COURAGE AND FEAR

 

           

                           LEADERS HAVE TWO TYPES 

                                         OF COURAGE

                   IN LEADERSHIP, THE MOST COMMON QUALITY IS THAT OF VISION. LEADERS HAVE A CLEAR VISION OF WHERE THEY WANT TO TAKE THEIR ORGANIZATIONS. LEADERS ALSO HAVE A CLEAR VISION OF WHERE THEY WANT TO BE SOMETIMES IN THE FUTURE IN THEIR PERSONAL LIVES.

                     THE SECOND MOST COMMON QUALITY OF LEADERS IS THAT OF COURAGE. LEADERS HAVE THE COURAGE TO DO WHATEVER IS NECESSARY TO FULLFILL THEIR VISION. THEY LEAD FROM THE FRONT AND DARE TO GO FORWARD.

                   THERE ARE TWO TYPES OF COURAGE THAT YOU NEED:

                    FIRST, YOU NEED THE COURAGE TO LAUNCH, TO TAKE ACTION, TO TAKE A LEAP OF FAITH. YOU NEED THE COURAGE TO GO "ALL IN" WITHOUT ANY GUARANTEE OF SUCCESS AND WITH A HIGH POSIBILITY OF FAILURE, AT LEAST IN THE SHORT TERM. THE MAJOR FAILING THAT HOLDS MOST PEOPLE BACK IS THAT IN SPITEOF ALL THEIR BEST INTENTIONS, THEY DON'T HAVE THE COURAGE TO TAKE THE FIRST STEP.

                      THE SECOND TYPE OF COURAGE THAT YOU NEED IS CALLED "COURAGEOUS PATIENCE". THIS IS THE ABILITY TO HANG IN THERE AND CONTINUE WORKING AND FIGHTING AFTER YOU HAVE GONE ALL IN AND BEFORE YOU HAVE YET SEEN ANY RESULTS OR REWARDS. MANY PEOPLE CAN MUSTER UP THE COURAGE TO TAKE ACTION TOWARD QUICKLY GOAL, BUT WHEN THEY SEE NO IMMEDIATE RESULT THEY QUICKLY LOSE HEART AND PULL BACK TO SAFETY AND SECURITY. THEY DON'T HAVE STAYING POWER.

                                      DEAL WITH THE FEAR DIRECTLY

                  THE ONLY WAY TO DEAL WITH A FEAR IS A ADDRESS IS HEAD-ON. REMIND YOURSELF THAT "DENIAL" IS NOT A RIVER IN EGYPT. THED NATURAL TENDENCY OF MANY PEOPLE IS TO DENY THAY THEY HAVE A PROBLEM CAUSED BY FEAR OF SOME KIND. THEY'RE AFRAID OF CONFRONTING IT. IN TURN, IT BECOMES A MAJOR SOURCE OF STRESS, UNHAPPINESS, AND PSYCHOSOMATIC ILLNESS.

                     BE WILLING TO DEAL WITH THE SITUATION OR PERSON DIRECTLY. AS SHAKESPEARE SAID, "TAKE ARMS AGAINST A SEA OF TROUBLES, AND IN SO DOING, END THEM.

                   THE COMPANION OF FEAR IS WORRY. LIKE TWIN SISTERS, FEAR AND WORRY GO AROUND TOGETHER. MARK TWAIN ONCE WROTE, I HAVE WORRIED ABOUT A LOT OF THINGS IN LIFE, AND MOST OF THEM NEVER HAPPENED".

                  IT HAS BEEN ESTIMATED THAT 99 PERCENT OF THE THINGS THAT YOU WORRY ABOUT NEVER HAPPEN. AND MOST OF THE THINGS THAT DO HAPPEN, HAPPEN SO QUICKLY THAT YOU DIDN'T HAVE TIME TO WORRY ABOUT THEM IN THE FIRST PLACE.

                                                 THE DISASTER REPORT

                 WHENEVER YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT SOMETHING, FILL OUT A "DISASTER REPORT" ON THE SITUATION. THIS WILL DESTROY YOUR FEAR AND WORRY ALMOST INSTANTLY. THIS IS OFTEN CALLED THE "WORRY BUSTER". THE DISASTER REPORT HAS FOUR PARTS:

                  * FIRST, DEFINE THE WORRY SITUATION CLEARLY. WHAT EXACTLY ARE YOU WORRIEAD ABOUT? VERY OFTEN, WHEN YOU TAKE THE TIME TO BE COMPLETELY CLEAR ABOUT THE WORRY SITUATION, A WAY TO RESOLVE THE SITUATION BECOME IMMEDIATELY EVIDENT.

                * SECOND, IDENTIFY THE WORST POSSIBLE THING THAT COULD POSSIBLY HAPPEN IF THIS WORRY SITUATION WERE TO TAKE PLACE. WOULD YOU LOSE YOUR JOB? WOULD YOU LOSE YOUR RELATIONSHIP? WOULD YOU LOSE YOUR MONEY? WHAT IS THE WORST THING THAT COULD POSSIBLY HAPPEN? BE CLEAR ABOUT THIS. IN MANY CASES, YOU WILL SEE THAT SHOULD THE WORST OCCUR, IT WOULD NOT RUIN YOU. IT MIGHT BE INCONVENIENT OR UNCOMFORTABLE, BUT YOU WOULD EVENTUALLY RECOVER. YOU WILL FIND THAT IT'S PROBABLY NOT WORTH ALL THE WORRY THAT YOU ARE DEVOTING TO IT.

                   * THIRD, RESOLVE TO ACCEPT THE WORST POSSIBLE OUTCOME, SHOULD IT OCCUR. SAY TO YOURSELF, "WELL, IF THAT HAPPENS, IT WON'T KILL ME. I WILL FIND A WAY TO GET ALONG". MOST OF THE STRESS OF WORRY COMES FROM DENIAL, FROM NOT BEING WILLING TO FACE THE WORST POSSIBLE THING THAT COULD HAPPEN. BUT ONCE YOU HAVE RESOLVED TO ACCEPT THE WORST (SHOULD IT OCCUR) ALL THE WORRY AND STRESS SEEM TO DISSAPPEAR.

                   * FOURTH, BEGIN IMMEDIATELY TO IMPROVE ON THE WORST. TAKE EVER STEP THAT YOU POSSBLY CAN TO MAKE SURE THAT THE WORST POSSIBLE OUTCOME DOES NOT OCCUR. TAKE ACTION IMMEDIATELY. DO SOMETHING. GET ON WITH IT. ACT QUICKLY. GET SO BUSY MAKING SURE THAT THE WORST THING DOES NOT HAPPEN THAT YOU HAVE NO TIME TO WORRY.

                                                         THE REAL ANTIDOTE

                        IN THE FINAL ANALYSIS, THE ONLY REAL CURE FOR FEAR OR WORRY IS DISCIPLINED, PURPOSEFUL ACTION IN THE DIRECTION OF YOUR GOALS. GET SO BUSY WORKING ON YOUR GOALS OR THE SOLUTIONS TO YOUR PROBLEMS THAT YOU HAVE NO TIME TO BE AFRAID OR TO WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING.

                        WHEN YOU PRACTIVE THE SELF-DISCIPLINE OF COURAGE AND FORCE YOURSELF TO FACE ANY FEAR-INDUCING SITUATION IN YOUR LIFE, YOUR SELF-ESTEEM GOES UP, YOUR SELF-RESPECT INCREASES, AND YOUR SENSE OF PERSONAL PRIDE GROWS. YOU EVENTUALLY REACH THE POINT IN LIFE WHERE YOU ARE NOT AFRAID OF ANYTHING.

                       ONCE YOU HAVE DEVELOPED THE COURAGE TO STEP OUT IN FAITH, YOU MUST THEN DEVELOP THE SELF-DISCIPLINE OF PERSISTENCE, WHICH WE WILL TALK ABOUT IN THE NEXT CHAPTER.

KEEP YOUR MIND CLEAR

 

                    THE PROBLEM SOLVING METHODS

                                     TOP PEOPLE HAVE DEVELOPED THE ABILITY TO RESPOND EFFECTIVELY TO A CRISIS, TO REMAIN CALM, RELAXED, AND CLEAR-EYED. THEY DISCIPLINE THEMSELVES TO STAY COOL AND UNEMOTIONAL. THIS ENABLES THEM TO THINK MORE CLEARLY, TO ANALYZE THE SITUATION, OBJECTIVELY, AND TO MAKE BETTER DECISIONS.

                            BUT THE MOMENT YOU BECOME ANGRY AND UPSET, YOUR NEOCORTEX - OR YOUR "THINKING BRAIN" - SHUTS DOWN. ALL YOU HAVE LEFT THEN IS YOUR PALEOCORTEX, YOUR EMOTIONAL BRAIN, WHICH THINKS IN TERMS OF "FIGHT OR FLIGHT". WHEN YOUR EMOTIONAL BRAIN IS IN CHARGE, YOU THINK IN TERMS OF BLACK AND WHITE, YES OR NO, DOING SOMETHING OR DOING NOTHING. YOU LOSE  THE ABILITY TO THINK IN SHADES OF GRAY AND TO LOOK AT ALL THE DIFFERENT POSSIBLE WAYS TO DEAL WITH THIS PARTICULAR SITUATION.

