAT WE MIGHT WANT TO EAT, WHICH IS OKAY, JUST ENSURE SOME DISCIPLINE, AND HAE IT IN A CONTROLLED MANNER.

            SET YOUR OWN GOALS ABOUT YOUR FOOD HABITS. WE ALL KNOW WHAT AMOUNT OF FOOD IS GOOD FOR OUR BODY, DRAW YOUR OWN LIMITS, AND FOLLOW THEM RELIGIOUSLY. REMEMBER THE MANTRA- ANYTHING IN EXCESS IS POISON.

                                                 ANYTHING IN EXCESS IS POISON

                    GIVE YOUR HEALTH THE HIGHEST PRIORITY. ONLY IF YOU ARE HEALTHY, YOU WILL BE ABLE TO CHASE YOUR GOALS, PERFORM YOUR DAILY DUTIES, WORK EFFECTIVELY, EARN MONEY, SAVE MONEY, AND ENJOY ALL THAT MONEY CAN BUY. IF YOUR HEALTH IS NOT IN ORDER, EVERYTHING ELSE WILL GO UPSIDE DOWN, NOT TO MENTION THE PAIN, AGONY, DISCOMFORT, EXPENDITURE, AND TROUBLE THAT YOU AND OTHERS AROUND YOU WILL FACE.

                   YOU ARE WHAT ARE EAT. THERE ARE SEVERAL BOOKS, DIETICIANS, AND FRIENDS TO CONSULT ON WHAT TO EAT. ALL I CAN SAY HERE IT , EAT WHAT YOU THINK IS HEALTHY FOR YOU. IMPROVE THE PROPORTIONS OF VEGETABLES/FRUITS/JUICES, AND REDUCE THE PROPORTIONS OF OIL/GHEE/SWEETS/FATTY PRODUCTS.

                                                   YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT

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                  SECONDLY, A DISCIPLINED ROUTINE - WALKING EARLY IN THE MORNING, SLEEPING EARLY AT NIGHT, TIMING O YOUR BREAKFAST/LUNCH/DINNER, YOGA/EXERCISE, SITTING AND WORKING POSTURE- IS IMPORTANT FOR A HEALTHY LIFE, WATCH YOURSELF CLOSELY, MONITOR YOUR ACTIVITIES, AND MAKE A SELF-ASSESSMENT ON WHAT NEEDS TO BE IMPROVED.

                 BE SAFE-WHILE YOU MAY NOT HAVE COMPLETE CONTROL OVER WHAT OTHERS DO TO YOU, YOU CAN AT LEAST CONTROL YOU OWN ACTIONS - OBSERVE SAFETY NORMS WHILE AT WORK, TRAVELLING, DRIVING, CROSSING THE ROADS, WORKING IN HAZARDOUS ZONES, WORKING OUTDOORS, ETC.

              FOLLOW THE SAFETY GUIDELINES PROVIDED, AND USE YOUR COMMON SENSE. REMAIN ALERT ALL THE TIME, LIVE IN THE MOMENT, AND BE FREE FROM DISTURBING THOUGHTS. IF YOUR MIND IS CLOUDED BY UNENDING DISTURBLING THOUGHTS, TAKE A BREAK, PUT YOURSELF IN A SAFE ZONE, TAKE CONTROL OR YOUR MIND, AND THEN, RESUME YOUR WORK.

           WHILE DRIVING EARLY IN THE MORNING, LATE AT NIGHT, OR WHENEVER YOU FEEL SLEEPY, JUST PULL UP YOUR VEHICLE, TAKE A NAP, REFRESH YOURSELF, AND THEN, RESUME -SIMPLE COMMON SENSE IS REQUIRED IN YOUR DAILY ROUTINE TO AVOIND ANY ACCIDENTS.

                                 WALKING/YOGA/EXERCISE/SWIMMING

                DO WHAT SUITS YOUR BODY AND LIFESTYLE BUT DEFINITELY PICK UP A HABIT, AND LET IT BECOME PART OF YOUR DAILY ROUTINE. SIMPLE EXERCISE KEEPS YOUR BODY WARM/FUNCTIONAL AND BURNS THE UNWANTED FAT YOU HAVE BEEN ACCUMULATING BY NOT EATING RIGHT. EXERCISE ALSO TONES UP YOUR BODY AND KEEPS YOU ENERGETIC AND ALERT, WHICH IS REQUIRED FOR YOUR DAILY FUNCTIONING.

