HOW SHOULD BEING A TEACHER AND A STUDENT

                                               💪   LEADERSHIP JOURNEY 💪

                    GOOD LEADERS ARE GOOD READERS- THIS MEANS THAT LEADERS ARE CONSTANLY LEARNING ALL THE TIME. ONLY IF YOU ARE A GOOD STUDENT, CAN YOU BE A GOOD TEACHER. AS THEY SAY, WALK THE TALK. LEADERS LEARN AND LEARN AND LEARN, AND ONECE THEY REAC MINIMUM UNDERSTANDING, THEY APPLY THEIR LEARNING, EVOLVE THERI BEINGS, AND START SHARING, IT IS A SIMPLE AS THAT.

                  KNOWLEDGE SHARED IS KNOWLEDGE GAINED. WHEN YOU TEACH SOMEONE, THE FIRST PERSON WHO LEARNS FROM IT IS YOURSELF. EVERY WORD THAT COMES OUR OF YOUR MOUTH IS FIRST HEARD BY YOU. THIS REINFORCES YOUR OWN KNOWLEDGE, UNDERSTANDING, AND BELIEF. ONCE THAT HAPPENS, YOUR MESSAGE GETS RELAYED WITH CONVICTION, AND YOU MAKE AN IMPACT.

               👀 LET US BREAK SOME MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT LEADERSHIP 👀

      LEADERSHIP IS NOT ABOUT THE TITLE AND DESIGNATION YOU HOLD. LEADERSHIP IS NOT ABOUT DICTATORSHIP. LEADERSHIP IS NOT ABOUT DOMINANCE. LEADERSHIP IS NOT ABOUT HOW BIG OR SMOOTH YOU TALK. LEADERSHIP IS NOT ABOUT HOW BIG YOUR OFFICE OR HOME IS.

           SIMPLY STATED, LEADERSHIP IS ALL ABOUT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY -RESPONSIBILITY TOWARDS YOUR OWN SELF, YOUR LIFE, WHAT YOU DO WITH YOUR LIFE, AND THE IMPACT IT MAKES ON OTHERS. A BEATIFUL BOOK WRITTEN BY ROBIN SHARMA TITLED THE LEADER WHO HAD NO TITLE. A MODERN FABLE ON REAL SUCCESS IN BUSINESS AND IN LIFE EXPLAINS THIS CONCEPT VERY NICELY. I RECOMMEND THIS BOOK STRONGLY AS IT WILL HELP YOU THROW AWAY YOUR MISCONCEPTIONS ABOUT LEADERSHIP

                      ❤  LEADERSHIP IS ALL ABOUT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY  ❤ 

         ONCE YOU BECOME RESPONSIBLE, YOUR FOCUS WILL SLOWLY BE SHIFTED AWAY FROM YOURSELF TO OTHERS AROUND YOU. THIS DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU WILL CARE LESS ABOUT YOURSELF - YOU WILL CONTINUE TO IMPROVE YOURSELF ALL THE TIME SUBSONSCIOUSLY (AS THOUGH ON AUTOPILOT) WHILE REMAINING FOCUSED ON IMPROVING THE LIVES OF OTHERS AROUND YOU.

             THE IMPACT IS SO PROFOUND THAT GOOD LEADERS ATTRACT PEOPLE TO THEM LIKE MAGNERS. EVERYTHING A GOOD LEADER DOES, EVERY WORD AND EVERY ACT, BECOMES IMPORTANT. GOOD LEARNERS WILL WANT TO ASSOCIATE WITH THEM NOT AS MERE FOLLOWERS BUT AS ACTIVE PARTICIPANTS AND GAIN KNOWLEDGE TO IMPROVE THEIR OWN LIVES AS THEY WILL BE LEADERS THEMSELVES EVENTUALLY.

           A GOOD LEADER WILL NEVER PREACH. THEY WILL DO THE RIGHTTHING, PRACTICE IT IN THEIR OWN LIVES, AND LET THEIR ACTIONS SPEAK. THEY WILL NOT GO OUT OF THEIR WAY TO TEACH YOU BUT IF YOU ARE WILLING TO LEARN FROM THEM, THEY WILL SHARE EVERYTHING THEY HAVE LEARNT WITHOUT HESITATION. AS THEY SAY, THE TEACHER WILL APPEAR WHEN THE STUDENT IS READY.

         ALL  SPIRITUAL LEADERS HAVE FOUND THEIR GURUS BY ACCIDENT BECAUSE THEIR DESIRE TO LEARN WAS SO INTENSE THAT GURUS HAD TO APPEAR IN FRONT OF THEM. COSMIC ENERGY ATTRACRED THEM TO EACH OTHER. WHETHER YOU BELIEVE IN IT OR NOT, COSMIC ENERGY IS REAL AND CAN DO  WONDERS IF YOU UNDERSTAND IT.

         HOWEVER, THAT IS A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT SUBJECT, AND WE WILL TOUCH UPON IT IN A LATER CHAPTER. FOR NOW, IF YOU WANT TO BE RESPONSIBLE IN YOUR LIFE AND IN WHAT YOU DO (IN OTHER WORDS, IF YOU WANT TO BE A GOOD LEADER), DO THE FOLLOWING:

          1. DEFINE THE PURPOSE OF YOUR LIFE. IT MAY BE NOT BE AS SIMPLE AS IT SOUNDS - GREAT LEADERS HAVE SPENT THEIR ENTIRE LIVES TRYING TO UNDERSTAND IT.

        2. BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND IN WHAT YOU DO. EXCEL IN WHATEVER YOU DO. EXCEL IN WHATEVER YOU DO. IF YOU ARE DOING WHAT YOU SHOULD BE DOING, CHANGE IT NOW. DO WHAT YOU LOVE, AND LOVE WHAT YOU DO.

       3. WALK YOUR TALK- DO NOT DO THINGS YOU DON'T BELIEVE IN. DO NOT PREACH ABOUT THE THINGS YOU DON'T DO. DO NOT BECOME A BLABBERING MACHINE.LET YOUR ACTIONS DO THE TALKING.

      4. REMAIN A STUDENT THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE. NEVER FALL PREY TO THE "ARRIVAL SYNDROME" - NEVER THINK THAT YOU HAVE REACHED YOUR DESTINATION AND ALL THAT IS LEFT FOR YOU IS PREACHING. KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ENJOY UNTIL YOUR LAST BREATH ON THIS EARTH. REMEMBER THAT A.P.J. ABDULKALAM WAS DELIVERING A LECTURE IN A CLASSROOM WHEN HE TOOK HIS LAST BREATH. SHARINGTHE KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM HE GAINED OVER THE YEARS WAS HIS MISSION, AND HE DID IT PASSIONATELY UNTIL HIS LAST MOMENT ON EARTH- WHAT A GREAT LEADERSHIP QUALITY TO FOLLOW!

     5. NEVER JUDGE PEOPLE BY THE WORK THEY DO, THE TITLE THEY HOLD, OR THEIR OUTER APPEARANCE - IT COULD BE GROSSLY MISLEADING.

    6. THANK EVERYBODY FOR ALL THEIR ACTIONS. APPRECIATE THEIR GOOD WORK EVERY TIME.

   7. ASSOCIATE WITH PEOPLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS. APPRECIATE THEIR GOOD WORK EVERY TIME.

   8. READ AND LEARN FROM BOOKS /MAGAZINES/ AUTOBIOGRAPHIES/ SEMINARS/ CONFERENCE IN YOUR FIELD OF WORK OR INTEREST - YOU WILL FIND PRICELESS TREASURES OF WISDOM THROUGH THESE MEDIA.