                      TOP PEOPLE REALIZE THAT EVERY PROBLEM IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO GROW IN SELF-CONTROL AND PERSONAL CONFIDENCE. IN FACT, YOU WILL RISE IN LIFE TO THE HEIGHT OF THE PROBLEMS THAT YOU ARE CAPABLE OF SOLVING.

                         A NINE-STEP METHOD FOR SOLVING

                                          PROBLEMS EFFECTIVELY

                           STEP 1 : TAKE THE TIME TO DEFINE THE PROBLEM CLEARLY. IN MEDICINE, THEY SAY THAT "ACCURATE DIAGNOSIS IS HALF THE CURE". THEREFORE, YOU NEED TO ASK". WHAT EXACTLY IS THE PROBLEM?". IT IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING HOW SEVERAL PEOPLE CAN BECOME UPSET ABOUT A PROBLEM IN AN ORGANIZATION, BUT EVERY ONE OF THEM HAS A DIFFERENT IDEA OR DEFINITION OF THE EXACT NATURE OF THE PROBLEM THEY'RE FACING. YOUR JOB IS TO ACHIEVE CLARITY AND TO GET EVERYONE TO AGREE ON THE DEFINITION OF THE PROBLEM BEFORE YOU MOVE ON TO THE BUSINESS OF SOLVING IT.

                        STEP 2 : ASK, IS IT REALLY A PROBLEM? REMEMBER, THERE ARE SOME THINGS THAT YOU CAN DO NOTHING ABOUT. THEY'RE NOT PROBLEMS, THEY ARE MERELY FACTS OF LIFE. IF INTEREST RATES RISE OR THE SUBPRIME MORTAGE MARKET COLLAPSES, THIS IS NOT A PROBLEM. IT IS NOT SOMETHING THAT IS AMENABLE TO A SOLUTION. INSTEAD, IT IS SOMETHING THAT MUST BE WORKED AROUND AND DEALT WITH.

                         ALSO, VERY OFTEN WHAT APPEARS TO BE A PROBLEM OR A SETBACK IS ACTUALLY AN OPPORTUNITY IN DISGUISE. SOMETIMES, THE PROBLEM DOES NOT NEED TO BE SOLVED AT ALL. INSTEAD, YOU ARE NOW FREE TO DO SOMEHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT - WHICH MIGHT BE EVEN FOR YOU AND YOUR ORGANIZATION.

                       STEP 3 : ASK, WHAT ELSE IS THE PROBLEM?" BEWARE OF ANY PROBLEM FOR WHICH THERE IS ONLY ONE DEFINITION. THE MORE WAYS YOU CAN DEFINE A PROBLEM, THE MORE LIKELY IT IS THAT YOU WILL FIND THE BEST SOLUTION.

                 WHEN WE WORK WITH CORPORATION IN WHICH SALES ARE BELOW A DESIRED LEVEL, WE FORCE THEM TO ASK TWENTY-ONE QUESTIONS, EACH RESTATEMENT OF THE PROBLEM, IF ACCEPTED AS THE CORRECT DEFINITION, LEADS TO A DIFFERENT SOLUTION AND OFTEN TO A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT DIRECTION FOR THE ORGANIZATION.

                  FOR EXAMPLE, WE WILL ASK,WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? AND THE FIND ANSWER IS " OUR SALES ARE TOO LOW".

                       THE NEXT QUESTION IS "WHAT ELSE IS THE PROBLEM"?

                         ANSWER : OUR COMPETITOR'S SALES ARE TOO HIGH".

                         NOTICE THE DIFFERENCE. IT THE PROBLEM IS THAT YOUR SALES ARE TOO LOW, THE SOLUTION MAY BE TO INCREASE YOUR ADVERTISING AND PROMOTION AND BEEF UP YOUR SALES ACTIVITIES. IF THE DEFINITION IS THAT YOUR COMPETITORS SALES ARE TOO HIGH, THE ANSWER MAY BE TO IMPORVE YOUR PRODUCTS, CHANGE YOUR PRODUCT LINE, LOWER YOUR PRICES, OR GO INTO A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT BUSINESS ALTOGETHER.

                        BY ASKING AND ANWERING A SERIES OF QUESTIONS LIKE THIS, WE EVENTUALLY FIND THE CORRECT DEFINITION, ONE THAT IS AMENABLE TO A WORKABLE SOLUTION.

                        STEP 4 : ASK, HOW DID THIS PROBLEM OCCUR?" SEEK TO UNDERSTAND THE CAUSES OF THE PROBLEM SO YOU CAN ENSURE THAT IT DOESN'T HAPPEN AGAIN. IN YOUR LIFE OR BUSINESS, IF A PROBLEM RECURS REPEATEDLY, IT IS A SIGN THAT YOUR BUSINESS IS POORLY ORGANIZED OR OUT OF CONTROL IN THAT AREA. THERE IS A DEFECT TO RECUR. YOUR JOB IS TO FIND OUT WHY THIS HAPPENS REPEATEDLY SO YOU CAN SOLVE THE PROBLEM AT ITS ROOT.

                     STEP 5 : ASK, WHAT ARE ALL THE POSSIBLE SOLUTIONS? THE MORE POSSIBLE SOLUTIONS YOU DEVELOP, THE MORE LIKELY YOU WILL COME UP WITH THE RIGHT ONE. THE QUALITY OF THE SOLUTION SEEMS TO BE IN DIRECT PROPORTION TO THE QUANTITY OF SOLUTIONS CONSIDERED IS PROBLEM SOVLING. BEWARE A PROBLE FOR WHICH THERE IS ONLY SOLUTION.

                   STEP 6 : ASK, WHAT IS THE BEST SOLUTION AT THIS TIME ? 

 

                               SOMETIMES , ANY SOLUTION IS BETTER THAN NO SOLUTION. AN AVERAGE SOLUTION VIGOROUSLY EXECUTED IS OFTEN SUPERIOR TO AN EXCELLENT SOLUTION THAT CANNOT BE IMPLEMENTED BECAUSE OF ITS COMPLEXITY OR BECAUSE NO ONE HAS THE ABILITY TO EXECUTE IT.

                              THE RULE IS THAT FULLY 80 PERCENT OF ALL PROBLEMS SHOULD BE DEALT WITH IMMEDIATELY. ONLY 20 PERCENT OF PROBLEMS NEED TO BE PUT OFF TO A LATER TIME. IF YOU MUST PUT OFF A PROBLEM, SET A SPECIFIC DEADLINE FOR MAKING A DECISION ON THAT PROBLEM, AND THEN AMKE YOUR DECISION AT THAT DEADLINE WITH WHATEVER INFORMATION YOU HAVE AT THAT TIME.

                         THERE IS A RULE THAT SAYS THAT EVERY LARGE PROBLEM WAS ONCE A SMALL PROBLEM THAT COULD HAVE BEEN SOLVED EASILY AND INEXPENSIVELY AT THAT TIME. SOMETIMES, THE BEST STRATEGY IS TO "NIP IT IN THE BUD". WHEN IT IS CLEAR THAT THERE IS A PROBLEM AND A SOLUTION, DO WHAT HAS TO BE DONE - AND DO IT QUICKLY.

                     STEP 7 : MAKE A DECISION. SELECT A SOLUTION, ANY SOLUTION, AND THEN DECIDE ON A COURSE OF ACTION. ALWAYS ASK, "WHAT IS OUR NEXT ACTION? WHAT ARE WE GOING TO DO NOW?

                   STEP 8 : ASSIGN RESPONSIBILITY : WHO EXACTLY IS GOING TO CARRY OUT THE SOLUTION OR THE DIFFERENT ELEMENTS OF THE SOLUTION? IT IS QUITE COMMON FOR A GROUP TO MEET TO SOLVE A PROBLEM AND TO AGREE ON A SOLUTION, BUT WHEN THE GROUP MEETS AGAIN TWO WEEKS LATER, IT TURNS OUT THAT NOTHING HAS HAPPENED. WHY? NO ONE WAS MADE SPECIFICALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR CARRYING OUT THE DECISION.

                      STEP 9 : SET A MEASURE FOR THE DECISION. WHAT ARE YOU TRYING TO ACCOMPLISH WITH THIS DECISION, AND HOW WILL YOU MEASURE RESULTS? HOW WILL YOU KNOW THAT IT WORKED? THE MORE ACCURATELY YOU CAN DETERMINE THED RESULT THAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE BY THE SOLUTION, THE MORE LIKELY IT IS THAT YOU WILL ACHIEVE IT.