             

                                                        MENTAL HEALTH

                 ALONG WITH ALL YOUR HEALTHY HABITS, IT IS ALSO IMPORTANT TO KEEP YOUR MIND HEALTHY. WATCH YOUR THOUGHTS. ARE YOU FREE FROM COMPLAINTS/CRITICISM/CONDEMNATIONS? ARE YOU THINKING POSITIVE THOUGHTS, OR ARE YOU BURDENED BY NEGATIVE THOUGHTS ALL THE TIME?

             HELP YOURSELF BY ENRICHING YOUR MIND WITH THE RIGHT THOUGHTS. READ POSITIVE/INSPIRING/POWERFUL BOOKS THAT EMPOWER AND ENLIGHTEN YOU. KEEP AWAY FROM NEGATIVE FRIENDS, NEGATIVE COMPANY, AND READING/WATCHING TOO MUCH OF NEGATIVE NEWS.

              INFACT, IF YOU ARE ADDICTED TO TELEVISION NEWS, WATCH OUT - ALL THESE 24/7 NEWS CHANNELS WILL ENSURE THAT YOU MIND IS FILLED AND REINFORCED WITH NEGATIVE NEWS. THEY WILL REPEAT THE SAME PIECE  A HUNDRED TIMES A DAY UNTIL YOUR SUBCONSCIOUS MIND IS AFFECTED BY IT! STOP WATCHING ALL THAT NOW. IF THERE IS SOMETHING IMPORTANT YOU NEED TO KNOW, SOMEONE WILL COME AND TELL YOU - DO NOT BECOME AN ENCYCLOPAEDIA OF CURRENT AFFAIRS.

            IN SUMMARY, EAT WELL, SLEEP WELL, THINK RIGHT, AND KEEP YOURSELF ACTIVE TO ENJOY THIS PRECIOUS LIFE GOD HAS BLESSED US WITH.

                   

           

           

LEADERSHIP

                                         TIPS TO SUCCESSFUL LEADERSHIP

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                      👀    HERE SOME POINTS TO GET SUCCESSFUL LEADERSHIP  👀

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    1. THE ADOPTION OF A DEFINITE MAJOR PURPOSE AND A DEFINITE PLAN FOR ATTAINING IT.

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   2. THE CHOICE OF A MOTIVE ADEQUATE TO INSPIRE CONTINUOUS ACTION IN PURSUIT OF THE OBJECT OF ONE'S MAJOR PURPOSE. NOTHING GREAT IS EVER ACHIEVED WITHOUT A DEFINITE MOTIVE.

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  3. THE MASTER MIND ALLIANCE THROUGH WHICH TO ACQUIRE THE NECESSARY POWER FOR NOTEWORTHY ACHIEVEMENT. THAT WHICH ONE MAN CAN ACCOMPLISH BY HIS OWN EFFORTS IS NEGLIGIBLE, CONFINED IN THE MAIN TO THE ACQUISTION OF THE BARE NECESSITIES OF LIFE. GREAT ACHIEVEMENTS ALWAYS IS THE RESULT OF COORDINATION OF MINDS WORKING TOWARD A DEFINITE END.

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 4. SELF-RELIANCE IN PROPORTION TO THE NATURE AND SCOPE OF ONE'S MAJOR PURPOSE. NO INE CAN GO VERY FAR WITHOUT RELYING LARGELY UPON HIS OWN EFFORTS, HIS OWN INITIATIVE, HIS OWN JUDGMENT.

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 5. SELF-DISCIPLINE SUFFICIENT TO GIVE ONE MASTERY OVER BOTH THE HEAD AND THE HEART. THE MAN WHO CANNOT OR WILL NOT CONTROL HISELF NEVER CAN CONTROL OTHERS. THERE ARE NO EXCEPTIONS TO THIS RULE. THIS IS SO IMPORTANT THAT IT SHOULD PROBABLY HAVE HEADED THE ENTIRE LIST OF THE ESSENTIALS OF LEADERSHIP.

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6. PERSISTENCE, BASED ON A WILL TO WIN. MOST MEN ARE GOOD STARTERS BUT POOR FINISHERS. THE MAN WHO GIVES UP AT THE FIRST SINGS OF OPPOSITION NEVER GOES VERY FAR IN ANY UNDERTAKING.