  9. SHARE THE KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM YOU HAGVE GAINED WITH PEOPLE WHO ARE WILLING TO LEARN FROM YOU.

  10. LAST, BUT NOT THE LEAST, LIVE A DISCIPLINED LIFE. WATCH WHAT YOU ARE DOING, WHAT YOU ARE EATING, WHAT YOU ARE TALKING, YOUR DAILY ROUTINE, YOUR PUNCTUALITY, HOW YOU ARE TREATING YOUR BODY, AND WHOM ARE YOU ASSOCIATING WITH MOST.

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                              TRAIN YOUR MIND TO TAKE SMALL ADVENTURES

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     TRAIN YOUR MIND TO TAKE SMALL ADVENTURES, AND LET IS UNDERSTAND THAT NOTHING BAD WILL HAPPEN - IT IS ALL IN YOUR MIND.

       1. TAKE THAT AMUSEMENT RIDE THAT YOU WERE ALWAYS AFRAID TO TAKE.

       2.TAKE A DIFFERENT ROUTE WHILE DRIVING LONG DISTANCES IN YOUR CAR - GET LOST, AND FIND A  NEW WAY.

      3. TALK IN PUBLIC IF YOU HAVE A FEAR OF SPEAKING IN PUBLIC - THIS WILL TRAIN YOUR MIND TO GET USED TO THE FACT THAT NOTHING WILL HAPPEN EVEN IF YOU FAIL.

     4. LOOK STUPID IN A GROUP BY SHARING A LAME JOKE - THIS WILL HELP YOU STOP FEELING SELF - CONSCIOUS AND COME OUT OF THE "LOOKING- GOOD SYNDROME".

     5. GO ON A VACATION WITHOUT BOOKING A HOTEL BEFOREHAND - THIS WILL TRAIN YOUR MIND TO EXPLORE AND KNOW THAT YOU CAN DEAL WITH UNCERTAINTY.

     6. GO SCUBA DIVING, IF YOU DON'T KNOW SWIMMING, TO OVERCOME YOUR FEAR OF WATER.

    7. SLEEP ALONE AT HOME IF YOU ARE AFRAID TO DO SO - IT WILL HELP YOU LEARN  THAT NOTHING BAD WILL HAPPEN.

    8. PLAY THE VIDEO GAMES YOUR KID PLAYS ALL THE TIME - IT DOES NOT MATTER IF YOUR SPEED IS A HUNDRED TIMES LESSAR THAN YOUR KID'S.

   9. CHANGE YOUR JOB JUST FOR THE SAKE OF IT IF YOU THINK THAT YOU CAN NEVER BE PAID AS WELL AS YOU ARE RIGHT NOW OR IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE TO OTHER OPTION BUT TO STICK AROUND.

  10. CHANGE YOUR HOUSE OR CITY IF YOU FEAR LOSING NEIGHBOURS - TURNING YOUR LIFE UPSIDE DOWN WILL HELP YOU GET USED TO NEW ENVIRONMENTS.

  11. STAY ALONE FOR A FEW DAYS, OR BETTER STILL, TAKE A TEN - DAY VIPASSANA COURSE IF YOU THINK YOU ARE SOCIAL ANIMAL WHO CAN NEVER BE ALONE OR LIVE WITHOUT TALKING TO OTHERS FOR A DAY - YOU WILL LEARN TO BE SPEECHLESS FOR TEN DAYS!

           ONCE YOU GO THROUGH SOME OF THESE OR SIMILAR EXPERIENCES, YOU WILL FIND IT EASY TO TRAIN YOUR MIND TO OVERCOME FEAR. GOOGLE DEFINES FEAR "AS UNPLEASANT EMOTION CAUSED BY THE THREAT OF DANGER, PAIN, OR HARM."

          THIS MEANS THAT ONCE YOU OVERCOME THIS, YOU WILL HAVE KILLED THE BASIC CAUSE OF ANXIETY.

          IN MOST CASES,IT IS FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN THAT LEADS TO ANXIETY. SO, ONCE YOU FACE IT, YOU WILL BE AT HOME WITH IT, SEE IT THROUGH A NEW PERSPECTIVE, ENVISION NEW POSSIBILITIES, AND EXPERIENCE A DIFFERENT AND NEW WORLD. GO FOR IT! IT IS DEFINITELY WORTH IT - THIS IS SO TRUE.

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SHARPENING OUR TOOLS

                                        ❤  WHAT WE WANT OUR LIFE ❤

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                 WE LIVE IN AN ERA OF CUTTING EDGE TECHNOLOGY AND ARE SURROUNDED BY GADGETS, TECHNOLOGY, TOOLS, RAPID FLOW OF INFORMATION, AND SKILLED AND TALEDTED PEOPLE ALL AROUND - IT IS SHEET COMPETITIVENESS EVERYWHERE.

                 WHEN YOU TAKE YOUR BOAT OUT INTO THE WORLD, ARE YOU OVERWHELMED BY THIS ERA OR DO YOU FEEL EMPOWERED BY IT? PAUSE FOR A WHILE DWELL OVER IT, AND BE TRUE TO YOURSELF. THIS IS THE STARTING POINT AND AN OPPORTUNITY FOR YOU TO DO SOME RETROSPECTION SO, BE TRUTH FUL HERE.

               IF YOU SENSE CORRECTLY, YOU CAN CONTROL BETTER, IF YOUR INPUT READING IS WRONG, YOU WILL NEVER HAVE THE RIGHT CONTROL - MY FELLOW SCIENCE AND ENGINEERING GRADUATES WILL APPRECIATE THIS CONCEPT. BUT, EVEN FOR A LAYMAN, THIS IS EASY ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAND.

            IT IS LIKE CONTROLLING THE TEMPORATURE OF AN AC. FOR EXAMPLE, IF YOU FEEL HOT, YOU SWITCH ON THE AC, AND THE AC CONTROLS THE TEMPERATURE  BY SENSING HOW COLD IT IS FIRST. IF IT DOES NOT HAVE THE ABILITY TO SENSE THE ACTUAL TEMPERATURE OF THE ROOM, IT WILL SIMPLY  START AND GO ON AND ON WITHOUT ANY CONTROL - SOON, YOU WILL BE FREEZING.

          THIS IS OUR LIFE. WE FIRST NEED TO HAVE A SENSE OF WHERE WE ARE AND WHERE WE WANT TO GO, AND THEN, WE SHOULD CONTROL OUR ACTIONS AGAINST OUR SET POINT SO THAT THEY DO NOT GO OUT RANGE. ONCE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT FROM LIFE AND ONCE YOU HAVE DEVELOPED THE ABILITY TO SENSE WHERE YOU ARE AT THE MOMENT, YOU WILL LEARN HOW MUCH ENERGY IS REQUIRED TO REACH WHERE YOU WANT TO GO.

           YOU BEGIN BY DEVELOPING THAT ENERGY, POWER OF KNOWLEDGE AND THE NEXT STEP IS TO MONITOR AND CONTROL YOUR MOVES BY MEANS OF A SET POINT. ELSE, YOU MAY DRIFT AROUND AIMLESSLY. SETTING A FIXED POINT HELPS YOU REMAIN ON COURSE. ON THE OTHER HAND, YOUR SENSE ENSURES THAT YOUR CURRENT STATE IS MEASURED CONSTANTLY SO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH ENERGY IS REQUIRED TO REACH THE SET POINT AND HOW MUCH ENERGY IS REQUIRED TO HELP YOU REMAIN THERE ONCE IT IS REACHED.