                                                      THE BIG REWARD

                               THE MAIN REWARD YOU GET FOR SOLVING PROBLEMS IS THE OPPORTUNITY TO SOLVE BIGGER AND MORE IMPORTANT PROBLEMS. YOUR RATE OF PAY AND SPEED OF PROMOTION AND THEREFORE YOUR FORWARD MOVEMENT IN YOUR CAREER ARE LARGELY DETERMINED BY YOUR PROBLEM-SOLVING ABILITY. THE MORE YOU FOCUS ON SOLUTIONS, THE MORE SOLUTIONS YOU WILL COME UP WITH, AND THE MORE VALUABLE YOUR CONTIBUTION WILL BE TO YOUR ORGANIZATION.

                       THE FLIP SIDE OF SELF-ESTEEM IS CALLED "SELF-EFFICACY". YOUR LEVEL OF SELF-EFFICACY IS DEFINED AS "HOW COMPETENT YOU FEEL YOU ARE TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS AND ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS".

                       THE MORE COMPETENT YOU FEEL YOU ARE TO SOLVE THE PROBLEMS AND DIFFICULTIES OF DAILY LIFE, THE MORE YOU LIKE YOURSELF. THE MORE CONFIDENT AND COMPETENT YOU BECOME IN SOLVING EVEN LARGER PROBLEMS AND GETTING EVEN MORE IMPORTANT RESULTS.

INGREDIENTS OF HAPPINESS

 

                       FIVE INGREDIENTS OF HAPPINESS

                   SELF-DISCIPLINE IS ESSENTIAL TO HAPPINESS. SELF-DISCIPLINE REQUIRES BOTH THAT YOU DETERMINE CLEARLY WHAT HAPPINESS MEANS TO YOU AND ALSO THAT YOU WORK PROGRESSIVELY EACH DAY TOWARD THE ACHIEVEMENT OF THAT IDEAL CONDITION.

                   IN MY EXPERIENCE AND TEACHINGS, I HAVE FOUND THAT THERE ARE FIVE INGREDIENTS TO HAPPINESS. A SHORTFALL IN ANY OF THESE AREAS CAN CAUSE STRESS, UNHAPPINESS, AND A FEELING OF BEING OUT OF CONTROL.

                                        FIVE INGREDIENTS OF HAPPINESS

                 1. HEALTH AND ENERGY : THIS IS PERHAPS THE MOST IMPORTANT ELEMENT OF A GOOD LIFE. WE STRIVE FOR IT ALL OUR LIVES. IT IS ONLY WHEN YOU ENJOY HIGH LEVELS OF PAIN-FREE HEALTH AND A CONTINUOUS FLOW OF ENERGY THAT YOU FEEL TRULY HAPPY.

                    IN MANY CASES, HEALTH IS A "DEFICIENCY NEED". THIS MEANS THAT YOU DO NOT THIK ABOUT YOUR HEALTH VERY MUCH UNTIL YOU ARE DEPRIVED OF IT. FOR EXAMPLE, YOU DO NOT THINK ABOUT YOUR TEETH UNTIL YOU HAVE A TOOTHACHE. YOU DO NOT THINK ABOUT YOUR BODY UNTIL YOU HAVE ACHES OR PAINS OF SOME KIND.'

             

                  YOU MUST USE DISCIPLINE AND WILL POWER THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE TO ACHIEVE AND MAINTAIN HIGH LEVELS OF HEALTH AND FITNESS. CHAPTERS 16 AND 17 COVER THESE IN MORE DETAIL.

                 HAPPY RELTIONSHIP . FULLY 85 PERCENT OF YOUR HAPPINESS OR HAPPINESS WILL COME FROM YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHER PEOPLE. AS ARISTOTLE SAID, 'MAN IS A SOCIAL ANIMAL". WE ARE DESIGNED TO FUNCTION IN SOCIETY, WORKING AND LIVING WITH OTHER PEOPLE AT EVERY STAGE OF OUR LIVES.

                 YOUR ABILITY TO ENTER INTO AND MAINTAIN HIGH-QUALITY RELATIONSHIPS WITH YOUR SPOUSE, CHILDREN, FRIENDS, COLEAGUES, AND OTHERS IS THE TRUE MEASURE OF THE QUALITY OF YOUR PERSONALITY AND YOUR LEVEL OF MENTAL HEALTH. PEOPLE WITH HIGH LEVELS OF SELF-ESTEEM AND SELF-RESPECT GET ALONG BETTER WITH OTHERS AND HAVE MUCH HAPPIER LIVES.

                ONE OF OUR BIGGEST MISTAKES IS TO TAKE OUR RELATIONSHIPS FOR GRANTED, ESPECIALLY OUR MOST IMPORTANT ONES. WE OFTEN DON'T THINK ABOUT THEM UNTIL THERE IS A PROBLEM, AND THEN WE THINK OF NOTHING ELSE.

                  3. MEANINGFUL WORK. TO BE TRULY HAPPY, YOU MUST BE FULLY ENAGAGED WITH LIFE. YOU MUST BE DOING THINGS THAT KEEP YOU ACTIVE AND GIVE YOU A SENSE OF FULFILLMENT. IF YOU ARE MAKING A LIVING, YOU MUST BE DOING WORK THAT YOU ENJOY, DO WELL, AND FOR WHICH YOU ARE WELL PAID.

                PEOPLE ARE TRULY HAPPY ONLY WHEN THEY FEEL THEY ARE MAKING A CONTRIBUTION OF SOME KIND, THAT THEY ARE PUTTING IN MORE THAN THEY ARE TAKING OUT. YOU NEED TO FEEL THAT WHAT YOU DO REALLY MAKES A DIFFERENCE IN THE LIVES AND WORK OF OTHER PEOPLE.

                  IN STUDIES OF EMPLOYEE MOTIVATION, EMPLOYEES THINK THAT PEOPLE ARE PRIMARILY MOTIVATED BY MONEY AND BENEFITS. BUT WHEN EMPLOYEES ARE SURVEYED, AND THREE FACTORS THAT MOTIVATE THEM THE MOST TURN OUT TO BE.

                 CHALLENGING AND INTERESTING WORK,

                 OPPORTUNITIES FOR GROWTH AND ADVANCEMENT, AND 

                 PLEASANT COWORKERS.

               ONE OF YOUR MOST IMPORTANT RESPONSIBILITIES TO YOURSELF IS TO FIND THE RIGHT JOB FOR YOU, AND THEN, ONCE YOU HAVE IT, THROW YOUR WHOLE HEART INTO IT. IF FOR ANY REASON, YOU DO NOT FEEL LIKE PUTTING YOUR WHOLE HEART INTO YOUR WORK, IT MAY BE LACKING ONE OR MORE OF THE THREE ESSENTIALS TO A POSITIVE WORKPLACE. IT MAY BE A SIGN THAT THIS IS NOT THE RIGHT PLACE FOR YOU.

              FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE . SOME OF THE GREATEST FEARS WE EXPERIENCE ARE THOSE OF LOSS, FAILURE, AND POVERTY. WE FEAR BEING DESTITUTE, WITHOUT FUNDS, AND DEPENDENT ON OTHERS.

                ONE OF YOUR CHIEF RESPONSIBILITIES TO YOURSELF FREEDOM THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE. THE HAPPIEST OF ALL PEOPLE ARE THOSE WHO HAVED REACHED THE POINT AT WHICH THEY NO LONGER WORRY ABOUT MONEY. THIS IS NOT SOMETHING YOU CAN LEAVE TO CHANCE, BUT RATHER SOMETHING THAT REQUIRES DELIBERATE, PURPOSEFUL ACTION AND TREMENDOUS SELF-DISCIPLINE TO ACHIEVE.

               WHENEVER YOU FEEL THAT THERE IS A BIG GAP BETWEEN WHERE YOU ARE TODAY FINANCIALLY AND WHERE YOU WOULD IDEALLY LIKE TO BE, YOU EXPERIENCES STRESS, WORRY, AND UNHAPPINESS .

                  5. SELF-ACTUALIZATION . THIS IS THE FEELING THAT YOU ARE BECOMING EVERYTHING YOU ARE CAPABLE OF BECOMING. THIS OCCURS WHEN YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE REALIZING MORE AND MORE OF YOUR TRUE POTENTIAL.

                    ABRAHAM MASLOW IS BEST KNOWN FOR HIS HIERARCHY OF NEEDS. HE DETERMINED THAT PEOPLE HAVE BOTH "DEFICIENCY NEEDS" AND "BEING NEEDS". PEOPLE STRIVE EITHER TO COMPENSATE FOR THEIR DEFICIENCIES OR TO REALIZE THEIR POTENTIALS. HE CONCLUDED THAT YOU BEGIN TO EVOLVE AND DEVELOP TO THE HIGHEST LEVELS POSSIBLE FOR YOU ONLY WHEN YOUR DEFICIENCY NEEDS ARE FIRST SATISFIED.