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 7. A WELL-DEVELOPED FACULTY OF IMAGINATION. ABLE LEADERS MUST BE ETERNALLY SEEKING NEW AND BETTER WAYS OF DOING THINGS. THEY MUST BE ON THE LOOKOUT FOR NEW IDEAS AND NEW OPPORTUNITIES TO ATTAIN THE OBJECT OF THEIR LABORS. THE MAN WHO TRAILS ALONG IN THE OLD PATH, ,DOING THINGS MERELY BECAUSE OTHERS HAVE DONE THEM, WITHOUT LOOKING FOR METHODS OF IMPROVEMENTS, NEVER BECOMES A GREAT LEADER. 

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  8. THE HABIT OF MAKING DEFINITE AND PROMPT DECISIONS AT ALL TIMES. THE MAN WHO CANNOT OR WILL NOT MAKE UP HIS OWN MIND HAS LITTLE OPPOPTUNITY TO INDUCE OTHERS TO FOLLOW HIM.

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  9. THE HABIT OF BASING OPINIONS ON KNOWN FACTS INSTEAD OF RELYING UPON GUESWORK OR HEARSAY EVIDENCE. ABLE LEADERS TAKE NOTHING FOR GRANTED WITHOUT A SOUND REASON. THEY MAKE IT THEIR BUSINESS TO GET AT TH FACTS BEFORE FORMING JUDGEMENTS, BUT THEY MOVE PROMPTLY AND DEFINITELY.

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 10. THE CAPACITY TO GENERATE ENTHUSIAM AT WILL AND DIRECT IT TO A DEFINITE END. UNCONTROLLED ENTHUSIASM MAY BE AS DETRIMENTAL AS NO ENTHUSIAM. MOREOVER, ENTHUSIASM IS CONTAGIOUS, AS IS ALSO LACK OF ENTHUSIASM. FOLLOWERS AND SUBORDINATES TAKE ON THE ENTHUSIASM OF THEIR LEADER.

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 11. A KEEN SENSE OF FAIRNESS AND JUSTICE UNDER ALL CIRCUMSTANCES. THE HABIT OF PLAYING "FAVORITES" IS DESTRUCTIVE TO LEADERSHIP. MEN RESPOND BEST TO THOSE WHO DEAL WITH THEM JUSTLY, AND ESPECIALLY WHERE THEY ARE DEALTH WITH FAIRLY BY MEN IN HIGHER POSITIONS OF AUTHORITY.

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 12. TOLERANCE (AN OPEN MIND) ON ALL SUBJECT AT ALL TIMES. THE MAN WITH A CLOSED MIND DOES NOT INSPIRE THE CONFIDENCE OF HIS ASSOCIATES. WITHOUT CONFIDENCE GREAT LEADERSHIP IS AS IMPOSSIBILITY.

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 13. THE HABIT OF GOING THE EXTRA MILE - (DOING THAN ONE IS PAID FOR AND DOING IT WITH A POSITIVED, AGREEABLE, MENTAL ATTITUDE) THIS HABIT ON THE PART OF A LEADER INSPIRES UNSELFNESS ON THE PART OF HIS FOLLOWERS OR SUBORDINATES. I HAVE NEVER KNOWN AN ABLE LEADER IN BUSINESS OR INDUSTRY WHO DID NOT ENDEAVOR AT ALL TIMES TO RENDER MORE SERVICE THAN ANY MAN UNDER HIS AUTHORITY.

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 14. TACFULNESS AND A KNEE SENSE OF DIPLOMACY, BOTH IN SPIRIT AND IN DEED. IN A FREE DEMOCRACY SUCH AS OURS, MEN DO NOT TAKE KINDLY TO BRUSQUENESS IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERS. 

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 15. THE HABIT OF LISTENING MUCH AND TAKING LITTLE. MOST PEOPLE TALK TOO MUCH AND SAY TOO LITTLE. THE LEADER WHO KNOWS HIS BUSINESS KNOWS THE VALUE OF HEARING OTHER MEN'S VIEWS. PERHAPS WE ARE EQUIPPED WITH TWO EARS, TWO EYES AND ONLY ONE TONGUE THAT WE MAY HEAR AND SEE TWICE AS MUCH AS WE SPEAK.

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  16. AN OBSERVING NATURE. THE HABIT OF NOTING SMALL DETAILS. ALL BUSINESS IS A COMPOSITE OF DETAILS. THE MAN WHO DOES NOT BECOME FAMILIAR WITH ALL THE DETAILS OF THE WORK FOR WHICH HE AND HIS SUBORDINATES ARE RESPONSIBLE WILL NOT BE A SUCCESSFUL LEADER. MOREOVER, A KNOWLEDGE OF SMALL DETAIL IS ESSENTIAL FOR PROMOTION.