               WHETHER YOU ARE PART OF A CORPORATE WORLD OR RUNNING YOUR OWN BUSINESS, THE TECHNOLOGY, TOOLS, MARKET DYNAMICS, EVER - CHANGING TRENDS, CUT - THROAT COMPETITION, CREATIVITY, AND INNOVATION ARE ALL SO FIERCE TODAY. IF YOU DO NOT PRAY ATTETION AND ARE NOT WILLING TO LEARN, IT VAN OVERWHELM YOU, AND SOON, YOU WILL BE OUT OF BUSINESS.

               THE ALTERNATIVE IS TO BE OPEN - MINDED, HAVE NO BIAS, LEARN AND USE ALL THE TECHNOLOGY AVAILABLE, BE RESOURCEFUL ENOUGH TO NAVIGATE AND ADOPT NEW TECHNOLOGY, OR LEARN FROM FRIENDS AND ASSOCIATES WHO ARE MORE COMFORTABLE WITH TECHNOLOGY AND THE TRENDS. IN SHORT, MAKE USE OF ALL THE AVAILABLE TOOLS TO EMPOWER YOUR BUSINESS AND THE WAY YOU DO THINGS, ELSE YOU WILL BE LOST IN THIS DYNAMIC OCEAN OF THE INFORMATION AGE.

            SECONDLY, IF YOU ARE WORKING WITH A BIG CORPORATION LIKE I WAS, YOU ALSO NEED TO UNDERSTAND HUMAN TECHNOLOGY - DONT BE PUZZLED BY THIS NEW TERM. LIKE TECHNOLOGY , TRENDS, AND TOOLS, HUMAN BEINGS ARE ALSO A COMPLEX AND DYNAMIC MACHINERY. IF YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND THEM, THEY WILL OVERWHELM YOU, YOU NEED TO BE OPEN - MINDED AND OBSERVANT TO UNDERSTAND EACH MACHINE AS THEY ARE ALL UNIQUE!

           YOU WILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH A NUMBER OF MACHINES (HUMAN BEINGS) AND EACH HAS A DIFFERENT OPERATING SYSTEM, SPEED, PROCESSING POWER, ABILITY TO UNDERSTAND, ADAPTABILITY TO CHANGE, ETC, IF YOU TAKE THEM FOR GRANTED, YOU WILL SOON BE EMOTIONALLY CHARGED AND FRUSTRATED AT NOT KNOWING WHAT DO WITH THESE COMPLEX MACHINES.

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          ❤   SO, RELAX, REMEMBER THE SENSOR AND SET POINT CONCEPT ? ❤  

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       IT'S TIME TO APPLY IT IN YOUR LIFE. SHIFT YOUR MEASUREMENT TOOLS FROM YOURSELF TO THE MACHINE YOU ARE DEALING WITH. SPARE SOME TIM TO LEARN ABOUT EACH MACHINE, OBSERVE HOW THEY BEHAVE IN CERTAIN CONDITIONS, NOTE WHEN THEY PERFORM  AT THEIR PEAK AND WHEN THEY GO HAYWIRE, FIGURE OUT HOW FREQUENTLY THEY NEED MAINTENANCE, AND SO FORTH. 

           ONCE YOU HAVE LEARNT THIS AND HAVE PRACTISED HOW TO USE THE SENSOR AND SET POINT TECHNIQUE EFFECTIVELY, YOU ARE IN CONTROL. SO, DID YOU CONTROL THE MACHINE ? NO, YOU JUST CONTROLLED YOUR OWN SYSTEM, EMOTIONS, AND MOOD. IF THE OTHER PERSON DID NOT BEHAVE NICELYOR DID SOMETHING NOT IN LINE WITH YOUR EXPECTATIONS, YOU RESPONDED INSTEAD OF REACTING. THIS HELPED YOU IMPROVE YOUR COMPATIBILITY/RELATIONSHIP WITH EACH MACHINE.

             DOES THIS MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO INVEST TIME TO LEARN ABOUT EACH MACHINE? YOU BET IT DOES! YOU SHOULD DEFINITELY SET ASIDE TIME TO LEARN ABOUT EACH PART OF THE TEAM AS YOU NEED TO WORK WITH ALL OF THEM.

            IMAGINE YOU ARE A SALES PERSON, AND A NUMBER OF PEOPLE ARE ASKING YOU FOR A VARIETY OF REPORTS THEY NEED - ORDER FORECAST, REVENUE FORECAST, STATUS OF ACCOUNTS RECEIVABLE, MARKET TRENDS, OPEN OPPORTUNITIES, COMPETITION INFORMATION, MARKET SHARES, BUYING PATTERN OF AN ACCOUNT, CONSUMPTION OF SPECIFIC TYPE OF PRODUCT TO PLAN PURCHASE OR PRODUCTION, ETC. YOU CAN EITHER BE OVERWHELMED BY THESE NEVER - ENDING DEMANDS OR BE CLEVER, ORGANISE YOUR ACT, CAPTURE THE DATA ONLINE SYSTEMATICALLY, TABULATE IT, PLUG IT IN A RUDIMENTARY OR SOPHISTICATED CRM (CUSTOMER RELATIONSHIP MANAGEMENT) TOOL, AND BE READY TO FLASH THE DATA EVERY TIME IT IS ASKED FOR. THIS IS A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF BEING OVERWHELMED AND EMPOWERING YOURSELF TO OVERCOME IT.

           LET ME SHIFT GEARS FROM A COMPLEX WORK ENVIRONMENT TO A  SIMPLE EVERYDAY EXAMPLE - TAKE THE EXAMPLE OF NEVER - ENDING TRAFFIC ON ROADS. IF YOU LIVE IN MUMBAI, YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. BANGALORE, DELHI, AND MANY OTHER UPCOMING CITIES IN INDIA ARE NO DIFFERENT. YOU MIGHT ESTIMATE A TRAVEL TIME OF THIRTY MINUTES FOR A DISTANCE OF FIFTEEN KINOMETERS, AND YOU WILL  END UP TAKING MORE THAN ONE HOUR EASILY ON NORMAL DAYS. IF THE TRAFFIC BAD,IT CAN TAKE YOU UP TO TWO HOURS!

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           IF YOU ARE AN OUTSIDER TRAVELLING IN MUMBAI, YOU WILL BE AMUSED AT HOW MUMBAIKARS DO NOT COMPLAIN ABOUT IT, PEOPLE CONTINUE LISTENING TO THE RADIO, CHATTING, EATING, AND SO ON AD IF EVERYTHING IS FINE. THIS IS SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY HAVE FACED THIS SITUATION FOR YEARS.  THEY SCREAMED, SHOUTED, RAISED THEIR VOICES, DID EVERYTHING THEY COULD, AND FINALLY UNDERSOOD THAT THIS WAS IT.

            NOW, THEY HAVE STARTED PLANNING THEIR SCHEDULES BETTER, ARE SMARTER AT ESTIMATING TRAVEL TIME BEFORE COMMITTING TO MEETINGS, KEEP OTHER MENBER AT THE MEETINGS INFORMED ABOUT THE POTENTIAL DELAY TO BE CONSIDERED IN CASE THEY GET STUCK IN TRAFFIC ETC.