                   DEFICIENCY NEEDS. YOUR FIRST DEFICIENCY NEED IS FOR SAFETY AND SURVIVAL. SATISFYING THIS NEED REQUIRES THAT YOU HAVE SUFFICIENT FOOD, WATER, CLOTHING, AND ACCOMMODATION TO PRESERVE YOUR LIFE AND WELL-BEING. IF FOR ANY REASON YOUR SAFETY OR SURVIVAL IS THREATENED, YOU WILL BECOME TOTALLY PREOCCUPIED WITH SATISFYING THIS NEED. YOU WILL EXPERIENCE TREMENDOUS STRESS, AND YOU WILL BE COMPLETELY UNHAPPY UNTIL YOU ARE SAFE ONCE MORE. FOR EXAMPLE, THINK ABOUT BEING IN A LIFE-THREATENING SITUATION.

                      THE SECOND DEFICIENCY NEED THAT MASLOW IDENTIFIED IS THE NEED FOR SECURITY. THIS NEED EMBRACES FINANCIAL, EMOTIONAL, TO PROVIDE FOR YOURSELF, SECURITY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AT WORK AND AT HOME, AND PHYSICAL SECURITY TO ASSURE THAT YOU ARE NOT IN DANGER OF ANY KIND. IF YOUR SECURITY NEEDS ARE THREATENED, YOU BECOME COMPLETELY PREOCCUPIED WITH THEM. FOR EXAMPLE, THINK ABOUT LOSING YOUR JOB SUDDENLY, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL?

                   THE THIRD DEFICIENCY NEED THAT MASLOW IDENTIFIED IS BELONGINGNESS. EACH PERSON HAS A NEED TO BE IN SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERS, BOTH AT HOME AT WORK. YOU NEED TO BE RECOGNIZED AND ACCEPTED BY OTHER PEOPLE IN YOUR WORLD. EACH PERSON NEEDS TO BE COMFORTABLE IN HIS OR HER RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERS AND SEEN AND ACCEPTED AS PART OF A TEAM OR GROUP.

               SELF-ESTEEM NEEDS. ONCE YOU HAVE ACHIEVED A SUFFICIENT LEVEL OF EACH OF THESE BASIC NEEDS - SAFETY, SECURITY, AND BELONGINGNESS - YOU THEN TURN OF SATISFY THE HIGHER NEEDS FOR SELF-ESTEEM AND SELF-WORTH, YOUR BEING NEEDS. YOUR SELF-ESTEEM  AND SELF-WORTH, YOUR BEING NEEDS. YOUR SELF-ESTEEM IS THE CORE OF YOUR PERSONALITY AND LARGELY DETERMINES HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO YOU. EVERYTHING YOU DO IN LIFE IS EITHER TO INCREASE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM OR TO PROTECT IT FROM BEING DIMINISHED.

                 YOUR SELF-ESTEEM -HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF AND HOW MUCH YOU LIKE AND VALUE YOURSELF- DETERMINES YOUR HAPPINESS MORE THAN ANY OTHER SINGLE FACTOR. YOUR SELF-ESTEEM COMES FROM MANY FACTORS. WHEN YOU ARE LIKED AND ACCEPTED BY OTHERS, LIVING CONSISTENTLY WITH YOUR HIGHEST VALUES, DOING A GOOD JOB AND BEING RECOGNIZED FOR IT, AND MOVING PROGRESSIVELY TOWARD THE ACHIEVEMENT OF YOUR GOALS AND IDEALS, THEN YOU NATURALLY FEEL HAPPY AND SATISFIED. YOU FEEL VALUABLE AND VERY MUCH IN CONTROL.

                   THE HIGHEST HUMAN NEED. THE HIGHEST NEED TAT MASLOW IDENTIFIED WAS FOR SELF-ACTUALIZATION. HE CONCLUED THAT LESS THAN 2 PERCENT OF THE POPULATION EVER REACHES THIS HEIGHT OF PERSONAL FULLFILLMENT. MOST PEOPLE REMAIN SO PREOCCUPIED WITH THEIR DEFICIENCY NEEDS AND PROTECTING OR ENHANCING THEIR SELF-ESTEEM AND THEIR EGO NEEDS THAT THEY GIVE LITTLE THOUGHT OR EFFORT TO SELF-ACTUALIZATION.

                 BUT IT IS ONLY WHEN YOU REALIZE THAT YOU HAVE TREMENDOUS PERSONAL POTENTIAL AND BEGIN STRIVING TO DO, BE, AND HAVE MORE THAN EVER BEFORE IN SOME AREA THAT YOU BEGIN TO EXPERIENCE SELF-ACTUALIZATION AND TRUE HAPPINESS.

                 THE HAPPIEST OF ALL PEOPLE ARE THOSE WHO FEEL THAT THEY ARE DOING SOMETHING WORTHWHILE AND IMPORTANT WITH THEIR LIVES. THEY FEEL THEY ARE STRETCHING AND MOVING BEYOND ANYTHING THEY'RE EVER DONE BEFORE. PEOPLE DEVOTED TO SELF-ACTUALIZATION MAY BE WRITING BOOKS OR CREATING WORKS OF ART. THEY MAY BE CLIMBING MOUNTAINS OR COMPETING IN SPORTS. THEY MAY BE BUILDING BUSINESS OR SCALING THE HEIGHTS OF THEIR PROFESSIONS.

                  THE WONDERFUL THING ABOUT SELF-ACTUALIZATION NEEDS IS THAT THEY CAN NEVER BE COMPLETELY SATISFIED. AS YOU CONTINUALLY STRIVE THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE TO BE AND HAVE AND DO MORE THAN EVER BEFORE, YOU EXPERIENCE A STEADY FLOW OF HAPPINESS AND CONTENTMENT. YOU FEEL THAT YOU ARE BECOMING MORE AND MORE OF WHAT YOU WERE TRULY MEANT TO BECOME.

                                                  NEVER BE SATISFIED

             IN EACH OF THESE AREAS, WHENEVER YOU EXACT SELF-DISCIPLINE AND WILLPOWER TO OVERCOME THE TENDENCY TO TAKE THE EASY WAY, YOU FEE HAPPIER ABOUT YOURSELF. WHEN YOU TAKE A LEAP OF FAITH IN THE DIRECTION OF YOUR DREAMS AND THEN DISCIPLINE YOURSELF TO KEEP GOING IN SPITE OF ALL OBSTACLES AND HARDSHIPS, YOU FEEL POWERFUL. YOUR SELF-ESTEEM AND SELF-CONFIDENCE INCREASE, AND THEN AS YOU MOVE, STEP BY STEP, TOWARD YOUR IDEAS, YOU FEEL GENUINELY HAPPY.

                 IN THE NEXT CHAPTER, YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO INCORPORATE SELF-DISCIPLINE INTO YOUR DAILY HEALTH HABITS TO ENSURE THAT YOU LIVE A LONG, HAPPY, HEALTHY LIFE.

EACH DAY TWO HOURS FOR YOU

                      TWO HOURS EACH DAY 

                            WILL GET YOU TO THE TOP

                    IT HAS BEEN CALCULATED THAT ALL YOU NEED TO INVEST IS ABOUT TWO EXTRA HOURS PER DAY TO MOVE FROM THE AVERAGE TO THE SUPERIOR. ONLY TWO EXTRA HOURS EACH DAY WILL MOVE YOU FROM WORRYING ABOUT MONEY ALL YOUR LIFE TO BEING ONE OF THE HIGHEST PAID PEOPLE IN YOUR FIELD.

                 PEOPLE IMMEDIATELY ASK, WHERE AM I GOING TO GET AN EXTRA TWO HOURS EACH DAY?"

                 IT'S SIMPLE : TALE A OF PAPER AND DO THE FOLLOWING SIMPLE CALCULATION :

               * CALCULATE THE NUMBER OF HOURS IN A WEEK: 7 DAYS TIMES 24 HOURS EQUALS 168 HOURS.

              * IF YOU DEDUCT FORTY HOURS FOR WORK AND FIFTY-SIX HOURS FOR SLEEP, YOU HAVE SEVENTY-TWO HOURS LEFT OVER.

 

              * IF YOU DEDUCT THREE HOURS PER DAY (TWENTY-ONE HOURS) FOR GETTING READY OR AND TRAVELLING TO AND FROM WORK, THAT LEAVES YOU FIFTY-ONE HOURS OF SPARE TIME TO DO WITH AS YOU PLEASE.

              * IF YOU INVEST TWO HOURS PER DAY BACK INTO YOURSELF, FOURTEEN HOURS PERWEEK, YOU STILL HAVE THIRTY-SEVEN HOURS LEFT OVER. THAT'S AN AVERAGE OF MORE THAN FIVE HOURS PER DAY OF FREE TIME.