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 17. DETERMINATION RECOGNITION OF THE FACT THAT TEMPORARY DEFEAT NEED NOT BE ACCEPTED AS PERMANENT FAILURE. ALL MEN OCCASIONALLY MEET WITH DEFEAT, IN ONE FORM OR ANOTHER. THE SUCCESSFUL LEADER LEARNS FROM DEFEAT, BUT HE NEVER USES IT AS AN EXCUSE FOR NOT TRYING AGAIN. THE ABILITY TO ACCEPT AND CARRY RESPONSIBILITIES IS AMONG THE MORE PROFITABLE OF ACCOMPLISHMENTS. IT IS THE MAJOR NEED OF ALL INDUSTRY AND BUSINESS. IT PAYS HIGHER DEVIDENDS WHEN ONE ASSUMES RESPONSIBILITY. IT PAYS HIGHER DIVIDENDS WHEN ONE ASSUMES AND BUSINESS. IT PAYS HIGHER DIVIDENS WHEN ONE ASSUMES RESPONSIBILITY WIHTOUT BEING REQUIRED TO DO SO.

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  18. THE CAPACITY TO STAND CRITICISM WITHOUT RESENTMENT. THE MAN WHO "FLARES" UP WITH RESENTMENT WHEN HIS WORK IS CRITICIZED WILL NEVER BECOME A SUCCESSFUL LEADER. REAL LEADERS CAN "TAKE IT" AND THEY MAKE IT THEIR BUSINESS TO DO SO. BIGNESS OVERLOOKS THE SMALLNESS OF CRITICISM AND CARRIES ON.

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  19. TEMPERANCE IN EATING, DRINKING, AND ALL SOCIAL HABITS. THE MAN WHO HAS NO CONTROL OVER HIS APPETITIES WILL HAVE VERY LITTLE CONTROL OVER OTHER PEOPLE.

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 20. LOYALTY TO ALL TO WHOM LOYALTY IS DUE. LOYALTY BEGINS WITH LOYALTY TO ONE'S SELF. IT EXTENDS TO ONE'S ASSOCIATES IN BUSINESS. DISLOYALTY BREEDS CONTEMPT. NO ONE CAN SUCCEED WHO "LITTLE THE HAND THAT FEEDS HIM".

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 21. FAMILIARITY WITH THE NINE BASIC MOTIVES WHICH ACTUATE MEN (ALREADY DISCUSSED IN LESSON TWO, THESE MOTIVES ARE RELISTED HERE FOR REVIEW. EMOTION OF LOVE, EMOTION OF SEX, DESIRE FOR FINANCIAL GAIN, DESIRE FOR SELF-PRESERVATION, DESIRE FOR FREEDOM OF BODY AND MIND, DESIRE FOR SELF-EXPRESSION, DESIRE FOR PERPETUATION OF LIFE AFTER DEATH, EMOTION OF ANGER, AND EMOTION OF FEAR) THE MAN WHO DOES NOT UNDERSTAND THE NATURAL MOTIVES TO WHICH MEN RESPOND WILL NOT BE A SUCCESSFUL LEADER.

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 22. SUFFICIENT ATTRACTIVENESS OF PERSONALITY TO INDUCE VOLUNTARY COOPERATION FROM OTHERS. (SEE THE LIST OF THE FACTORE OF ATTRACTIVE PERSONALITY IN LESSON THREE). SOUND LEADERSHIP IS BASED UPON EFFECTIVE SALESMANSHIP, THE ABILITY TO BE SYMPATHETIC, AND TO MAKE ONE'S SELF PLEASING TO OTHERS.

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  23. THE HABIT OF LEARNING FROM MISTAKES- ONE'S OWN AND THE MISTAKES OF OTHERS.

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 24. WILLINGNESS TO ACCEPT THE FULL RESPONSIBILITY OF THE MISTAKES OF ONE'S SUBORDINATES WITHOUT TRYING TO "PASS THE BUCK" NOTHING DESTROYS ONE'S CAPACITY OF LEADERSHIP QUICKER THAN THE HABIT OF SHIFTING RESPONSIBILITIES TO OTHERS.

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 25. THE HABIT OF ADEQUATELY RECOGNIZING THE MERITS OF OTHERS, ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY HAVE DONE EXCEPTIONALLY GOOD WORK. MEN WILL OFTEN WORK HARDER FOR FRIENDLY RECOGNITION OF THEIR MERITS THAN THEY WILL FOR MONEY ALONE. THE SUCCESSFUL LEADER GOES OUT OF HIS WAY GO GIVE CREDIT TO HIS SUBORDINATES. A PAT ON THE BACK DENOTES CONFIDENCE.