            WHAT HAPPEND HERE? YES, YOU GUESSED IT RIGHT! THEY APPLIED THE SENSOR AND SET POINT TECHNIQUE TO KEEP THEIR MOOD IN CONTROL!

             SO, IN SUMMARY, DO NOT FORGET THESE TERMS "SENSOR" CONTROL AND SET POINT - IT WILL CHANGE EVERY FACET OF YOUR LIFE SIGNIFICANTLY.

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ALIGN YOUR HEART AND MIND

                                   💖    YOUR HEART AND MIND     💖

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                  DEAR READERS, I SEEK YOUR SPECIAL ATTETION ON THIS TOPIC - IF YOU GET THIS RIGHT, A NUMBER OF OTHER THINGS WILL FALL IN PLACE. THIS IS KEY TO BEING HAPPY IN ALL SITUATIONS.

               WE LIVE WITH OUR FAMILY BUT SPEND MOST OF OUR TIME WITH COLLEAGUES/CUSTOMERS/FRIENDS - IN SHORT, OUR SOCIAL CIRCLE. WE ATTEMPT TO BE NICE TO THEM AND PUT ON A COAT TO LOOK GOOD, SMELL, GOOD, AND BEHAVE GOOD ALL THE TIME.

               FINALLY, WHEN WE ARE HOME, WE SUDDENLY BECOME DIFFERENT CREATURES. WE THINK THAT BECAUSE WE ARE HOME, WE CAN JUST BE OURSELVES - DO WHATEVER WE ARE HOME, WE CAN JUST BE OURSELVES, DO WHATEVER WE ARE HOME, WE CAN JUST BE OURSELVES - DO WHATEVER WE WANT - AND THAT IT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO BECAUSE WE WANT TO UNWIND AND RELAX WITHOUT HAVING TO PLEASE ANYBODY.

              GET READY TO FACE SOME UNPLEASANT FACTS. WE WANT TO BE GOOD IN FRONT OF THE WORLD BY TELLING OURSELVES THAT WE ARE GOING OUT AND DOING ALL THESE THINGS TO EARN SOME MONEY, SOCIAL STATUS, AND PROVIDE FOR THE FAMILY. THEN, WHEN WE COME BACK TO OUR FAMILY. WE THINK THAT WE ARE DONE BECAUSE WE HAVE ALREADY PROVIDED THE MONEY TO RUN THE HOUSE - WHAT AN IRONY!

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              YES, MONEY IS ONE OF THE THINGS A FAMILY NEEDS BUT MORE THAN THAT, THEY WANT US TO BE A PART OF THE FAMILY. THEY WANT US TO ENJOY THEIR COMPANY, THEY WANT US TO LISTEN TO THEIR STORIES, THEY WANT US TO UNDERSTAND WHAT IS GOING ON IN THEIR LIVES, THEY WANT OUR UNINTERUPTED TIME, AND SO ON. ALL THESE THINGS ARE REVEALED WHEN WE SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH THEM.

             YOU MAY WONDER HOW YOU CAN MANAGE TO DO THAT - YOU ONLY HAVE 24 HOURS A DAY, AND YOU SPEND A GOOD TWELVE TO FOURTEEN HOURS A DAY WORKING, INCLUDING COMMUTE TIME. GETTING READY AND SLEEPING TAKES AWAY NEARLY TEN HOURS - YOU ARE LEFT WITH TWO HOURS, WHAT CAN YOU DO IN THOSE TWO HOURS, NOT COUNTING THE ENDLESS INCOMING CALLS DURING THAT TIME?

           THIS IS THE REASON WHY YOUR HEART AND MIND SHOULD BE ALINGNED - ONCE THE GAP IS REDUCED BETWWEN YOUR WORK AND HOME PERSONALLITY, YOU WILL BE FREED OF HAVING TO WEAR AN EXTRA COAT AND HAVING TO REMIND YOURSELF TO BEHAVE IN A SPECIFIC FASHION AT EITHER WORK OR HOME.

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            ONCE YOU ARE ENJOYING YOUR WORK AND ARE TRUE TO YOURSELF, YOU WILL NOT BE STRESSED OUT. YOU WILL BE HAPPY WHEN YOU ARE AT WORK AND WHEN YOU ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY. ONCE YOU REALISE THAT FAMILY IS AN INTEGRAL PART OF YOUR BEING, YOU WILL NOT HAVE TO FIND TIME FOR IT, IT WILL AUTOMATICALLY BECOME A PART OF YOUR ROUTINE.

          THE WAY YOU PLAN YOUR WORK AND FAMILY AFFAIRS WILL BECOME ROUTINE, AND BRINGO! YOU WILL NOT HAVE TO WEAR TWO DIFFERENT CAPS. ENSURE YOUR LIFE IS AN OPEN BOOK - KEEP NO SECRETS AND MAINTAIN AS MUCH TRANSPERENCY AS YOU CAN IN WORK AND AT HOME - THE LESSER THE BAGGAGE OF SECRECY, THE HIGHER THE PIE OF HAPPINESS. CONSTANTLY REMIND YOURSELF OF THIS MANTRA.

                                          

STOP PLEASING AND LEARN TO SAY "NO"

                                  🙏WHEN YOU HAVE TO PLEASE🙏

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                        WE ARE ALL SURROUNDED BY A CLUSTER OF RELATIONSHIPS- IN ADDITION TO OUR OWN FAMILY, THERE ARE EXTENDED FAMILY MEMBERS, FRIENDS, COLLEAGUES, BUSINESS ASSOCIATES, ACQUAINTANCES, SERVICE PROVIDERS, NEIGHBOURS,CLUB MEMBERS, AND SO ON. IF YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON AT HEART AND HAVE NOT FELT THE PRESSURE OF TIME CRUNCH YET, I AM CAUTIONING YOU - BE PRPARED TO FACE IT SOONER OR LATER.

                       YOU MIGHT WISH TO BE AVAILABLE TO ONE AND ALL WHEN THEY ASK FOR FAVOURS OR HELP FROM YOU. YOU MIGHT FEEL THAT YOU CAN MANAGE IT AND THAT IT IS NOT A BIG DEAL BUT MORE PEOPLE WILL CONTINUE TO COME FOR YOUR HELP. ONE DAY, SUDDENLY, YOU WILL REALISE THAT YOUR LIFE IS A MESS AND THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE ADEQUATE TIME FOR YOU OWN FAMILY OR FOR THINGS MORE IMPORTANT TO YOU.

                  YOU WILL BE SOMEBODY ELSE' AGENDA, BUT, WHAT ABOUT YOUR OWN ? IF YOU ARE PART OF A LARGE ORGANISATION OR FAMILY. YOU WILL KEEP COMING ACROSS HELP SEEKERS FREQUENTLY, AND IF YOU START PLEASING EVERYBODY, YOU WILL ONLY REMAIN AS A TASKMASTER HELPING EVERYBODY COMPLETE THEIR JOBS. YOU WILL BE STRANDED WAITING TO FIND SOME TIME FOR YOURSELF, WHICH WILL NEVER COME.