                 ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS DEVOTE TWO HOURS EACH DAY TO MOVE YOU FROM AVERAGE PERFORMANCE TO SUPERIOR PERFORMANCE AT WHATEVER YOU CHOOSE TO DO.

                    FORM THE HABIT OF CONTINUOUS LEARNING

                 THE BEST NEWS IS THAT WHEN YOU BEGIN READING PERSONAL OR PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT LITERATURE, LISTENING TO AUDIO PROGRAMS IN YOUR CAR, TAKING ADDIONAL COURSES, AND UPGRADING YOUR SKILLS IN THE EVENINGS AND ON THE WEEKENDS RATHER THAN WATCHING TELEVISION, YOU SOON GET INTO THE HABIT OF CONTINUOUS LEARNING. IN NO TIME AT ALL, IT WILL BECOME AUTOMATIC AND EASY FOR YOU TO LEARN, GROW AND UPGRADE YOUR SKILLS EVERY AY AND EVERY WEEK.

                   THE AVERAGE ADULT WATCHES ABOUT FIVE HOURS OF TELEVISION EACH DAY. FOR SOME PEOPLE, IT IS SEVEN OR EIGHT HOURS. THEY TURN ON THE TELEVISION FIRST THING IN THE MORNING AND WATCH IT UNTIL  THEY LEAVE FOR WORK. THEY TURN IT BACK ON AS SOON AS THEY GET HOME FROM WORK. THEY THEN WATCH TELEVISION UNTIL 11 OR 12 O'CLOCK AT NIGHT, GOING TO BED WITHOUT ENOUGH TIME TO GET A GOOD NIGHTS SLEEP. THEY THEN GET UP IN THE MORNING, DRINK COFFEE, AND WATCH TELEVISION FOR AS LONG AS THEY CAN BEFORE THEY GO OFF TO WORK ONCE MORE.

                                           YOU CAN BE RICH OR POOR :

                                                        IT'S YOUR DECISION

                    YOUR TELEVISION SET CAN MAKE YOU RICH OR POOR. IF YOU WATCH IN ALL THE TIME, IT WILL MAKE YOU POOR. PSYCHOLOGISTS HAVE SHOWN THAT THE MORE TELEVISION YOU WATCH, THE LOWER ARE YOUR LEVELS OF ENERGY AND SELF-ESTEEM. AT AN UNCONSCIOUS LEVEL, YOU DON'T LIKE OR RESPECT YOURSELF AS MUCH IF YOU SIT THERE HOUR AFTE RHOUR WATCHING TELEVISION. PEOPLE WHO WATCH TOO MUCH TELEVISION ALSO GAIN WEIGHT AND BECOME PHYSICALLY UNFIT FROM SITTING AROUND TOO MUCH.

                    YOUR TELEVISION CAN ALSO MAKE YOU RICH -BUT ONLY IF YOU TURN IT OFF. WHEN YOU TURN OFF YOUR TELEVISION, YOU FREE UP TIME THAT YOU CAN THEN USE TO INVEST IN BECOMING A BETTER, SMARTER, AND MORE COMPETENT PERSON. WHEN YOU LEAVE YOUR TELEVISION OFF WHEN YOU ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY. YOU WILL FIND YOURSELF TALKING, SHARING, COMMNUCATING, AND LAUGHING MORE PERIODS OF TIME, YOU BREAK THE HABIT OF WATCHING TELEVISION - AND YOU WILL HARDLY MISS IT AT ALL. YOUR TELEVISION CAN BE AND EXCELLENT SERVANT, BUT IT'S A TERRIBLE MASTER. THE CHOICE IS YOURS.

                                INCREASE YOUR INCOME 1000 PERCENT

                    THERE IS A SIMPLE SEVEN-STEP FORMULA YOU CAN USE IN ORDER TO INCREASE YOUR PRODUCTIVITY, PERFORMANCE, OUTPUT, AND INCOME BY 1000 PERCENT OVER THE NEXT TEN YEARS. IT WORKS FOR EVERYONE WHO TRIES IT. IT IS SIMPLE:

                      FIRST, ANSWER THIS QUESTION : IS IT POSSIBLE FOR YOU TO INCREASE YOUR OVERALL PRODUCTIVITY, PERFORMANCE, AND OUTPUT BY 1/10 OF 1 PERCENT (I/1000TH) IN AN ENTIRE WORKING DAY? YOUR ANSWER WILL PROBABLY BE "YES" . IF YOU WERE TO MANAGE YOUR TIME A LITTLE BETTER, AND WORK ON MORE VALUABLE TASKS, YOU WOULD QUITE EASILY INCREASE YOUR OUTPUT BY 1/1000 IN A DAY.

                 HAVING DONE THIS FOR THE FIRST DAY, COULD YOU INCREASE YOUR OUTPUT BY 1/10 OF 1 PERCENT THE SECOND DAY? AND THE ANSWER, OF COURSE, IS "YES".

                    HAVING INCREASED YOUR PERFORMANCE BY 1/10 OF 1 PERCENT ON MONDAY AND TUESDAY, COULD YOU CONTINUE TO DO IT FOR WEDNESDAY, THURSDAY, AND FRIDAY? AND AGAIN, THE ANSWER IS "YES".

FORMULA FOR THE TOP

 

          

                           SEVEN STEPS TO THE TOP

                  HERE ARE THE SEVEN STEPS IN THE 1000 PERCENT FORMULA

                              

            STEP 1 :

                               ARISE TWO HOURS BEFORE YOUR FIRST APPOINTMENT, OR BEFORE YOU HAVE TO BE AT WORK. INVEST THE FIRST HOUR IN YOURSELF BY READING SOMETHING EDUCATIONAL, MOTIVATIONAL, OR SPIRITUAL. AS HENRY WARD BEECHER ONCE SAID, "THE FIRST HOUR IS THE RUDDER OF THE DAY".

                     WHEN YOU GET UP AND INVEST THE FIRST HOUR IN YOURSELF, YOU SET YOURSELF UP MENTALLY TO HAVE AN EXCELLENT DAY. YOU WILL BE MORE POSITIVE, ALERT, CREATIVE, AND PRODUCTIVE ALL DAY LONG WHEN YOU START YOUR DAY BY INVESTING THE FIRST HOUR IN YOURSELF.

                     IF YOU READ IN YOUR FIELD ONE HOUR PER DAY, THAT WILL TRANSLATE INTO ABOUT ONE BOOK PER WEEK. ONE BOOK PER WEEK WILL TRANSLTE INTO ABOUT FIFTY BOOK PER YEAR. SINCE THE AVERAGE ADULT READ LESS THAN ONE NONFICTION BOOK PER YEAR, IF YOU WERE TO READ FIFTY BOOK IN YOUR FIELD EACH YEAR, DO YOU THINK THAT WOULD GIVE YOU AN EDGE IN YOUR PROFESSION? DO YOU THINK THAT IT WOULD MOVE YOU AHEAD OF VIRTUALLY EVERYONE ELSE IN YOUR BUSINESS ? OF COURSE IT WOULD!.

                   IF YOU READ FIFTY BOOKS PER YEAR FOR TEN YEARS, THIS WOULD BE 500 BOOKS THAT WOULD HELP YOU IMPROVE YOUR PRODUCTIVITY, PERFORMANCE, AND INCOME. AT THE VERY LEAST, YOU WOULD NEED A BIGGER HOUSE JUST TO HOLD YOUR BOOKS. AND YOU WOULD BE ABLE TO AFFORD IT!.

                 READING ONE HOUR PER DAY IN YOUR FIELD WILL MAKE YOU A NATIONAL AUTHORITY IN THREE TO FIVE YEARS. THIS ALONE CAN GIVE YOU YOUR 1000 PERCENT INCREASE OVER THE COURSE OF YOUR CAREER.

                          STEP 2

                              REWRITE YOUR GOALS, EVERY DAY. GET A SPIRAL NOTEBOOK AND REWRITE YOUR MAJOR GOALS IN THE PRESENT TENSE EVERY MORNING BEFORE YOU START OUT, WITHOUT LOOKING BACK AT WHAT YOU WROTE THE PREVIOUS DAY. THIS WRITING AND REWRITING IS THE PROCESS OF PROGRAMMING INSTRUCTIONS INTO THE GUIDANCE MECHANISM OF YOUR MIND.

                             WHEN YOU REWRITE YOUR TEN GOALS EACH MORNING, YOU WILL CONTINUALLY SEE AND THINK TEN GOALS OPPORTUNITIES TO ACHIEVE CHANNELED, AND DIRECTED. YOU WILL BE MORE PURPOSEFUL AND DETERMINED. AND YOU WILL ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS MUCH FASTER THAN IF THEY WERE MERELY WISHES FLOATING AROUND IN THE BACK OF YOUR MIND.

                            WRITING AND REWRITING YOUR GOALS EACH DAY CAN GIVE YOU YOUR 1000 PERCENT INCREASE IN INCOME OVER TEN YEARS.