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 26. THE HABIT OF APPLYING THE GOLDEN RULE PRINCIPLE IN ALL HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS. THE SERMON ON THE MOUNT REMAINS A CLASSIC FOR ALL TIME, AS A SOUND RULE OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIP. IT INSPIRES COOPERATION THAT CAN BE HAD IN NO OTHER WAY.

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27. A POSITIVE "MENTAL ATTITUDE" AT ALL TIMES. NO ONE LIKES A "GROUCHY" SKEPTICAL. SUCH A MAN WILL NEVER BECOME AN ABLE LEADER.

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 28. THE  HABIT OF ASSUMING FULL RESPONSIBILITY FOR EACH AND EVERY TASK ONE UNDERTAKES, REGARDLESS OF WHO ACTUALLY DOES THE WORK. PERHAPS THIS QUALITY OF LEADERSHIP SHOULD HAVE HEADED THE ENTIRE LIST, AND IT WOULD HAVE IF THE QUALITIES OF SUCCESSFUL LEADERSHIP HAD BEEN LISTED IN THE ORDER OF THEIR IMPORTANCE.

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 29. A KEEN SENSE OF VALUES. THE ABILITY TO EVALUATE IN THE LIGHT OF SOUND JUDGMENT WITHOUT BEING GUIDED BY EMOTIONAL FACTORS. THE HABIT OF PUTTING FIRST THINGS FIRST.

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                     ALL THESE QUALITIES OF LEADERSHIP ARE CAPABLE OF DEVELOPMENT AND APPLICATION BY ANY PERSON OF AVERAGE INTELLIGENCE.

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YOU MUST KNOW ABOUT

                          ❤ DO NOT TAKE YOUR PARENTS FOR GRANTED ❤

                    YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR PARENTS IN THE NEXT IMPORTANT ONE YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE. LET US DWELL OVER THIS IN MORE DETAIL. FIRST THINGS FIRST - DO NOT TAKE YOUR PARENTS FOR GRANTED. DO NOT BLAME THEM FOR WHAT YOU HAVE OR DO NOT. THEY HAPPEN TO BE CHOSEN BY THE ALMIGHTY TO BRING YOU INTO THIS WORLD - SO, IF YOU HAVE NOT DONE THIS YET, THANK THEM FOR BRINGING YOU INTO THIS WORLD.

              TOO OFTEN, WE TAKE OUR PARENTS FOR GRANTED. KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY, WE IGNORE THEM OR MISS OUT ON GIVING THEM DUE ATTENTION - NOT BECAUSE WE LOVE THEM LESS, BUT BECAUSE WE ARE SIMPLY TOO CONSUMED BY SO MANY THINGS AND NOISES AROUND US.

            OUR NEAREST AND DEAREST HAVE BEEN PROVIDING US WITH A NEST ALL ALONG, AND WE TEND TO AVOID ACKNOWLEDGING THAT. OCCASIONALLY, WE ARE REMINDED OF IT BY THEIR HEALTH, THEIR CONVERSATION, OR THE LACK OF IT. WHEN YOU HEAR THEM TALKING TO SOMEONE ELSE, YOU MAY REALISE OH MY GOODNESS ! I NEVER KNEW THEY WERE FEELING LIKE THIS.

            NO WORRIES IT IS NEVER TOO LATE. DO THE FOLLOWING RIGHT FROM                      TODAY:

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        ❤ GREET THEM FIRST THING IN THE MORNING (NINE OUT OF TEN CASES, THEY WILL WAKE UP EARLIER THAN YOU), ASK THEM HOW ARE THEY DOING, AND SAY A COUPLE OF NICE THINGS - NOT ONLY WILL IT BRIGHTEN THEIR DAY BUT IT WILL ALSO MAKE YOUR DAY HAPPIER, SIMILARLY, WISH THEM GOOD NIGHT (NINE OUT OF TEN CASES, THEY WILL GO TO BED MUCH EARLIER THAN YOU ), FIND OUT IF THEY NEED ANYTHING FROM YOU, INQUIRE IF THEY COMFORTABLE, AND ASK ABOUT THEIR ROUTINE (HAVE THEY TAKEN THE MEDICINE THEY NEED TO TAKE, ETC).