                  YOU MAY ASK HOW I KNOW THIS - YES, YOU GUESSED IT RIGHT - I WAS ONCE IN THAT SITUATION. I SPEND MOST OF MY TIME PLEASING MY SUBORDINATES, PEERS, AND BOSSES (NOT FOR RISING HIGHER IN THE ORGANISATION, JUST TO FEEL GREAT ABOUT MYSELF ), I WAS PART OF A LARGE ORGANISATION SO YOUCAN IMAGINE THE AMOUNT OF TIME I HAD TO INVEST. I SPENT ENDLESS NIGHTS/WEEKENDS/HOLIDAYS TO PLEASE PEOPLE. IT COULD BE GENUINELY REQUIRED SOMETIMES BUT MOSTLY WAS TO BE NICE TO OTHERS,

                  I SACRIFICED TIME WITH MY FAMILY MORE OFTEN THAN NECESSARY, AND IT WAS BY NO MEANS WORTH IT. MAYBE YOU ARE NOT IN A SIMILAR SITUATIOJ OR MAYBE YOUR WORK CIRCLE IS LIMITED AND YOU ARE NOT PART OF A LARGE ORGANISATION - IF SO, THAN GOD!

                 THERE ARE OTHER PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT PART OF LARGE ORGANISATIONS BUT HAVE WIDE SOCIAL CIRCLES - THEY HAVE TOO MANY FRIENDS WHOM THEY TRY TO PLEASE ALL THE TIME. MANY FEMALE READERS MIGHT RELATE TO THIS. I HAVE SEEN A NUMBER OF FEMALE GROUPS ENGAGED IN FREQUENT LUNCHES / DINNERS / BIRTHDAYS / NEW YEAR PARTIES, AND THEY ALWAYS HAVE A NUMBER OF EXCUSES AND REASONS TO GET TOGETHER.

                  AN ENDLESS AMOUNT OF TIME IS SPENT IN SHOPPING AND ORGANISING GIFTS TO BE PRESENTED TO THEIR FRIENDS. THIS IS ALL WELL, BUT, HOLD ON! WATCH THE AMOUNT OF TIME / MONEY / ENERGY YOU SPEND IN THESE ACTIVITIES, AND CHECK IF YOU ARE COMPROMISING ON ANYTHING - MAYBE YOU ARE EXTERNALLY MOBILEAND MODERN BUT ARE YOU INTERNALLY HAPPY? ARE YOU DOING WHAT YOU WANT TO DO ? ARE YOU INVESTING ENOUGH TIME IN YOURSELF? ARE YOU RUSHING BEHIND ARTIFICIAL HAPPINESS? 

                IF YOU FEEL THAT EVERYTHING AROUND YOU IS GOING WELL AND THAT THERE ARE NO COMPROMISES - GREAT, GO ON!  I WISH YOU GOOD LUCK.

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                                                              LEARN TO SAY "NO"

     

                     BY AND LARGE, WE ARE ALL VICTIMES OF THIS, AND WE ALL HAVE REASONS JUSTIFYING WHY WE CANOOT SAY "NO" TO SOMEONE. WELL, THIS POINT IS INTERLINKED WITH THAT OF A PLEASING PEOPLE AREOUND YOU. SOMEHOW, WE HAVE NOT DEVELOPED THIS MUST HAVE HABIT OF KNOWING WHEN AND HOW TO SAY "NO".

               WE ALL HAVE ONLY SO MANY HOURS IN A DAY. WE SIMPLY DO NOT HAVE TIME TO KILL. I DO UNDERSTAND THAT WE ARE SOCIAL ANIMALS AND THAT WE NEED TO DO SEVERAL THINGS WE MAY NOT NECESSARILY LIKE OR HAVE TIME FOR. WE DO TRY TO BE CLEVER, UNDERSTAND OUR PRIORITIES, AND ALLOCATE TIME APPROPRIATELY FOR BREAKS, SOCIAL ENGAGEMENT, COMMUNITY, SOCIETY, ETC.

               HOWEVER, ANY UNPLANNED UNTERUPPTION IS TO BE THOROUGLY ASSESSED. YOU SHOULD BE WISE ENOUGH TO DECIDE IF IT SUPPORTS YOUR SET AGENDA AND GOALS OF IF IT MERELY INTRUDES ON YOUR TIME AND DERAILS THE PROGRESS OF YOUR TASKS ON HAND. YOU MAY NOT REALISE IT BUT EVEN THE SMALL PORTION OF TIME SPENT ON THAT INTERRUPTION GETS ACCUMULATED, AND WITHOUT YOUR KNOWLEDGE, IT BEOMES MONTHS AND YEARS!

             WELL, THAT'S ENOUGH OF TELLING YOU WHY YOU NEED TO SAY "NO" WHEN NECESSARY - NOW, LET ME TELL YOU THE TECHNIQUE TO DO SO IF YOU HAVE NOT LEARNT THIS THUS FAR. FIST, PRACTICE IT WITH YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS- THOROUGHLY EXPLAIN TO THEM WHY YOU ARE DOING THIS- AND THEN,  PRACTICE THIS IN YOUR DAILY LIFE.

              I HAVE SEEN MANY PEOPLE WHO FOLLOW THE OTHER EXTREME - THEY ALWAYS SAY "NO" FIRST BEFORE EVEN ASSESSING THE REQUEST AND LATER, TURN AROUND AND DO IT ANYWAY. DO NOT LET YOURSELF FALL INTO THAT CATEGORY AS WELL.

             THE TRICK IS TO SAY "NO" BY SAYING "YES" FIRST - WHEN YOU SAY "NO" FIRST, IT MEANS THAT YOU ARE NOT ACKNOWLEDGING THE NEEDS OF THE OTHER PERSON OR EVEN IGNORING THAT PERSON COMPLETELY. AT LEAST, IT IS PERCEIVED IN THAT MANNER BECAUSE WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS WHO HAVE THIS STRANGE, HABIT OF TAKING "NO" PERSONALLY.

                                              SAY "NO" BY SAYING "YES" FIRST

         SO, WHEN YOU GET A REQUEST FOR SOMETHING, WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS :

 

      1. LISTEN TO THE REQUEST ACTIVELY

      2. ACKNOWLEDGE IT BY SAYING THAT YOU UNDERSTAND IT IS IMPORTANT FOR THAT PERSON AND YOU RESPECT THAT.

     3. THEN, SAY THAT YOU ARE INCIDENTALLY OCCUPIED WITH MORE PRESSING THINGS THAT NEED YOUR ATTENTION AT THE MOMENT AND HENCE, YOU ARE SORRY AND ARE NOT IN A POSITION TO FULLFILL THE REQUEST.

             ANY REASONABLE PERSON WILL UNDERSTAND THIS AND DROP THE MATTER. NOW, IF SOMEONE IS PRESSING YOUR FURTHER, YOU KNOW THAT THE PERSON IS BEING UNREASONBLE, AND YOU MUST GIVE IMPORTANT TO THE REQUEST ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH THAT PERSON.

           FOR EXAMPLE, IF IT HAPPEN TO BE YOUR BOSS, YOU HAVE  TO HANDLE IT VERY DELICATELY AND WEIGH THE PROS AND CONS. IF IT'S YOUR FAMILY MEMBER, YOU HAVE TO ASSESS THE PRIORITY AND URGENCY OF THE REQUEST. IF IT'S YOUR KIDS, YOU NEED TO DETERMINE THE EXTENT OF YOUR PARENTING DEPENDING ON THE TYPE OF THE NEED. IF IT'S A VERY  CLOSE FRIEND, LEARN MORE ABOUTTHE SITUATION AND UNDERSTAND WHETHER YOU ARE GENUINELY REQUIRED OR MERELY DRAGGED IN.