                            STEP 3 :

                                        PLAN EVERY DAY IN ADVANCE. MAKE A LIST, AND SET PRIORITIES ON YOUR WORK BEFORE YOU START OFF. YOUR ABILITY TO SET PRIORITIES AND TO CHOOSE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THAT YOU CAN BE DOING AT EVERY MOMENT IS THE KEY TO ORGANIZING YOUR LIFE AND DOUBLING YOUR PRODUCTIVITY. (WE WILL TALK IN DETAIL ABOUT TIME MANAGEMENT TECHNIQUE IN CHAPTER 12)

                                  WORKING ON YOUR TOP PRIORITIES CAN INCREASE YOUR INCOME BY 1000 PERCENT OVER TEN YEARS, AND IT IS PROBABLY IMPOSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE WITHOUT IT.

                            STEP 4 :

                                      DISCIPLINE YOURSELF TO CONCENTRATE SINGLE MINDEDLY ON ONE THING. CHOOSE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THAT YOU CAN DO EACH DAY. THEN, START ON IT FIRST THING AND THEN WORK ON IT UNTIL IT IS 1000 PERCENT COMPLETE. YOUR ABILITY TO FOCUS AND CONCENTRATE, WHEN YOU DEVELOP AND HONE IT INTO A HABIT, ALL BY ITSELF, WILL ENABLE YOU TO DOUBLE YOUR PRODUCTIVITY, PERFORMANCE, AND OUTPUT IN THE NEXT MONTH - AND IT WILL GIVE YOU YOUR 1000 PERCENT INCREASE OVER TEN YEARS.

                             STEP 5 :

                          LISTEN TO EDUCATIONAL AUDIO PROGRAMS IN YOUR CAR. THE AVERAGE BUSINESSPERSON WHO DRIVES SPENDS 500-1000 HOURS PER YEAR BEHIND THE WHELL OF A CAR. WHEN YOU TURN YOUR CAR INTO A "UNIVERSITY ON WHEELS" OR A "MOBILE CLASSROOM", YOU GET THE EDUCATIONAL EQUIVALENT OF ONE TO TWO FULL-TIME UNIVERSITY SEMESTERS AS YOU DRIVE AROUND.

                      MANY PEOPLE HAVE GONE FROM RAGS TO RICHES BY SIMPLY LISTENING TO EDUCATIONAL AUDIO PROGRAMS IN THEIR CARS AS THEY DRIVE FROM PLACE TO PLACE. YOU COULD DO THE SAME. THIS ALONE COULD GIVE YOU YOUR 1000 PERCENT  INCREASE.

                       STEP 6 :

                           ASK TWO MAGIC QUESTIONS AFTER EVERY CALL OR EVENT. FIRST, ASK YOURSELF, "WHAT DID I DO RIGHT?' THEN, ASK YOURSELF, WHAT WOULD I DO DIFFERENTLY?

                          THE FIRST QUESTION, "WHAT DID I DO RIGHT? FORCES YOU TO THINK THROUGH AND RECALL ALL THE CORRECT THINGS THAT YOU DID IN THAT LAS MEETING, PRESENTATION, OR EVENT, EVEN IF IT WAS NOT SUCCESSFUL. WRITE THEM DOWN.

                       THE SECOND QUESTION, "WHAT WOULD I DO DIFFERENTLY?" FORCES YOU TO THINK THROUGH ALL THE DIFFERENT WAYS YOU COULD IMPROVE YOUR PERFORMANCE IN A SIMILAR SITUATION. WRITE THESE IDEAS DOWN AS WELL.

                    IN BOTH CASES, BY REVIEWING YOUR PERFORMANCE, BY THINKING ABOUT WHAT YOU DID RIGHT AND WHAT YOU WOULD DO DIFFERENTLY, YOU PROGRAM YOURSELF TO PERFORM EVEN BETTER THE NEXT TIME. THIS IS NOT OF THE FASTEST AND MOST POWERFUL EXERCISES IN PERSONAL GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT I HAVE EVER DISCOVERED. THIS PROCESS DRAMATICALLY SPEEDS UP THE RATE AT WHICH YOU MOVE INTO THE TOP 20 PERCENT.

                    STEP 7 :

                        TREAT EVERY PERSON YOU MEET LIKE A MILLION - DOLLAR CUSTOMER. TREAT EACH PERSON YOU MEET AND WORK WITH, BOTH AT HOME AND IN THE OFFICE, AS THOUGH HE OR SHE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN THE WORLD. WHEN YOU TREAT PEOPLE AS IF THEY ARE VALUABLE AND IMPORTANT, THEY WILL RETURN THE FAVOR BY TREATING YOU AS IF YOU  ARE VALUABLE AND IMPORTANT AS WELL. THEY WILL WANT TO BE ASSOCIATED WITH YOU, WORK FOR YOU, BUY FROM YOU, AND INTRODUCE YOU TO THEIR FRIENDS.

                       YOU BEGIN TREATING PEOPLE LIKE MILLION- DOLLAR CUSTOMERS BY STARTING AT HOME, WITH THE MEMBER OF YOUR FAMILY. REMEMBER, THEY ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE. SO WHEN YOU START YOUR DAY WELL, FIRST THING IN THE MORNING, BY MAKING THE MEMBERS OF YOUR FAMILY FEEL IMPORTANT AND TELLING THEM THAT YOU LOVE THEM, YOU WILL BE MORE POSITIVE, RELAXED, AND HAPPIER FOR THE REST OF THE DAY.

               FULLY 85 PERCENT OF YOUR SUCCESS WILL BE DETERMINED BY HOW MUCH PEOPLE LIKE AND RESPECT YOU, ESPECIALLY IN BUSINESS AND SALES. NEVER MISS AN OPPORTUNITY TO TREAT PEOPLE WELL.

                 WHEN YOU PRACTICE THESE SEVEN STEPS EACH DAY FOR A MONTH, YOU WILL SEE CHANGES AND IMPROVEMENTS IN YOUR LIFE, WORK, AND INCOME THAT WILL ASTONISH YOU. AFTER A MONTH OF REGULAR PRACTICE, YOU WILL HAVE FORMED A NEW HABIT OF CONTINUOUS PERSONAL IMPROVEMENT THAT CAN CARRY YOU ONWARD AND UPWARD FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.

LEADERSHIP

 

                     SEVEN PRINCIPLES OF LEADERSHIP

                        TO BE AN EFFECTIVE LEADER, THERE ARE SEVEN PRINCIPLES YOU MUST INCORPORATE INTO YOUR LEADERSHIP BEHAVIOR AND ACTIVITIES.

                        1. CLARITY : THIS IS PERHAPS YOUR MOST IMPORTANT  RESPONSIBILITY. YOU MUST BE ABSOLUTELY CLEAR ABOUT WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU STAND FOR. YOU MUST BE ABSOLUTELY CLEAR ABOUT VISION AND WHERE YOU WANT TO LEAD YOUR PEOPLE. YOU MUST BE ABSOLUTELY CLEAR ABOUT THE GOALS AND OBJECTIVES OF THE ORGANIZATION AND HOW THEY ARE TO BE OBTAINED. 

                         ESPECIALLY, YOU MUST BE ABSOLUTELY CLEAR ABOUT THE VALUES, MISSION, AND PURPOSE OF THE ORGANIZATION AND WHAT IT STANDS FOR, EVERYONE AROUND YOU AND BELOW YOU MUST KNOW EXACTLY WHY THEY ARE DOING WHAT THEY DO AND WHAT THEIR COMPANY HAS BEEN FORMED TO ACCOMPLISH.

                     2. COMPETENCE : AS THE LEADER, YOU MSUT SET A STANDARD OF EXCELLENT PERFORMANCE, FOR THE ORGANIZATION AS WELL AS FOR EVERY PERSON AND FUNCTION IN THE COMPANY. YOUR GOAL MUST BE FOR YOUR COMPANY TO BE AS GOOD AS, OR BETTER THAN, YOUR VERY BEST COMPETITOR. YOU MUST BE CONTINUALLY SEEKING WAYS TO IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR PRODUCTS AND SERVICES TO YOUR CUSTOMERS.

                      3. COMMITMENT : THE LEADER IS ABSOLUTELY COMMITTED TO THE SUCCESS OF THE ORGANIZATION AND BELIEVS COMPLETELY THAT THIS ORGANIZATION IS THE BEST IN THE BUSINESS OR WILL BE THE BEST IN THE FUTURE. THIS PASSIONATE COMMITMENT TO THE ORGANIZATION - AND TO SUCCESS AND ACHIEVEMENT - MOTIVATES AND INSPIRES PEOPLE TO DO THEIR BEST WORK AND PUT THEIR WHOLE HEARTS INTO THEIR JOBS. 