         ❤ IF YOU ARE FORTUNATE AND OPERATE FROM HOME OCCASIONALLY LIKE ME, AND IF YOUR PARENTS LIVE WITH YOU, HAVE AS MANY BREAKFAST, LUNCHES, AND DINNERS AS YOU CAN WITH THEM - IT IS THE BEST PLACE AND WAY TO ENRICH YOUR BOND WITH THEM AND MAKE THEM FEEL WANTED. LEARN FROM THEM, LISTEN TO WHAT THEY HAVE TO SAY. LAUGH TOGETHER, AND MAKE PLANS TOGETHER OVER A MEAL. LISTEN TO STORIES FROM THEIR PAST, LISTEN TO WHAT IS GOING ON IN THEIR MIND, PICK UP CLUES ON WHAT THEY MIGHT NEED (THEY MAY NOT EVEN TELL YOU WHAT THEY NEED, YOU WILL HAVE TO FIGURE IT OUT) AND PROVIDE IT TO THEM.

        ❤ GET THEIR BLESSINGS, AND SPEND AS MUCH TIME YOU CAN WITH THEM - IT IS LIKE ACCUMULATION THE WEALTH OF THEIR BLESSINGS, WHICH YOU CAN THEN WITHDRAW FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE AND YEARS TO COME WHEN THEY ARE NOT AROUND. EACH ONE OF US HAVE DIFFERENT WAYS TO EXPRESS OUR GRATITUDE TOWARDS THEM. FOLLOW YOUR OWN WAY BUT DO IT AS MANY TIMES AS YOU CAN, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, DO IT FROM YOUR HEART.

        ❤ SPEND TIME WITH YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER SEPARATELY - SET ASIDE SOME TIME FOR THE TWO OF YOU AWAY FROM EVERYBODY ELSE, AND YOU WILL DISCOVER THINGS THAT WOULD HAVE NEVER COME UP OTHERWISE. MAKE A NOTE OF WHAT YOU LEARN IN YOUR ONE - ON - ONE CONVERSATIONS WITH THEM, AND CONSIDER WHAT MORE YOU CAN DO TO MAKE THEM HAPPIER.

      ❤ MONEY, LUXURY, CONVENIENCE, AND OTHER MATERIAL THINGS CAN ADD A TEMPORARY FLAVOUR BUT REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR TIME, ATTENTION, AND THE FEELING OF BEING WANTED. 

      ❤ IF YOU ARE NOT STAYING WITH THEM, MAKE AS MANY CALLS AS POSSIBLE, MEET THEM AS OFTEN YOU CAN, AND KEEP THEM IN YOUR MIND ALL THE TIME.

                    

                                                        ❤  ACQUAINTANCES ❤

                      TODAY, WE ARE CONNECTED WITH A NUMBER OF PEOPLE ON A TEMPORARY BASIS - FOR EXAMPLE, SHOP KEEPERS, FELLOW COMMUTERS, SERVICE PROVIDERS, FELLOW PARTICIPANTS IN EVETS WE ATTEND, PEOPLE WE MEET DURING OUR VACATIONS, AND SO ON.

                 MORE OFTEN THAN NOT, WE SIMPLY OVERLOOK THEM. BUSY IN OUR OWN THOUGHTS, WE SIMPLY FORGET THEM IN A FLASH OR DO NOT EVEN REGISTER THEM. TAKE A DEEP BREATH HERE AS I AM GOING TO EXPLAIN WHY YOU SHOULD CHANGE THIS BEHAVIOUR.

             EVERY INDIVIDUAL IS A UNIQUE SOUL AS ARE WE - WE ARE ALL CREATIONS OF THE ALMIGHTY, AND IN THAT WAY, WE ARE ALL CREATIONS OF THE ALMIGHTY, AND IN THAT WAY, WE ALL BELONG TO ONE BIG FAMILY. EVERY OTHER SOUL IS OUR SIBLING IN SOME FORM OR THE OTHER. IT MAY SOUND PHILOSOPHICAL BUT IT ISN'T A MERE ABSTRACT NOTION.

            SEVERAL LEARNED SCHOLARS/SPIRITUAL LEADERS ACROSS THE GLOBE HAVE STUDIED THE EVOLUTION OF HUMAN BEINGS IN THE UNIVERSE AND HAVE PROVIDED ADEQUATE PROOF SUPPORTING THIS IDEA. ONCE YOU ACCEPT THIS, YOU WILL START TREATING EVERY INDIVIDUAL AS YOUR SIBLING - THERE WILL BE LOVE, RESPECT, UNDERSTANDING, AND CONSIDERATION, AND YOU WILL DEVELOP FRIENDSHIPS ALL OVER THE PLACE.