             THERE ARE NO CONCRETE OR CAST-IN-IRON WAYS TO DEAL WITH THIS - IT IS MORE OF A ARE THAN SCIENCE. THE MORE YOU PRACTICE, THE BETTER YOU WILL BECOME AT SAYING "NO" GO FOR IT, IT 'S WORTH IT.

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POINTS TO INCREASE YOUR SALARY

                                                     VALUABLE POINTS

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                 ❤ THE HABIT OF DRIFTING THROUGH LIFE,WITHOUT A DEFINITE MAJOR PURPOSE. THIS IS ONE OF THE KEY-CAUSES OF FAILURE IN THAT IT LEADS TO OTHER CAUSES OF FAILURE.

                 ❤ UNFAVORABLE PHYSICAL HEREDITARY FOUNDATION AT BIRTH. INCIDENTALLY, THIS IS THE ONLY CAUSE OF FAILURE THAT IS NOT SUBJECT TO ELIMINATION, AND EVEN THIS CAN BE BRIDGED, SUBJECT TO ELIMINATION, AND EVEN THIS CAN BE BRIDGED, THROUGH THE PRINCIPLE OF THE MASTER MIND.

                 ❤ THE HABIT OF MEDDLESOME CURIOSITY CONCERNING OTHER PEOPLE'S AFFAIRS, THROUGH WHICH TIME AND ENERGY ARE WASTED.

                 ❤ INADEQUATE PREPARATION FOR THE WORK IN WHICH ONE ENGAGES, ESPECIALLY INADEQUATE SCHOOLING.

                 ❤ LACK OF SELF - DISCIPLINE, GENERALLY MANIFESTING ITSELF THROUGH EXCESSESS IN EATING, DRINKING INTOXICATING BEVERAGES, AND SEX.

                 ❤ INDIFFERENCE TOWARD OPPORTUNITIES FOR SELF - ADVANCEMENT.

                 ❤ LACK OF AMBITION TO AIM ABOVE MEDIOCRITY.

                 ❤ ILL HEALTH, OFTEN DUE TO WRONG THINKING, IMPROPER DIET AND EXERCISE.

                ❤ UNFAVORABLE ENVIRONMENTAL INFLUENCES DURING EARLY CHILDHOOD.

                ❤ LACK OF PERSISTENCE IN CARRYING THROUGH TO A FINISH THAT WHICH ONE STARTS (DUE, IN THE MAIN, TO A LACK OF A DEFINITE PURPOSE AND SELF - DICIPLINE )

                ❤ THE HABIT OF MAINTAINING A NEGATIVE, "MENTAL ATTITDE" IN CONNECTION WITH LIFE GENERALLY.

                ❤ LACK OF CONTROL OVER THE EMOTIONS, THROUGH CONTROLLED HABITS.

                ❤  THE DESIRE FOR SOMETHING FOR NOTHING, USUALLY EXPRESSED THROUGH GAMBLING AND MORE OFFENSIVE HABITS OF DISHONESTY. 

                ❤ INDECISM AND INDEFINITENESS.

                ❤ ONE OR MORE OF THE SEVEN BASIC FEARS, (1) POVERTY, (2) CRITICISM, (3) ILL HEALTH, (4) LOSS OF LOVE, (5) OLD AGE, (6) LOSS OF LIBERTY, (7) DEATH.

                ❤ WRONG SELECTION OF A MATE IN MARRIAGE.

                ❤ OVER CAUTION IN BUSINESS AND OCCUPATIONAL RELATIONDHIPS.

               ❤ EXCESS TENDENCY TOWARD CHANCE.

               ❤ WRONG CHOICE OF ASSOCIATES IN BUSINESS OR OCCEPATIONAL WORK.

               ❤ WRONG CHOICE OF A VOCATION, OR TOTAL NEGLECT TO MAKE A CHOICE.

               ❤ LACK OF CONCENTRATION OF EFFORT, LEADING TO DISSIPATION OF ONE'S TIME AND ENERGIES.

               ❤ THE HABIT OF INDISCRIMINATE SPENDING, WITHOUT A BUDGET CONTROL OVER INCOME AND EXPENDITURES.

               ❤ FAILURE TO BUDGET AND USE TIME PROPERLY.

               ❤ LACK OF CONTROLLED ENTHUSIAM.

               ❤ INTOLERANCE - A CLOSED MIND BASED PARTICULARLY ON IGNORANCE OR PREJUDICE IN CONNECTION WITH RELIGION, POLITICS AND ECONOMICS.

               ❤ FAILURE TO COOPERATE WITH OTHERS IN A SPIRIT OF HARMONY.

               ❤ CRAVING FOR POWER OR WEALTH NOT EARNED NOR BASED ON MERIT.

               ❤ LACK OF A SPIRIT OF LOYALTY WHERE LOYALTY IS DUE.

               ❤ EGOTISM AND VANITY NOT UNDER CONTROL.

               ❤  EXAGGERATED SELFISHNESS.

               ❤ THE HABIT OF FORMING OPINIONS AND BUILDING PLANS WITHOUT BASING THEM ON KNOWN FACTS.

               ❤ LACK OF VISION AND IMAGINATION.

               ❤ FAILURE TO MAKE "MASTER MIND" ALLIANCE WITH THOSE WHOSE EXPERIENCE, EDUCATION AND NATIVE ABILITY ARE NEEDED.

              ❤ FAILURE TO RECOGNIZE THE EXISTENCE OF, AND THE MEANS OF ADAPTING ONE'S SELF TO THE FORCES OF INFINITE INTELLIGENCE.

              ❤ PROFANITY OF SPEECH, REFLECTING, AS IT DOES, EVIDENCE O UN UNCLEAN AND UNDISCIPLINE MIND, AND AN INADEQUATE VOCABULARY.

              ❤ SPEAKING BEFORE THINKING. TALKING TOO MUCH.

              ❤ COVEROUSNESS, REVENGE, AND GREED.

              ❤ THE HABIT OF PROCRASTINATION, OFTEN BASED ON PLAIN LAZINESS, BUT GENERALLY THE RESULT OF LACK OF A DEFINITE MAJOR PURPOSE.

              ❤ SPEAKING SLANDEROUSLY OF OTHER PEOPLE, WITH OR WITHOUT CAUSE.

              ❤ IGNORANCE OF THE NATURE AND PURPOSE OF THE POWER OF THOUGHT, AND LACK OF KNOWLEDGE OF THE PRINCIPLS OF OPERATION OF THE MIND.

             ❤ LACK OF PERSONAL INITIATIVE, DUE, IN THE MAIN, TO THE LACK OF A DEFINITE MAJOR PURPOSE.

             ❤ LACK OF SELF - RELIANCE, DUE, ALSO, TO ABSENCE OF AN OBSESSIONAL MOTIVE FOUNDED ON A DEFINITE MAJOR PURPOSE.

             ❤ LACK OF THE QUALITIES OF A PLEASING PERSONALITY.

             ❤ LACK OF FAITH IN ONE'S SELF, IN THE FUTURE, IN ONE'S FOLLOWMEN, IN GOD.

             ❤ FAILURE TO DEVELOP THE POWER OF WILL, THROUGH, VOLUNTARY, CONTROLLED HABITS OF THOUGHT.