                     4. CONSTRAINTS : THE JOB OF THE LEADER IS TO IDENTIFY THE CONSTRAINST OR LIMITING FACTORS THAT SET THE SPEED AT WHICH THE COMPANY ACHIEVES ITS MOST IMPORTANT GOALS OF REVENUE AND PROFITABILITY. THE LEADER THEN ALLOCATES PEOPLE AND RESOURCES TO ALLEVIATE THOSE CONSTRAINTS AND REMOVE THE OBSTACLES SO IT CAN PERFORM AS ONE OF THE BEST IN THE INDUSTRY.

                      5. CREATIVITY : THE LEADER IS OPEN TO NEW IDEAS OF ALL KINDS AND FROM ALL SOURCES. THE LEADER IS CONTINUALLY ENCOURAGING PEOPLE TO FIND FASTER, BETTER, CHEAPER, AND EASIER WAYS TO PRODUCE EXCELLENT PRODUCTS AND SERVICES AND TO TAKE BETTER CARE OF CUSTOMERS.

                      6. CONTINUOUS LEARNING : THE LEADER IS PERSONALLY COMMITTED TO READING, LISTENING, AND UPGRADING HIS OR HER PERSONAL KNOWLEDGE AND SKILLS AS AN EXECUTIVE. THE LEADER SHOULD ATTEND ADDITIONAL SEMINARS AND COURSES TO IMPROVE HIS OR HER SKILLS AND ABILITIES.

                       AT THE SAME TIME, THE LEADER ENCOURAGES EVERYONE IN THE ORGANIZATION TO LEARN AND GROW AS A NORMAL AND NATURAL PART OF BUSINESS LIFE. THE LEADER PROVIDES TIME AND RESOURCES FOR TRAINING AND DEVELOPMENT. THE LEADER KNOWS THAT THE BEST COMPANIES HAVE THE BEST-TRAINED PEOPLE. THE SECOND-BEST COMPANIES HAVE THE SECOND-BEST TRAINED PEOPLE. AND THE THIRD-TRAINED PEOPLE - AND ARE ON THEIR WAY OUT OF BUSINESS.

                       7. CONSISTENCY : THE LEADERHAS THE SELF-DISCIPLINE TO BE CONSISTENT, DEPENDABLE, RELIABLE, CALM, AND PREDICTABLE IN ALL SITUATIONS. ONE OF THE GREAT COMFORTS OF BUSINESS LIFE IS FOR AN EMPLOYEE TO KNOW THAT THE LEADER IS COMPLETELY CONSISTENT AND RELIABLE. AN EFFECTIVE LEADER DOES NOT CHANGE FROM DAY TO DAY. THE LEADER IS NOT "BLOWN IN THE WIND" BY EACH NEW SITUATION, PROBLEM, OR EMERGENCY THAT ARISES. INSTEAD, THE LEADER IS CALM, POSITIVE, AND CONFIDENT - ESPECIALLY UNDER PRESSURE..

                                     A LEADER IS A STANDARD BEARER

                            THE LEADER SETS THE  STANDARD FOR THE ORGANIZATION. IT IS NOT POSSIBLE FOR ANYONE IN THE ORGANIZATION TO HAVE A CLEARER VISION OR TO ASPIRE TO A HIGHER STANDARD OF EXCELLENCE THAN THE LEADER. FOR THIS REASON, THE LEADER IS THE ROLE MODEL, THE ONE WHO SET THE TONE AND THE MORALE FOR EVERYONE IN THE ORGANIZATION. THE PERSONALITY AND INFLUENCE OF THE LEADER AFFECT EVERYONE BELOW HIM IN THE COMPANY, ORGANIZATION, OR DEPARTEMENT.

                           YOU CANNOT RAISE MORALE IN A BUSINESS, IT FILTERS DOWN FROM THE TOP, FROM THE LEADER. THE BEHAVIOR OF THE LEADER INFLUENCES AND AFFECTS THE BEHAVIOR OF EVERYONE ELSE. IF THE LEADER IS POSITIVE, CONFIDENT, AND UPBEAT, EVERYONE IN THE ORGANIZATION WILL BE INFLUENCED BY THIS BEHAVIOR AND WILL BE MORE POSITIVE, CONFIDENT, AND UPBEAT AS WELL.

                                                    WALK THE TALK

                          WHEN YOU BECOME A LEADER, YOU MUST DISCIPLINE YOURSELF TO BE "LEADERLIKE". YOU MUST WALK, TALK, AND ACT THE PART OF A LEADER. YOU BECOME A DIFFERENT PERSON WITH DIFFERENT RESPONSIBILITIES.

                           WHEN YOU ARE WORKING YOUR WAY UP, YOU ARE PART OF THE STAFF OR THE SALES TEAM. WHEN YOU BECOME A MANAGER, YOU ARE PART OF MANAGEMENT. THIS MEANS THAT WHEN YOU ARE PART OF THE STAFF, YOUR ORIENTATION IS UPWARD AND SIDEWAYS, BUT WHEN YOU BECOME A LEADER, YOUR ORIENTATION IS DOWNWARD, TOWARD ALL THE PEOPLE FOR WHOM YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE.

                         PERHAPS THE MOST IMPORTANT BEHAVIOR OF A LEADER IS FOR YOU TO DISCIPLINE YOURSELF TO BE A ROLE MODEL. IMAGINE THAT EVERYONE IS WATCHING YOU AND PATTERNING EVERYTHING THEY DO AND SAY BASED ON YOUR BEHAVIOR.

                       WHEN YOU BECOME A LEADER YOU NO LONGER HAVE THE LUXURY TO "LET  IT ALL HANG OUT". FROM THE TIME YOU ARE PROMOTED INTO LEADERSHIP, YOU HAVE A SPECIAL RESPONSIBILITY TO DISCIPLINE AND CONTROL YOUR WORDS AND BEHAVIORS IN SUCH A WAY SO THAT YOU BRING ABOUT THE POSSIBLE RESULTS FOR YOUR ORGANIZATION AND FOR OTHER PEOPLE.

                                                      SET THE STANDARDS

                       THE LEADER SETS THE STANDARDS FOR THE ORGANIZATION'S BEHAVIOR QUALITY OF WORK, PERSONAL ORGANIZATION, TIME MANAGEMENT, AND APPEARANCE. IN EXCELLENT ORGANIZATIONS, THE LEADER IS THE PERSON WHO EVERYONE LOOKS UP TO AND WANTS TO EMULATE.

                       IN MOST CASES, THE LEADER WORKS HARDER THAN OTHERS IN THE COMPANY. THE LEADER APPEARS TO BE MORE COMMITTED, DETERMINED, COURAGES, VISIONARY, AND PERSISTANT THAN ANYONE ELSE. THE LEADER SET S  TONE THAT EVERYONE WANTS TO EMULATE.

                   THE LEADER ALSO SETS THE STANDARD  FOR HOW PEOPLE ARE TREATED IN THE ORGANIZATION. WHEN THE LEADER TREATS PEOPLE WITH COURTESY, CONSIDERATION, AND CONCERN, IT QUICKLY BECOMES KNOWN THAT THESE ARE THE STANDARDS TO WHICH OTHERS MUST ADHERE.

                                           SET VALUES AND PRINCIPLES

                IN ADDITION TO A CLEAR VISION FOR THE ORGANIZATION, THE LEADER MUST HAVE A SET OF VALUES AND ORGANIZING PRINCIPLES THAT GUIDE BEHAVIOR  AND DECISION MAKING. EVERYONE MUST KNOW WHAT THE LEADER AND THE COMPANY STAND FOR AND BELIEVE IN. THE JOB OF THE LEADER, THEN , IS TO ARTICULATE THIS VISION OF EXCELLENT PERFORMANCE WITHIN THE CONSTANTS OF HIGH ETHICAL STANDARDS AT ALL TIMES. HE OR SHE MUST WALK THE TALK AND LIVE THE VALUES AND BEHAVIOR HE OR SHE TEACHES.

                      THE VERY BEST STANDARD FOR A LEADER IS THE GOLDEN RULE. "DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE THEM DO UNTO YOU".

                      FOR EXAMPLE, WHEN JACK WELCH WAS THE PRESIDENT OF GENERAL ELECTRIC, HE ENCOURAGED MANAGERS TO TREAT EACH EMPOYEE AS IF THAT EMPLOYEE MIGHT BE PROMOTED OVER HIS HEAD SOMETIME IN THE FUTURE AND HE MIGHT FIND HIMSELF WORKING UNDER THE PERSON WHO IS NOW WORKING BELOW HIM. THIS WAY OF THINKING ENSURED THAT MANAGERS TREATED THEIR STAFF WITH A HIGH DEGREE OF RESPECT AND COURTESY.

SET GOAL TO YOUR LIFE

 

                  

                            TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

                          ARISTOTLE WROTE THAT HUMAN BEINGS ARE TELEOLOGICAL ORGANISMS, WHICH SIMPLY MEANS THAT WE ARE PURPOSE DRIVEN. THEREFORE, YOU FEEL HAPPY AND IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE ONLY WHEN YOU HAVE A CLEAR GOAL THAT YOU ARE WORKING TOWARD EACH DAY. THIS ALSO MEANS THAT THIS ABILITY TO BECOME A LIFELONG GOAL SETTER IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT DISCIPLINES YOU WILL EVER DEVELOP.