          IN CONCLUSION, LET US UNDERSTAND AND ACCEPT THAT HUMAN BEINGS ARE SOCIAL ANIMALS SURROUNDED BY A NUMBER OF RELATIONSHIPS - IN FACT, THE UNIVERSE HELPED US CREATE THIS KIND OF A SUPPORT SYSTEM AS IT KNOWS THAT WE WILL NOT BE ABLE TO SUSTAIN OUR EXISTENCE WIHOUT IT.

         SO, WATCH EACH OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS CLOSELY AND CORRECT THEM WHERE NEEDED BY MAKING SMALL CHANGES ONE AT A TIME. EVEN IF IT FEELS TOO MUCH FOR YOU, BE DETERMINDED AS YOU WILL RELIEVE YOURSELF OF THE UNNECCESSARY BAGGAGE THAT YOU CARRY SUBCONSCIOUSY.

          ONCE AGAIN, FRIENDSHIP IS NOT MEASURED BY THE AMOUNT OF TIME YOU SPEND TOGETHER. RATHER, DEPENDS ON HOW MUCH YOU HAVE LIFTED EACH OTHER IN TIMES OF NEED. 

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RELATIONSHIPS

                                                 ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS

               RELATIONSHIP WITH WHOM, YOU MAY ASK - THE ANSWER IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH EVERYBODY SURROUNDING YOU. THIS INCLUDES YOUR CLOSEST FAMILY MEMBERS - SIBLINGS, PARENTS, SPOUSE, IN - LAWS - FRIENDS MEMBERS - SIBLINGS PARENTS, SPOUSE, IN - LAWS - FRIENDS, NEIGHBOURS, COLLEAGUES AND THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE WHO SERVE YOU THROUGHOUT THE DAY RIGHT FROM DOMESTIC SERVICE TO ACROSEE - THE COUNTER STAFF AT SHOPPING MALLS OR STORES TO ACROSS - THE - COUNTER STAFF AT SHOPPING MALLS OR STORES. IN FACT, IT IS ANYBODY AND EVERYBODY UNDER THE SKY WHO INTERACTS WITH YOU !

             TO SET PRIORITIES STRAIGHT, LET US ADOPT THIS ORDER, WHICH I LEARNT THROUGH MY OWN EXPERIENCE AND THE WISDOM OF MANY LEARNED LEADERS AND RESPECTED PERSONALITIES:

              💖 YOURSELF

              💖 PARENTS

              💖 SPOUSE

              💖 FRIENDS

              💖 ACQUAINTANCES

            THIS ORDER DOES NOT MEAN THAT ONE IS MORE OR LESS IMPORTANT THAN THE OTHERS - THE ORDER IS USEFUL AS A GUIDE WHEN YOU ARE CONFUSED ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIPS.

                                                                           YOURSELF

                     AS YOU WOULD HAVE HEARD MANY TIMES DURING SAFETY DEBRIEFINGS BY AIR HOSTESSES, IN THE EVENT OF AN EMERGENCY, YOU ARE TO PUT YOUR MASK ON FIRST BEFORE HELPING YOUR CHILD OR COMPANION - THIS MEANS THAT YOU CAN HELP OTHERS ONLY WHEN YOU YOURSELF ARE SAFE.

                   LOVE YOURSELF, BE CONFIDENT ABOUT YOURSELF, RESPECT YOURSELF, AND DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO ENSURE THAT YOUR SELF - ESTEEM IS HIGH - BE IT YOUR LOOKS, FITNESS, GROOMING, THE WAY YOU DRESS, THE WAY YOU TALK, THE WAY YOU PRESENT YOUR THOUGHTS, THE WAY YOU EAT, AND SO ON. WORK ON YOURSELF EVERY DAY TO KEEP YOURSELF BOTH PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY FIT.

                                                          PHYSICAL HEALTH

                           INJECT DAILY DISCIPLINE INTO YOUR ROUTINE TO KEEP YOURSELF PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY FIT. YOUR LOOKS, GROOMING, AND OUTFITS ARE AS PER YOUR INDIVIDUAL TASTE - I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT BEING HEALTHY AND FIT.

                     DO WHATEVER WORKS FOR YOU - YOGA, EXERCISE, WALKING, EATING RIGHT, OR DRINKING RIGHT. I UNDERSTAND THAT IN TODAY'S WORLD, YOU MAY NOT HAVE COMPLETE CONTROL OVER WHAT YOU EAT AND DRINK. HOWEVER, BE CONSCIOUS ABOUT IT, AND INDULGE AS LESS YOU CAN - AFTER ALL IT IS YOUR BODY AND YOUR LIFE.