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                   THESE ARE NOT ALL THE CAUSES OF FAILURE, BUT THEY REPRESENT THE MAJOR PORTION OF THEM. ALL THESE CAUSES, EXCEPT NUMBER TWO, CAN BE EITHER ELIMINATED OR BROUGHT UNDER CONTROL, THROUGH APPLICATION OF THE PRINCIPLE OF DEFINITENESS OF A MAJOR PURPOSE AND MASTERY OF THE WILL-POWER. YOU MIGHT SAY, THEREFORE, THAT THE FIRST AND LAST OF THESE CAUSES OF FAILURE CONTROL ALL THE OTHERS EXCEPT ONE.

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LISTEN TO YOUR MENTAL MIND

                                           👀    MENTAL EXERCISE   👀  

   

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               THE PURPOSE OF MENTAL EXERCISE MUST  NOT BE MISUNDERSTOOD. THERE IS NO VIRTUE IN CHARMS OR FORMULATED STRINGS OF WORDS, THERE IS NO SHORT CUT TO DEVELOPMENT BY REPEATING PRAYERS OR INCANTATIONS. A MENTAL EXERCISE IS AN EXERCISE, NOT IN REPEATING WORDS, BUT IN THE THINKING OF CERTAIN THOUGHTS. THE PHRASES THAT WE REPEATEDLY HEAR BECOME CONVICTIONS. THE THOUGHTS THAT WE ARE. THE PURPOSE IN TAKING A MENTAL EXERCISE IS THAT YOU MAY THINK CERTAIN THOUGHTS REPEATEDLY UNTIL YOU FORM A HABIT OF THINKING THEM, THEN THEY WILL BE YOUR THOUGHTS ALL THE TIME. TAKEN IN THE RIGHT WAY AND WITH AN UNDERSTANDING OF THEIR PURPOSE, MENTAL EXERCISE ARE OF GREAT VALUE, BUT TAKEN AS MOST PEOPLE TAKE THEM THEY ARE WORSE  THAN USELESS.

                TAKE A TIME WHEN YOU CAN HAVE TWENTY MINUTESTO HALF AN HOUR SECURE FROM INTERRUPTION, AND PROCEED FIST TO MAKE YOURSELF PHYSICALLY COMFORTABLE LIE AT EASE IN A LOUNGE CHAIR, OR ON A COUCH, OR IN BED, IT IS BEST TO LIE FLAT ON YOUR BACK. IF YOU HAVE NO OTHER TIME, TAKE THE EXERCISE ON GOING TO BED AT NIGHT AND BEFORE RISING IN THE MORNING.

             FIRST LET YOUR ATTENTION TRAVEL OVER YOUR BODY FROM THE CROWN OF YOUR HEAD TO THE SOLES OF YOUR FEET, RELAXING EVERY MUSCLE AS YOU GO. RELAX COMPLETELY. ANE NEXT, GET PHYSICAL AND OTHER ILL OFF YOUR MIND. LEET THE ATTENTION PASS DOWN THE SPINAL CORD AND OUT OVER THE NERVES TO THE EXTREMETIES, AND AS YOU DO SO THINK. MY NERVES ARE IN PERFECT ODER ALL OVER MY BODY. THEY OBEY MY WILL, AND I HAVE GREAT NERVE FORCE.

             NEXT, BRING YOUR ATTETION TO THE LUNGS AND THINK. I AM BREATHING, DEEPLY AND QUIETLY, AND THE AIR GOES INTO EVERY CELL OF MY LUNGS, WHICH ARE IN PERFECT CONDITION.MY BLOOD IS PURIFIED AND MADE CLEAN.

              NEXT TO THE HEART: MY HEART IS BEATING STRONGLY AND STEADILY, AND MY CIRCULATION IS PERFECT, EVEN TO THE EXTREMITIES.

           NEXT TO THE DEGESTIVE SYSTEM: MY STOMACH AND BOWELS PERFORM THEIR WORK PERFECTLY. MY FOOD IS DIGESTED AND ASSMILATED AND MY BODY REBUILT AND NOURISHED. MY LIVER, KIDNEYS, AND BLADDER EACH PERFORM THEIR SEVERAL FUNCTIONS WITHOUT PAIN OR STRAIN, I AM PERFECTLY WELL. MY BODY IS RESTING, MY MIND IS QUIET, AND MY SOUL IS AT PEACE.

         

                                                                   ❤  VIEWPOINT  ❤

                ALL IS RIGHT WITH THE WORLD. IT IS PERFECT AND ADVANCING TO COMPLETION. I WILL CONTEMPLATE THE FACTS OF SOCIAL, POLITICAL, AND INDUSTRIAL LIFE ONLY FROM THIS HIGH VIEWPOINT. BEHOLD, IT IS ALL VERY GOOD. I WILL SEE ALL HUMAN BEINGS, MY ACQUAINTANCES, FRIENDS, NEIGHBORS, AND THE MEMBER OF MY OWN HOUSEHOLD IN THE SAME WAY. THEY ARE GOOD.NOTHING IS WRONG WITH THE UNIVERSE, NOTHING CAN BE WRONG BUT MY OWN PERSONAL ATTITUDE, AND HENCEFORTH I KEEP THAT RIGHT. MY WHOLE TRUST IS IN GOD.

                                                             ❤  CONSECRATION ❤

                I WILL OBEY MY SOUL AND BE TRUE TO THAT WITHIN ME THAT IS HIGHEST. I SEARCH WITHIN FOR THE PURE IDEA OF RIGHT IN ALL THINGS, AND WHEN I FIND IT, I WILL EXPRESS IT IN MY OUTWARD LIFE. I WILL HAVE THE HIGHEST THOUGHTS CONCERNING ALL MY RELATIONSHIPS, AND MY MANNER AND ACTION SHALL EXPRESS THESE THOUGHTS. I SURRENDER MY BODY TO BE RULED BY MIND, I YIELD MY MIND TO THE DOMINION OF MY SOUL, AND I GIVE MY SOUL TO THE GUIDANCE OF GOD.

                                                              ❤  IDENTIFICATION ❤

                              THERE IS BUT ONE SUBSTANCES AND SOURCE, AND OF THAT I AM MADE AND WITH IT I AM ONE. IT IS GOD. I PROCEEDED FORTH AND CAME FROM IT. GOD AND I ARE ONE, AND GOD IS GREATER THAN I, AND I DO HIS WILL. I SURRENDER MYSELF TO CONSCIOUS UNITY WITH PURE SPIRIT, THERE IS BUT ONE AND THAT ONE IS EVERYWHERE. I AM ONE WITH THE ETERNAL CONSCIOUSNESS.

                                                                   ❤  IDEALIZATION ❤

 

                          FROM A MENTAL PICTURE OF YOURSELF AS YOU WANT TO BE, AND AT THE GREATEST HEIGHT YOUR IMAGINATION CAN PICTURE. DWELL UPON THIS FOR SOME LITTLE TIME, HOLDING THE THOUGHT, THIS IS WHAT I REALLY AM, IT IS A PICTURE OF MY OWN SOUL. I AM THIS NOW IN SOUL, AND I AM BECOMING THIS IN OUTWARD MANIFESTATION.

                                                                    ❤ REALIZATION ❤

                               I APPROPRIATE TO MYSELF THE POWER TO BECOME WHAT I WANT TO BE, AND TO DO WHAT I WANT TO DO. I EXERCISE CREATIE ENERGY, ALL THE POWER THERE SI IN MINE. I WILL ARISE AND GO FORTH WITH POWER AND PERFECT CONFIDENCE, I WILL GO MIGHTY WORKS IN THE STRENGTH OF THE LORD, MY GOD, I WILL TRUST AND NOT FEAR, GOD IS WITH ME..