                    IN  NATURE, THE HOMING PIGEON IS A REMARKABLE BIRD. IT HAS AN UNCANNY INSTINCT THAT ENABLES IT TO FLY BACK TO  ITS HOME ROOST, NO MATTER HOW FAR AWAY IT STARTS OR IN WHAT DIRECTION IT MUST GO. YOU CAN TAKE A HOMING PIGEON OUT OF ITS ROOTS, PUT IT IN A CAGE, PUT THE CAGE IN A BOX, COVER THE BOX WITH A BLANKET, AND PUT THE COVERED BOX IN THE BACK OF A PICKUP TRUCK. YOU COULD THEN DRIVE 1000 MILES IN ANY DIRECTION, OPEN UP THE TRUCK, TAKE OUT THE BOX, TAKE OFF THE BLANKET, OPEN THE CAGE, AND THROW THE HOMING PIGEON INTO THE AIR.

                THE HOMING PIGEON WILL CIRCLE THREE TIMES, GET ITS BEARINGS, AND THEN FLY STRAIGHT BACK TO ITS HOME ROOST. THIS IS THE ONLY CREATURES ON EARTH THAT HAS THIS ABILITY - EXCEPT FOR HUMAN BEINGS, EXCEPT FOR YOU.

                 YOU ALSO HAVE THIS REMARKABLE HOMING ABILITY WITHIN YOUR OWN BRAIN, BUT WITH ONE SPECIAL DIFFERENCE . THE HOMING PIGEON SEEMS TO KNOW INSTINCTIVELY EXACTLY WHERE ITS HOME ROOST IS LOCATED. IT THEN HAS THE ABILITY TO FLY DIRECTLY BACK TO THAT ROOST. IN CONTRAST, WHEN HUMAN BEINGS PROGRAM A GOAL INTO THEIR MINDS THEY CAN THEN SET OUT WITHOUT HAVING ANY IDEA WHERE THEY WILL GO OR HOW THEY WILL ACHIEVE THAT GOAL. BUT BY SOME MIRACLE, THEY WILL BEGIN TO MOVE UNERRINGLY TOWARD THAT GOAL, AND THE GOAL WILL BEGIN TO MOVE TOWARD THEM.

                 STILL, MANY PEOPLED ARE HESITANT TO SET GOALS. THEY SAY, " I WANT TO BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT, BUT I HAVE NO IDEA HOW I'M GOINT TO GET THERE". AS A RESULT, THEY DON'T EVEN SET FINANCIAL SUCCESS AS A GOAL. BUT THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT YOU DON'T EVEN SET FINANCIAL SUCCESS AS A GOAL. BUT THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT YOU DON'T NEED TO KNOW HOW TO GET THERE. YOU JUST, NEED TO BE CLEAR ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT TO ACCOMPLISH, AND THE GOAL-STIVING MECHANISM IN YOUR BRAIN WILL GUIDE YOU UNERRINGLY TO YOUR DESTINATION.

                FOR EXAMPLE, YOU CAN DECIDE THAT YOU ARE GOING TO FIND YOUR IDEAL JOB, IN WHICH YOU WORK FOR AND WITH PEOPLE YOU LIKE AND RESPECT AND DO WORK THAT IS BOTH CHALLENGING AND ENJOYABLE. YOU TAKE SOME TIME TO WRITE DOWN AN EXACT DESCRIPTION OF WHAT YOUR IDEAL JOB AND WORKPLACE WOULD LOOK LIKE, AND THEN YOU GO OUT INTO THE JOB MARKET AND BEGIN SEARCHING.

               AFTER A SERIES OF INTERVIEWS, YOU WILL OFTEN WALK INTO THE RIGHT PLACE AT THE RIGHT TIME AND FIND YOURSELF IN EXACTLY THE RIGHT THE RIGHT JOB. ALMOST EVERYONE HAS HAD THIS EXPERIENCE AT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER. YOU CAN HAVE IT BY DESIGN RATHER THAN BY CHANCE SIMPLY BY DEVELOPING ABSOLUTE CLARITY ABOUT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT.

                                              THE TEN-GOAL EXERCISE

                      THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST POWERFUL GOAL-ACHIEVING METHODS I HAVE EVER DISCOVERED. I TEACH IT ALL OVER THE WORLD, AND I PRACTICE IT MYSELF ALMOST EVERY DAY.

                    TAKE OUT A CLEAN SHEET OF PAPER. AT THE TOP OF THE PAGE WRITE THE WORD "GOALS" AND TODAY'S DATE. THEN, DISCIPLINE YOURSELF TO WRITE DOWN TEN GOALS THAT YOU'D LIKE TO ACCOMPLISH IN THE NEXT TWELVE MONTHS. WRITE DOWN FINACIAL FAMILY GOALS, AND FITNESS GOALS, AS WELL AS GOALS FOR PERONAL POSSESSIONS, LIKE A HOUSE OR A CAR.

                  DONT' WORRY FOR THE MOMENT ABOUT HOW YOU ARE GOING TO ACHIEVE THESE GOALS. JUST WRITE THEM DOWN AS QUICKLY AS YOU CAN. YOU CAN WRITE AS MANY AS FIFTEEN GOALS IF YOU LIKE, BUT THIS EXERCISE, REQUIRES THAT YOU WRITE DOWN A MINIMUM OF TEN WITHIN THREE TO FIVE MINUTES.

                                                        SELECT ONE GOAL

                    ONCE YOU HAVE WRITTEN OUT YOUR TEN GOALS, IMAGINE FOR THE MOMENT THAT YOU CAN ACHIEVE ALL OF THE GOALS ON YOUR LIST IF YOU WANT THEM LONG ENOUGH AND HARD ENOUGH. ALSO IMAGINE THAT YOU HAVE A "MAGIC WAND" THAT YOU CAN WAVE THAT WILL ENABLE TO ACHIEVE ANY ONE GOAL ON YOUR LIST WITHIN TWENTY-FOUR HOURS.

                   IF YOU COULD ACHIEVE ANY ONE GOAL ON YOUR LIST WITHIN TWENTY-FOUR HOURS, WHICH ONE WOURL HAVE THE GREATEST POSITIVE IMPACT ON YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW? WHICH ONE GOAL WOULD CHANGE OR IMPROVE YOUR LIFE MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE? WHICH ONE GOAL, IF YOU WERE TO ACHIEVE IT, WOULD HELP YOU TO ACHIEVE MORE OF YOUR OTHER GOALS THAN ANYTHING ELSE?

                WHATEVER YOUR ANSWER TO THIS QUESTION, PUT A CIRCLE AROUND THIS GOAL  AND THEN WRITE IT AT THE TOP OF A CLEAN SHEET OF PAPER. THIS GOAL THEN BECOMES YOUR "MAJOR DEFINITE PURPOSE". 

                         ACTION EXERCISE  :

                          1. RESOLVE TODAY TO "SWITCH ON" YOUR SUCCESS MECHANISM AND UNLOCK YOUR GOAL-ACHIEVING MECHANISM BY DECIDING EXACTLY WHAT YOU REALLY WANT IN LIFE.

                         2. MAKE A LIST OF TEN GOALS THAT YOU WAT TO ACHIEVE IN THE FORESEEABLE FUTURE. WRITE THEM DOWN IN THE PRESENT TENSE, AS IF YOU HAVE ALREADY ACHIEVED THEM.

                        3. SELECT THE ONE GOAL THAT COULD HAVE THE GREATEST POSITIVE IMPACT ON YOUR LIFE IF YOU WERE TO ACHIEVE IT, AND WRITE IT DOWN AT THE TOP OF ANOTHER PIECE OF PAPER.

                        4. MAKE A LIST OF EVERYTHING YOU COULD DO TO ACHIEVE THIS GOAL, ORGANIZE IT BY SEQUENCE AND PRIORITY, AND THEN TAKE ACTION ON IT IMMEDIATELY.

                      5. PRACTICE MINDSTORMING BY WRITING OUT TWENTY IDEAS THAT COULD HELP YOU ACHIEVE YOUR MOST IMPORTANT GOAL, AND THEN TAKE ACTION ON AT LEAST ONE OF THOSE IDEAS.

                       6. RESOLVE TO DO SOMETHING EVERY DAY, SEVEN DAYS A WEEK, TO ACHIEVE YOUR MOST IMPORTANT GOAL UNTIL YOU ARE SUCCESSFUL.

                      7. CONTINUALLY REMIND YOURSELF THAT "FAILURE IS NOT AN OPTION". NO MATTER WHAT, RESOLVE TO PERSIST UNTIL YOU SUCCEED.