                                                              MENTAL HEALTH

                             DO NOT TAKE YOURSELF FOR GRANTED. EVERY DAY - I REPEAT,EVERY DAY - YOU NEEDD TO TALK TO YOURSELF, ASK QUESTIONS LIKE, "HOW ARE YOU DONG TODAY ? AND WHAT'S GOING ON ? AND CHECK THE ANSWERS YOU RECEIVE FROM YOURSELF.

                      MEDITATE. LET US DEFINE MEDITATION HERE. MEDITATION DOES NOT MEAN YOU SIT IN A SPECIFIC POSTURE FOR AN HOUR AND ATTEMPT TO DO THIHGS THAT CAN ONLY BE ACHIEVED BY YOGIS AFTER YEARS OF PRACTICE. NO, MEDITATION JUST MEANS THAT YOU SHOULD PUT YOURSELF IN A SILENT ZONE, MINIMISE THE HUNDREDS OF THOUGHTS RUNNING THROUGH YOUR MIND REGARDING YOUR DAILY ROUTINE, TASKS ON HAND, WORRIES, ETC., AND JUST BE.

                BE YOURSELF AS IF NOTHING ELSE EXISTS IN THE WORLD, YOU CARRY NO RESPONSIBILITIES, AND THERE IS NOBODY TO TELL YOU ANYTHING, IF YOU FEEL EVEN THIRTY SECONDS OF "NOTHINGNESS" YOU ARE IMPROVING YOUR MENTAL HEALTH. SOME LEARNED AUTHORS CALL IT AS BEING IN THE "GAP". ONE CAN EVEN GO INTO THE GAP FOR A COUPLE OF MINUTES IN THE MIDST OF A CRISIS.

              THAT COULD BE A SEPERATE CHAPTER IN ITSELF - LET US NOT BOTHER MUCH ABOUT IT NOW. DO ANYTHING THAT CAN BRING YOU THAT BLISS, AND SUSTAIN IT TO THE EXTRA DOSE OF ENZYMES THAT REGENERATES THE CELLS IN YOUR BODY AND MAKES YOU YOUNGER, HEALTHIER, AND HAPPIER.

                                                                PAMPER YOURSELF

               DON'T TAKE THIS LITERALLY AND BEGIN INDULGING IN ALL KINDS OF EXPENSIVE AND ADDICTIVE ACTIVITIES. WHAT I MEAN BY "PAMPER" HERE IS LOOSEN YOURSELF UP A BIT EVERY NOW AND THEN, PLAY A LITTLE MORE, WATCH MOTIVATIONAL MOVIES, EXPLORE NEW PLACES, GIVE YOURSELF A GOOD MASSAGE, AND BASICALLY DO THINGS THAT MAKE YOU FEEL LIGHTER.

             DON'T TAKE YOURSELF TOO SERIOUSLY. IF YOU ARE LIKE ME AND ARE VERY HARD ON YOURSELF IN TERMS OF DISCIPLINE, TAKING UP MORE THAN THE REQUIRED TASKS FOR A DAY OR MEETING DEADLINES WITH A DO OR DIE ATTITUDE, WATCH OUT!.YOU COULD BE BURNING YOURSELF OUT WHILE LIVING WITH  THE MISGUIDED NOTION THAT YOU ARE COMMITTED AND DEDICATED AND EXPERIENCE A FALSE SENSE OF ACCOMPLISHMENT!

            YES, IT IS IMPORTANT TO DO EVERYTHING YOU NEED TO DO TO MEET YOUR GOALS. EXCEL! HOWEVER, IF YOU FUMBLE, MISS, OR ENCOUNTER UNPLANNED INTERRUPTIONS OR CHALLEGES, DON'T BE BOGGED DOWN OR START BEATING YOURSELF UP OVER IT- JUST REMEMBER YOU ARE ON THE JOB AND THAT IT IS OKAY.

           DON'T LET PERFECTIONISM PUSH YOU DOWN AND MAKE A BIG DEAL OUT OF A MINOR ISSUE. REMEMBER THAT THE HEAVENS ARE NOT GOING TO FALL BECAUSE OF THE WAY YOU THINK BUT YOUR STATE OF MIND WILL DEFINITELY BE TURNED UPSIDE DOWN.

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