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THE TRUTH ABOUT THE GOD

                                                    🙏   THE TRUTH 🙏

               STRICTLY SPEAKING, THIS CHAPTER SHOULD HAVE BEEN THE FIRST CHAPTER BUT I DELIBERATED WITH MYSELF AND DECIDED TO BRING IT UP AFTER SETTING THE CONTEXT. MOVEOVER, THERE MIGHT BE PEOPLE WHO DO NOT BELIEVE IN GOD OR FOR THAT MATTER, IN ANYTHING SPIRITUAL.

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             MY HUMBLE SUGGES- WTION IS HETHER OR NOT YOU BELIEVE IN GOD AND SPIRITUAL POWERS, JUST STAY TUNED FOR A WHILE LONGER AS YOU HAVE COME THIS FAR. CONTINUE WITH TE FLOW, AND SEE IF IT MAKES SENSE TO YOU. MY SINGLE OBJECTIVE IS TO LET MY DEAR READERS SEE AN ALTERNATE PERSPECTIVE, UNDERSTAND WHAT IS GOING ON, BE AT PEACE, AND FEEL BLISSFUL WHEN DOING WHATEVER THEY ARE DOING.

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           I HAVE COME A LONG WAY WITH RESPECT TO MY RELATIONSHIP WITH NATURE, GOD, AND UNDERSTANDING OF SPIRITUALITY. I HAVE REALISED THAT COSMIC ENERGY IS ACTIVE AROUND US WHETHER WE LIKE IT OR NOT, WHETHER WE BELIEVE IN IT OR NOT, AND WHETHER WE ACCEPT IT OR NOT.

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           ONE CAN DEFINITELY INVEST AN ENTIRE LIFETIME READING ABOUT, RESEARCHING, AND REDISCOVERING HOW THE WORLD EVOLVED AND HOW WE ARE ALL PARTICLES OF COSMIC ENERGY CHANGING FROM ONE FORM TO ANOTHER IN THIS COSMIC CYCLE BASED ON OUR SPIRITUAL EVOLVEMENT.

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             A CLEVER WAY TO UNDERSTAND THIS IN THE SHORT TIME THAT WE HAVE (UNCERTAIN TOO ) IS TO LEARN FROM THOSE WHO HAVE NOT ONLY SPEND THE MAJORITY OF THEIR LIFE LEARNING, RESEARCHING, AND SELF-REALISING THESE THINGS BUT ALSO MADE IT A POINT TO JOT DOWN THEIR EXPERIENCE AND SHARE THEM WITH WORLD.

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                IT IS ALSO TRUE THAT THE ENERGIES CREATED BY OUR PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS ALSO IMPACT US IN SOME FORM OR THE OTHER. IF YOU ARE LEADING A GREAT LIFE TODAY, IT IS SURELY DUE TO YOU OWN KARMA AND THE SPIRITUAL ENERGIES CREATED BY YOUR PARENTS AND FORE PARENTS. SIMILARLY, THE CHALLENGES YOU ARE EXPERIENCING IN YOUR CURRENT LIFE ARE ALSO BECAUSE OF THE ENERGY YOU HAVE CREATED AROUND YOU DUE YOUR PAST DEEDS AND THAT OF YOUR FORE PARENTS.

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               HUMAN LIVES ARE THE HIGHEST FORM OF LIFE CREATED BY COSMIC ENERGY. ONLY OUR SPECIES HAS THE ABILITY TO THINK, LEARN, AND APPLY KNOWLEDGE TO PROGRESS SPIRITUALLY TO A  LEVEL WHEREIN ONE CAN BE FREED FROM THIS CYCLE OR FERA, NON-EVOLVED BEINGS (SPIRITUALLY) DO NOT EVEN KNOW THAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH THIS CYCLE OF BIRTH AFTER BIRTH. THEY GO THROUGH THEIR LIFE CYCLES PASSIVELY AND CONTINUE TO EXPERIENCE THE PAIN, MISERY, AND TEMPORARY PLEASURE THAT COME WITH THEM.

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            MY SUGGESTION IS TO GRASP AT THE LOW HANGING FRUITS FIRST. THEY WILL BE EASY FOR YOU TO PRACTICE, AND ONCE YOU MASTER THEM, YOUR MIND AND HEART WILL KNOW THAT THEIR  MASTER IS SERIOUS ABOUT IT AND BECOME EAGER FACILITATORS. THUS, YOUR STRIKE RATE WILL BE HIGHER WHEN YOU PICK UP THE NEXT SET OF ITEMS ON THE LIST THAT SOUNDED TOUGH DURING YOUR FIRST ATTEMPT.

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    ❤   1. SPEAK ONLY THE TRUTH.

    ❤   2. CHEAT NOBODY, INCLUDING YOURSELF.

    ❤   3. EAT AND DRINK ONLY WHAT YOUR BODY IS DESIGNED TO DIGEST.

    ❤   4. SLEEP AS REQUIRED BY YOUR BODY TO RECOVER - DO NOT LAZE AROUND.

     ❤  5. KEEP YOUR BODY HEALTHY -IT IS A PRICELESS ASSET OF YOURS.

     ❤  6. KEEP YOUR BODY ACTIVE THROUGH SOME ACTIVITY - YOGA, EXERCISE, GYM, WALKING, JOGGING, CYCLING, SWIMMING - WHATEVER WORKS FOR YOU.

    ❤ 7. KEEP YOUR MIND ENRICHED BY READING THE RIGHT BOOK - SELF-HELP, AUTOBIOGRAPHIES OF SUCCESSFUL AND SPIRITUALLY EVOLVED PEOPLE, SPIRITUAL BOOKS ( REFER TO THE LIST OF BOOKS GIVEN IN THE ANNEXURE ), ETC.

    ❤ 8. ASSOCIATE YOURSELF WITH PLACES AND PEOPLE WHO CAN BOOST YOUR SPIRITUAL PROGRESS.

   ❤  9. WORK FEARLESSLY,DILIGENTLY, AND WITH CONVICTION IN WHATEVER YOU DO.

   ❤  10. FIND A MENTOR WHO WILL SELFLESSLY HELP YOU IN VARIOUS AREAS OF LIFE - YOU CAN HAVE MULTIPLE MENTORS, INFACT.

   ❤  11. LEARN MEDITATION, AND START PRACTISING IT REGULARLY.

   ❤  12. BECOME NON - JUDGEMENTAL OF PEOPLE.

   ❤  13.HOLD NO GRUDGES WITH ANYBODY.

   ❤  14. KEEP AN OPEN MIND - LEARN MORE ABOUT NATURE, AND APPRECIATE ALL THAT IT PROVIDES.

   ❤  15. BE THANKFUL TO THE ALMIGHTY ON A DAILY BASIS FOR ALL THAT YOU HAVE BEEN PROVIDED WITH.

  ❤  16.  SHARE WHAT YOU HAVE WITH JOY (MORE ON THIS IN THE NEXT CHAPTER)

                          IF YOU START PRACTISING THESE, YOU WILL ATTRACT COSMIC ENERGY, WHICH IN TURN WILL LEAD YOU TOWARDS SPIRITUAL PROGRESS. MAKE THIS YOUR WAY OF LIFE, AND START LIVING THE BLISSFUL LIFE THAT HUMAN BEINGS DESERVE.

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